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    i'm new to all this, but i have 1 guy that has brought private dances from me each time i work, he wants to ad me on face book but i have said no

    but he likes blowing on me, makes me bend over in front of him and he push's me bum apart and blows on my privates, i just smile as i know its repeat bussiness, but its strange, its just him so far

    does any one else have strange things customers do?

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    If a guy spread my butt cheeks like that and blew on my kitty he'd be leaving with a slap mark on his face and bruised balls.

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    This is gross. How did he find you on Facebook unless it was your stage persona?

    I've encountered many weird guys. There was armpit man, and man who liked me to call him names, to the scum who wanted me to tell him stories of killing dogs and cats (I declined this because I can't talk about something so awful without crying).

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    Quote Originally Posted by sammyg View Post
    i'm new to all this, but i have 1 guy that has brought private dances from me each time i work, he wants to ad me on face book but i have said no

    but he likes blowing on me, makes me bend over in front of him and he push's me bum apart and blows on my privates, i just smile as i know its repeat bussiness, but its strange, its just him so far

    does any one else have strange things customers do?

    EW why dont you let him do that??

    have you developed any sense of boundaries?
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    Gross - thats waaaaay too personal.
    But I don't even bend over when I'm naked.

    I do have one customer who likes to have his belly rubbed. Its a little odd, but not too perverse so I'm happy to oblige.

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    Yikes, facebook? I'd definitely be creeped out. Ugh, I hate when they blow on me, too. What, is that supposed to turn me on??

    Jeez where do I start? lol I'll try and pick just a few....I work in a friction club and I HATE it when a guy grabs me by the hips and tries to rock me back and forth against his crotch. Gross, I am not a sex toy. Any kind of action where they try to control what I do pisses me off. I'm the one giving the lap dance.

    I also hate it when they blow or try and lick in my ears, ask me sexual questions, pull at my thong - like giving me a reverse wedgie *wtf? ouch*, make noises during a dance, or try to literally hump me. I guess these things aren't too out of the ordinary, but they're the first that come to mind.

    I can't dance for fetish custies either. I've tried to dance for submissives and foot fetish guys before, but I'm too creeped out. I have nothing against them, but I just can't handle it. For one, I'm a submissive myself and I can't dominate and two I don't like my feet touched. A customer once asked me to pee in his drink for $100...I ran away horrified. One of my coworkers happily obliged him tho, haha

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    My regular was just a big fuckin basket of crazy, with a million weird habits. Including....

    Petting my hair. He LOVED to stroke and pet my hair...which pisses me off after a couple hours of styling.

    He would just...stare at me, with these freaky looking bug eyes.

    He really, really, REALLY liked to give me these slobbery, gross kisses on my neck.

    He did this weird thing where he would just barely stick the tip of his tongue out and looked like an 8 year old boy who just saw his first pair of tits. Made me want to set him on fire.

    I could go on and on....

    I've had plenty of guys with fetishes. In fact, most of my guys have them, because I'm petite and could pass for a 12 year old. I've had guys who loooooooooooooved to touch my asshole, (and they got punched) stick their face between my butt cheeks, pull my thong up like wedgie style, etc. I've had countless men who loved to be bitten, scratched, slapped, etc. One day, I woke up and couldn't turn my head to the right because of this guy who was tossing me up and twisting me around like a pretzel.
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    Is this Strange Customer Habits or Strange Stripper Lapdance Boundaries?

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    There's a guy who comes in to see me once in a while who tries to lick my face. Like all over, chin to forehead, slobbery...gaaah, I can't even talk about it.

    The first time, he succeeded because he took me by surprise. Nowadays I still dance for him, but I'm very fast at dodging the tongue of doom.

    My GOD, that shit squicks me out.

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    THIS is what is wrong with stripping today!!!!! THIS is why the money sucks. Because guys get girls like you who let them do things like this and then don't buy from us good old fashioned honest and clean lapdancers.

    As someone who is about to come out of retirement (again) i beg you to quit or get some self-respect and standards.

    Stripping used to be an enjoyable profession. SMH

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post

    I've encountered many weird guys. There was armpit man.
    me too!! this guy wanted to smell them. i was horrified that maybe i smelled bad.......must be a pheromone thing??

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    Quote Originally Posted by spartaca View Post
    THIS is what is wrong with stripping today!!!!! THIS is why the money sucks. Because guys get girls like you who let them do things like this and then don't buy from us good old fashioned honest and clean lapdancers.

    As someone who is about to come out of retirement (again) i beg you to quit or get some self-respect and standards.

    Stripping used to be an enjoyable profession. SMH
    Hey, hey, hey. In all fairness, she's not talking about having sex in the back or giving BJs. She just had some weird nutcase, which we all encounter on a daily basis.

    I don't think anyone who has EVER stripped can honestly say they've never done anything outside of their comfort zones. And if you have, well, that's a sacrifice you make. I was squeamish when I first started, but as time went on, I thought, "ok, if you're really into me moaning like a whildebeest in the back, and you're paying me $500 to do it AND you're not asking for sex, then hell yes!"

