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    Angry Peeping Tom - what to do?

    Ok - bugger all to do with camming, but you guys are awesome with support in general, so here's a question: what to do about a peeping tom?

    I've had this guy who lives in the opposite building stare in at me for months. At first, I thought that maybe his window was just above the toilet, and he was peeing, or that he was standing in the hallway waiting for someone, or zoning out (I like to think the best of people). After a while though, I realized that this just made no sense. For one, I realized that the building is all cookie-cutter identical apartments, and I can see a different angle into the one below his - so I can see that there is nothing against the same wall as the window. There is also nothing else that he can see from these windows BUT my apartment (or the one next to me...either way). I also did some experiments - if I close the blinds in the living room, he will leave the window.

    I was on the verge of calling the police when it stopped a couple months ago. I thought maybe he had moved, so I put it out of my mind. But this week, I've noticed him again.

    I'm so sick of it, and I want to do SOMETHING. Obviously I keep the blinds shut when I am working, but I would like to be able to get some sun into the apartment if I am just cooking, or watching tv!!

    So what should I do?

    Should I report him to the building managers of his building? Or to the police? Should I report it now, or collect some proof - I have started logging dates and times that he is peeping, and I plan to take pictures the next time so I can prove what he is doing.

    Do I NEED evidence? Will it still be a valid complaint if it is just my word against his?

    I'm really concerned that I won't be taken seriously because I cam...that the police would find out somehow (or that he has noticed at some point..I have no idea how - maybe he found me online?? Or at the strip club when I worked there?) - that he would tell them, and they wouldn't take the complaint seriously because its "tempting him" or some other such shite. You guys know how people can be about working in this industry!!

    Any advice? Has anyone dealt with this before?
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    Default Re: Peeping Tom - what to do?

    I think speaking to your manager is a good idea, legally I dont know if you have somthing, but perhaps having people treat him like a creep, and give him a warning will get him to stop.

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    Get a shot gun, even a fake one that looks real. Everytime he watchs you clean it.
    He will soon get the message you are NOT the one to mess with.
    Point it at him a couple of time & laugh.
    Make him think you are CRAZY!

    Men dont like a crazy bitch who might shoot them. Put the fear in him for being so rude.

    Start inviting the biggest meanest looking men over to stare back at him.

    Obviously he is intimidating you so do the same to him.

    Never involve the police or management. They are powerless and really dont give a shit.
    Take a pic of him peeping, blow it up & put it in the window he stares at. Letting the world know he is a perv.

    Good Luck,
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    Horizontal Blinds allow sun but block view ......smh
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    [quote=FloraBell;2252712 I suggest getting a curtain rod and panel and position it about a foot below the top of the window. That way you'll still get sunlight into your room, but the bulk of his view will be blocked. You can even shorten the panel a few inches on the bottom for additional sunlight. And I know some companies manufacture solid blinds that drop from the top and the bottom. [/quote]

    Annoyingly, one of the reasons I love my apartment is that there is an ocean view! I'm really reticent to just keep the blinds closed, or even horizontally tilted - I want to be able to enjoy my gorgeous seawall view, even if half of it is blocked by this guy's apartment building and his creepy ass.

    Thanks for the concern and suggestions girls! Luckily he is old, so I'm not exactly physically worried - I'm pretty sure a good kick would break his hip or something! But I just want to live in my apartment like a normal person....not have to deal with living in a blackout. grrrrrrrrr
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Take a pic of him peeping, blow it up & put it in the window he stares at. Letting the world know he is a perv.

    Good Luck,
    Sam
    Good idea - but could this be considered harassment? Or slander? I obviously don't want to get in trouble from the police for MY behaviour, when they aren't going to do anything about HIS!

    For a while I would give him the finger before I shut the blinds, & considered putting up a "fuck you" sign-type thing, but then I wondered if that could be considered encouragement - the way that flashers get off on a reaction...

    I actually have a shotgun, though.....
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    This should take care of your problems. LOL. Great ideas!

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Get a shot gun, even a fake one that looks real. Everytime he watchs you clean it.
    He will soon get the message you are NOT the one to mess with.
    Point it at him a couple of time & laugh.
    Make him think you are CRAZY!

    Men dont like a crazy bitch who might shoot them. Put the fear in him for being so rude.

    Start inviting the biggest meanest looking men over to stare back at him.

    Obviously he is intimidating you so do the same to him.

    Never involve the police or management. They are powerless and really dont give a shit.
    Take a pic of him peeping, blow it up & put it in the window he stares at. Letting the world know he is a perv.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

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    Default Re: Peeping Tom - what to do?

    I have a peeping tom fantasy..... but I imagine the real thing is quite a different story!

    I like Sams idea
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Get a shot gun
    Point it at him a couple of time & laugh.

    Men dont like a crazy bitch who might shoot them.
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! I. AM. DYING. Sam, you're sooo my favorite person today!
    Yes, you should do this!!!!
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    flip him off everytime u notice him?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Get a shot gun, even a fake one that looks real. Everytime he watchs you clean it.
    He will soon get the message you are NOT the one to mess with.
    Point it at him a couple of time & laugh.
    Make him think you are CRAZY!

    Men dont like a crazy bitch who might shoot them. Put the fear in him for being so rude.

    Start inviting the biggest meanest looking men over to stare back at him.

    Obviously he is intimidating you so do the same to him.

    Never involve the police or management. They are powerless and really dont give a shit.
    Take a pic of him peeping, blow it up & put it in the window he stares at. Letting the world know he is a perv.

    Good Luck,
    Sam
    This is my favorite post *ever*

    I especially love the shotgun idea and the mean looking men staring back!


