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    Hi,

    I just started camming, and I had some questions that I couldn't find already answered on the forum (this place is wonderful, btw. I don't know how I could have started without this as a resource).

    Anyway, about MFC...

    1.) How long do you indulge a guy's private messages before asking him for a tip/private show?

    2.) What do you tell people when they ask where you are? It seems like everyone does and I'm not sure what to say.

    3.) I had a dude ask where I lived, and when I wouldn't tell him, he got pissy and told me I wasn't going to last long and my room would be empty in a few days. I laughed it off, and then he said people in the lounge had been saying I was rude and boring and "word spreads fast among the regulars". Yeah, thank you, random douchebag on the internet, that really cuts to the bone. I wasn't really sure how seriously to take it. Not very, I assume? But it did start me thinking that I might not be doing… enough? I've been watching other girls in public chat, and I think I am doing ok on that front - I dance around, try to engage people in conversation - but I am worried about private shows. I've done three or four, and it seems to go okay - I strip and touch myself, etc., but I am pretty vanilla and don't have any toys or anything like that.

    I would really appreciate some insight - I've only been doing this two days and it is a little overwhelming.

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    When asked location I just tell them my state, if you dont feel comfortable doing that then dont. Guys like to act big when in reality they are noone. Reading on advice is great, but in the end only pure experience will get you there. Just be yourself and keep at it, you will get there eventually .

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    Default Re: Questions from a newbie

    Also welcome to the forums.

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    Default Re: Questions from a newbie

    Yeah, MFC can be very overwhelming, mostly in the beginning, but it does get a lot easier once you are more comfortable with it and how it "works"

    PM's are totally up to you, some nights I will have mine set to friends only, other times I will have them open for all premiums. Don't waste time small talking in PM's and don't let it take away from your room/public though. It's okay to be nice for a bit, but a lot of guys who PM you just want to talk and won't tip or take you private, so it's up to you to draw the line on each individual. Sometimes answering sweetly to a PM = a nice big tip you wouldn't have got otherwise, so it all depends.

    LOCATION - Yes they will ALL ASK. ALL THE TIME. It sucks, it's annoying, but they will do it and they will continue to do it no matter what, so your job is to come up with your answer and stick to it. Many girls give a fake city/state, ect, I just say "I'm on the westcoast." which is true, and I leave it at that, they don't need to know exactly where, who cares. Plus most of these guys just assume westcoast = california, so apparently I am from Cali even though I have never said it. LOL. If they keep asking ignore them, they have no right to know, If they are trying to "scare you" into thinking you have to tell them to do well then that is total BS - they just know you are new and trying to take advantage of it. A lot of guys on MFC are very testy with the new models, trying to see if they will "last" so to say.

    Don't let ANYONE bully you around. You are the model, you make the rules, you are in charge. Remember that !! And if any asshole is getting on your nerves or making you uncomfortable just press that pretty little ban button.

    Goodluck, welcome to MFC and StripperWeb & keep us updated!

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