Ok - bugger all to do with camming, but you guys are awesome with support in general, so here's a question: what to do about a peeping tom?
I've had this guy who lives in the opposite building stare in at me for months. At first, I thought that maybe his window was just above the toilet, and he was peeing, or that he was standing in the hallway waiting for someone, or zoning out (I like to think the best of people). After a while though, I realized that this just made no sense. For one, I realized that the building is all cookie-cutter identical apartments, and I can see a different angle into the one below his - so I can see that there is nothing against the same wall as the window. There is also nothing else that he can see from these windows BUT my apartment (or the one next to me...either way). I also did some experiments - if I close the blinds in the living room, he will leave the window.
I was on the verge of calling the police when it stopped a couple months ago. I thought maybe he had moved, so I put it out of my mind. But this week, I've noticed him again.
I'm so sick of it, and I want to do SOMETHING. Obviously I keep the blinds shut when I am working, but I would like to be able to get some sun into the apartment if I am just cooking, or watching tv!!
So what should I do?
Should I report him to the building managers of his building? Or to the police? Should I report it now, or collect some proof - I have started logging dates and times that he is peeping, and I plan to take pictures the next time so I can prove what he is doing.
Do I NEED evidence? Will it still be a valid complaint if it is just my word against his?
I'm really concerned that I won't be taken seriously because I cam...that the police would find out somehow (or that he has noticed at some point..I have no idea how - maybe he found me online?? Or at the strip club when I worked there?) - that he would tell them, and they wouldn't take the complaint seriously because its "tempting him" or some other such shite. You guys know how people can be about working in this industry!!
Any advice? Has anyone dealt with this before?



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