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    Default Dealing with asshole custies?

    I'm lucky that I haven't encountered too, too many assholes, but when I do, it always seems to get under my skin. Tonight, this fuck-stick acted like he was interested in the 2-for-1, then after a few minutes of wasting my time, starts laughing and says "I'm just fucking with you girl, I wouldn't spend my money on your stupid ass." WTF??? Then I turned around, sold the dance to his buddy and flipped him the bird. But seriously...

    An hour later, these 2 guys are sitting right by the stage and actually booing at me and shouting insults!!!!!

    So anyway, it totally killed my confidence, and later on a guy told me he would've bought a dance from me, but I never approached him. :/ Well, that's my fault, but honestly, I was just not wanting to deal with anymore bullshit. So yeah, it totally ruined my night.

    How do you convince yourself you're still the shit after someone tears you down? How do you still carry that confidence and convince people you're worth their time and money? I mean, obviously I'm not going to bother wasting time on someone who treats me poorly, but I also realize customers will not buy my product if *I* don't have confidence in it.

    Usually, it's very rare that I encounter such people, but when I do, I just comfort myself by rolling in my large pile of money. But I walked out with a shitty $75 because I let this douche nozzle fuck with my head.
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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    Think of it this way: those guys have to spend money to insult pretty girls. They have to pay cover, buy a drink, hand out some tips, and maybe even buy some dances to be able to be at the club and stay there for so long. You, on the other hand, can (albeit indirectly) get paid for insulting them, since you make money while you're at the club. Who's the shit now?

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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    Well I always resond in a way that fits the situation, sometimes i ignore, and sometimes i give them the sharper side of my tougne. I find that helps also just look at them as the insignifigent bugs that they are. Cant say anything bettter than Shanna Dior, she basically says it all.
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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    Remember that these guys don't know you or anything about you. Doesn't matter how hot you are, there's always gonna be some loser who has nothing better to do but cut people down. They insult strippers but they would probably never to talk like that to women outside of the club, for some reason some guys get really "brave" in the club when it comes to being rude and stupid. If they saw you outside of the strip club they'd probably be begging you for your number!

    I think sometimes these guys are pissed because they know they have zero chance with you in real life, so they act like an asshole in the club as some kind of defense mechanism

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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    50% of custies are assholes.. the other 50% just want to be assholes...

    Think about the line from The Social Network where Mark is told "youre not an asshole, youre just trying to be one"

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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    I have a hard time not letting them get under my skin sometimes but I generally think what the other girls are saying in this thread.

    regardless of how shitty they are, they don't know you and you are getting paid to be there. They are spending money and you are really getting to see part of who they are.
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    Default Re: Dealing with asshole custies?

    man, ya'll got that rite! a few days ago, late, i had like 20 guys waiting for a dance. i went to a table of India guys. I sat a minute then asked the cutest one who's lap I was on, (go figure?) if he was ready. "No, not yet, lets just sit a while so we can get to know each other." With that I am pissed. Its 1;00AM. I said, "Look, I'm a stripper, and the hottest girl in here. I'm not going to be any of yours girlfriend. If you want to get to know me then pay me a grand and you can. Otherwise lets go dance coz I've got custys waiting in line!" The whole table couldn't believe a meek little hindu girl would be so rude. I danced for two of his pals then moved on. I am so sick of damn smelly handsy India guys, who all want a free date! Dream on jerks!
    Then, on monday nite, i went in early just to meet my regular "Carlos". He actually entered at the same time I did. I quickly touched-up, checked in, and went out to him. But he was already with another girl! He's been my VIP reg for 2 weeks! I waited around a bit but was then FURIOUS! I came in tonite sortof coz he said he was. what a jerk. is there no devotion in this business? (lol) I ended up letting both events go to my head, being a newby, and got pissed for the remainder of each nite. Man this is tuff...good thing i get paid well, eh?

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