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    Default Re: Peeping Tom - what to do?

    You could get one of those lifesize cardboard cutouts and stick it in your window for the guy to stare at. A Richard Simmons cutout would be hilarious!







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    Set up a camera on a tripod pointing at him, when you see him, make it really obvious you're taking pictures of him, look right at him. It will probably worry or creep HIM out.


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    Great ideas here!
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    Sam- you are the best!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Get a shot gun, even a fake one that looks real. Everytime he watchs you clean it.
    He will soon get the message you are NOT the one to mess with.
    Point it at him a couple of time & laugh.
    Make him think you are CRAZY!

    Men dont like a crazy bitch who might shoot them. Put the fear in him for being so rude.

    Start inviting the biggest meanest looking men over to stare back at him.

    Obviously he is intimidating you so do the same to him.

    Never involve the police or management. They are powerless and really dont give a shit.
    Take a pic of him peeping, blow it up & put it in the window he stares at. Letting the world know he is a perv.

    Good Luck,
    Sam
    Post of the week! lol.
    I had a similar peeper once at my old apt, and management didn't do a thing about it. Now I wish I'd thought of this, especially having angry men stare back at him.

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    Well, over the years I have had plenty of stalkers & peeping toms.

    Flipping them off only encourages their behavior.
    But when you take pics and post them where they can see them. Then the fear of their creepy behavior being found out by his wife, girlfriend, friends and kids usually puts them in line.

    All men need to be called out on their crap.
    Even if he is old, does NOT mean he is harmless.

    I love sunshine, I to have a wonderful view of water where I live. Who wants to live hidden and creeped out.

    Really don't think he would call the cops or file a complaint about his pics of being a perv. But I can imagine the look on his face. LOL Make him paranoid, flip the script on him.

    Glad so many of ya'll enjoyed my post. I believe in being proactive when it comes to this stuff.

    Stay Safe,
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Good idea - but could this be considered harassment? Or slander? I obviously don't want to get in trouble from the police for MY behaviour, when they aren't going to do anything about HIS!

    For a while I would give him the finger before I shut the blinds, & considered putting up a "fuck you" sign-type thing, but then I wondered if that could be considered encouragement - the way that flashers get off on a reaction...

    I actually have a shotgun, though.....
    Slander is if it is a false accusation. You can't be sued for the truth.
    Pic is proof of HIS harassment of you

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Good idea - but could this be considered harassment? Or slander? I obviously don't want to get in trouble from the police for MY behaviour, when they aren't going to do anything about HIS!

    For a while I would give him the finger before I shut the blinds, & considered putting up a "fuck you" sign-type thing, but then I wondered if that could be considered encouragement - the way that flashers get off on a reaction...

    I actually have a shotgun, though.....

    Who cares if you're harrassing him. This isn't the the time to turn the other cheek. Besides, if the police won't protect you, who will? Gotta do what you gotta do. You should make him dance while shooting at his feet if you ever see him out walking haha

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    A lot of the girls in this thread have great ideas!! First, I would call the police and inform them you believe you're being watched. They're there to protect, hopefully they go talk to the guy.

    Secondly, I love the idea of setting up a camera and take pictures of him! I would even go as far as posting them on craiglist outting this peeping tom!

    It kind of worries me that you didn't see him for a month..makes me wonder what else he could have been doing. I'm not trying to freak you out or anything. He could have been following you around for a couple days, or checking out your apartment building.

    I read this article: http://www.familyhomesecurity.com/pr...m-peeping-tom/

    Goodluck

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    Those are some good ideas. Y'all are hilarious!

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    Some good ideas on here, I especially like the camera + tripod pointed in his direction. Good luck, and stay safe!

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    Here is the problem with telling the cops.
    In most, states if you know someone is a danger & didn't do everything to prevent it like move. It is you that goes to jail for shooting them, if they take it to the next level and mean you harm. But if you were just randomly attacked and had no clue, it is self defense.

    With budget cuts cops are stretched thin. Cops are still mainly men and will think you are being silly over being upset about him watching. They will roll their eye and tell you to get curtains. Cops are useless.

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    Move, and try to move during the early afternoon when most people are at work. Move everything all at once, not slowly. Keep blinds shut. Do not make any contact. Have weapons but don't show them off. Avoid any form of acknowledgement or contact.

    Seriously guys, showing off a weapon or acknowledging stalkers is never a good idea because these men are often times out of touch with reality. They may take it as you are trying to make contact with them, and acknowledging their presence is exactly what they want from you, so don't give them that! In their warped head, they may take it as an open invitation for you inviting them into your life.

    Live below the radar always. Do not drive an expensive car or been seen carrying expensive merchandise into your house. Don't live in a large house. Do not purchase anything in your own name (try not to finance), but rather as a DBA under a LLC. Have concealed safes that no one would think twice about. Have decoys and hidden weapons. Legally change your name and NEVER give out your real last name... treat it like your social security # and only give it to people who have to have it. Have your address as a street addressed po box in another state, forwarded to a street addressed po box in a city a couple cities away from you. Never use your real address or even something that starts with "PO Box XXXX" on anything. Make it seem like you aren't trying to hide anything. Keep to yourself. Seem really boring to the outside world. Install several security systems without people seeing. Maybe leave one camera out painfully obvious so random burglars think twice, but don't publicize the rest. Keep windows locked always, and especially when you're not home. Don't invite randos over. Be seen often with men (preferably tall or big) who are your REAL friends or relatives going into your house often. Never make it obvious that you're trying to seem like you're off the radar. Keyword: boring.

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