    I've said over and over and over that girls who suck dick in the back are ruining it for the rest of us, but she just sounds like someone who knows how to play the game without actually turning tricks. I think in our desensitization to this industry, we do forget that it is the SEX industry. Guys have sexual fantasies that they pay strippers to take part in, at least to an extent, and if some girls can't handle that, then the rest of us aren't doing anything wrong.
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    also she said she's new, maybe she doesn't know better or thinks she has to do what everyone else does.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    Hey, hey, hey. In all fairness, she's not talking about having sex in the back or giving BJs. She just had some weird nutcase, which we all encounter on a daily basis.

    I don't think anyone who has EVER stripped can honestly say they've never done anything outside of their comfort zones. And if you have, well, that's a sacrifice you make. I was squeamish when I first started, but as time went on, I thought, "ok, if you're really into me moaning like a whildebeest in the back, and you're paying me $500 to do it AND you're not asking for sex, then hell yes!"

    I've said over and over and over that girls who suck dick in the back are ruining it for the rest of us, but she just sounds like someone who knows how to play the game without actually turning tricks. I think in our desensitization to this industry, we do forget that it is the SEX industry. Guys have sexual fantasies that they pay strippers to take part in, at least to an extent, and if some girls can't handle that, then the rest of us aren't doing anything wrong.
    Farrah is right. Easy girls. The girl is not actually doing anything wrong although it is pushing it.

    Definitely not something I would let happen but if I read correctly the OP said she was NEW so maybe she hasn't had anyone take her under their wing and show her right from wrong. Maybe that's the norm in her club?
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    Quote Originally Posted by azaleanola View Post
    Is this Strange Customer Habits or Strange Stripper Lapdance Boundaries?
    This. I'm kinda disgusted reading these stories
    At the same time, I too am guilty of letting my boundaries be pushed just slightly over what I comfortable with. It's embarrasing to think of shit like when that dude gave me a big smackaroo on the lips after a dance and I just stood there looking shocked.

    or when I sat in one's lap, and soon realized that the little bouncing motions he was doing allowed him to bust one on my ass.
    I still want to shoot that motherfucker. Grrr
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    I wont let guys spread my ass, but I'll do it for them. And I've so many guys blow on my privates. Idk why they do it, but as long as they aren't spitting on me I don't care.

    Anyways, I had one regular who'd grab onto the sides of the couch like he was holding on for dear life. And ye he'd growl at me. I always thought they should install handles for guys to grab rather than grabbing the dancers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by amareth View Post
    if a guy spread my butt cheeks like that and blew on my kitty he'd be leaving with a slap mark on his face and bruised balls.
    ditto.
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Honestly, NORMAL customers make me throw up in my mouth a little and they do that just by existing. At least the freaks pay well.
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    Blow on my ass and it's gonna blow back ... right in yer face. And I had the enchiladas today.

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    no he just wanted to ad me on face book and asked my email address, i said no
    but i added some girls i worked with and now i have a few friend requests from guys i don't know and some i do recognise from work, am not looking forward to tonight, i'm hoping they are not there asking why i have not accepted, is it better to ignore request, or decline?

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    How are customers finding you on facebook? Are you giving them your real name or e-mail? Are they finding you through the other girls you've accepted? You need to change your privacy settings if this is happening and maybe change your profile pic to one without you in it or where you can't clearly see it's you.

    Alternatively set up a new facebook page for your dancer persona, DO NOT make this profile friends with your actual profile and try not to have any mutual friends between them. This is the profile you can give to customers THAT SPEND to keep them updated on when you're working.

    I know you're only new to this but you need to wisen up girl! Guys will constantly try to push your boundaries and if you're letting them you'll hate yourself for it in the end.

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    i think i just thought i would be stripping, dancing nude
    private dances was a little different, but they pay me lots so i feel i must show them more than on stage
    i didn't think of the stalking side of it, i feel like they have stalked me, and then the strange things they do or want

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    When I was new I used to think this way too, luckily where I worked was strictly air dances but I used to get naked straight away and not let them but brush it off when they tried to grab me. Now it takes me about a full song to get naked and no-one grabs me without repercussions and you know what - I make a lot more.

    If you act cheap you will be treated as cheap. You say they spend a lot but do they really? I don't know if you're letting them do this on the first song or not but think about what $25 gets you - a small pizza and a six pack? A couple of cartons of cigarettes? A quarter tank of gas? Is that really worth letting some guy GRAB and SPREAD your butt cheeks so he can get off doing something that is disrespectful to you?

    You can't put a price on self respect and if these guys don't respect you (which if they're expecting you to do something you're not comfortable with - they don't. No matter what bs they spout) how are you going to go home at night and still respect yourself?

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    the butt cheek blower was a private dance, in both, $100 for 15minutes
    if i can get through uni with no debt, maybe if i make lots i could buy a house, i think this well set me up better than coming out of uni in debt and no house

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