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    What in the world am I suppose to do with this?! This guy sent me a message on MGF saying that I look like a girl who controls losers. I wrote back depends on if I need to, and he wrote back "oh you need to i'm a real loser but not a real man"..? I'm sorry, but I have no idea how to keep this conversation going, because I don't understand stand!!! please help me ASAP!

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    Why keep it going? Just ignore him.

    Edit: ignore this. I was confused. :p
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    Default Re: Loser-Fetish??

    Its sounds like a submissive type fetish.

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    Default Re: Loser-Fetish??

    He's looking to be dominated and humiliated. Controlled. "Loser" and wanting you to de-masculate him. It's an extremely popular fetish. Read up on fetishes - you will get asked for them day-in and day-out in this job.







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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    He's looking to be dominated and humiliated. Controlled. "Loser" and wanting you to de-masculate him. It's an extremely popular fetish. Read up on fetishes - you will get asked for them day-in and day-out in this job.
    I was thinking it would be a popular fetish with that site especially, but I've never actually looked into it before! Can you give me any pointers? I'm not even sure how to search for it, or if there are any posts on here for it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    Why keep it going? Just ignore him.
    I assume because she's there to make some sweet moolah

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    Quote Originally Posted by ukmissy View Post
    I assume because she's there to make some sweet moolah
    Hah you guess it! And apparently whatever I said was ok, because he asked me to "go to chat goddes", but I have no idea how to do a full CHAT with this I'm so screwed

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    Why keep it going? Just ignore him.
    On MGF you get paid for emails you receive.

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    You say it was on MGF? just make sure it's not a freeloader. There are a few on there, who just want to IM chat for free and get off on you humiliating them, but will never buy a video or camshow or donate anything. If you open or accept an IM chat with him, keep an eye on how he acts to see if he's actually willing to pay for your time after a while and not just get endless free abuse in IM chat. If he gives off the freeloader vibe, just stick to paid messages and ignore his IMs after that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bird of Paradise View Post
    You say it was on MGF? just make sure it's not a freeloader. There are a few on there, who just want to IM chat for free and get off on you humiliating them, but will never buy a video or camshow or donate anything. If you open or accept an IM chat with him, keep an eye on how he acts to see if he's actually willing to pay for your time after a while and not just get endless free abuse in IM chat. If he gives off the freeloader vibe, just stick to paid messages and ignore his IMs after that.
    Yeah, I just started MGF yesterday, and the first thing I did was start IM chat without realizing that I wasn't going to be getting a single cent from these guys I know I had no idea what I was doing, but I feel foolish! Why in the world is there such a thing when you can easily make them message you and at least get a dollar for each message?? One of the guys on there was doing a full on story of how he would fuck me, and when I said I had to leave and told him to just send me a message, he said something about how that costs a dollar each time What the fuck did he think I was there for!?!

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    I found this weird at first but now I go along with it. I love the guys that tell me to laugh at their small penis, and that they can't get a girlfriend irl, because they are too ugly and pathetic. LOL

    They are paying for it so...just have fun with it.




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    Ignore my original post. I was confused by what she meant xD I thought that he was being snarky or something.


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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetsam View Post
    I found this weird at first but now I go along with it. I love the guys that tell me to laugh at their small penis, and that they can't get a girlfriend irl, because they are too ugly and pathetic. LOL

    They are paying for it so...just have fun with it.
    Haha I just hope they warn me before hand that they want me to tell them about calling their penis small, because I'm so used to tell guys they have a huge cock!

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    Another question: I'm pretty sure I still have no idea what I'm doing, but I just really want to try and figure it out, because I think it'll be good for my income Anyway, how am I supposed to know what's comfortable for him with making him give me money and such? I wish I knew more about this fetish, but I'm having trouble searching!! Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by gjratedp View Post
    Literotica is awesome!

    This sounds like a pretty standard humiliation domination guy - but this encompasses so much that I would reply with questions. Make sure you sound like a pro dom, but be very specific about asking for what he wants. This will help you figure it out, and also make sure that he gets what he wants and comes back for more!

    i.e. - If you think that you deserve to spend any cam time with this goddess, then I need you to prove that you are worthy of it. I require that the losers I keep for my amusement are obedient, responsive, and know exactly how I require to be worshipped. You have already told me that you are a loser, now you must tell me....<insert list of questions, ask for previous experience, expectations, etc here> If your reply is satisfactory, and you provide me with an appropriate tribute, I will grace you with my presence.

    Something along those lines. You want to figure out exactly what he wants, and figure out his "keywords". Does he always talk about women leaving him and he can't get a girl because he is not enough of a man? Go into cuckolding stuff. Is he talking about how he is a dirty slut that will do anything? Go into cum-eating, obeying orders, sucking a guys dick etc etc.

    And at the end of the day - just because this is a really common desire, it doesn't meant that you have to cater to it if you don't want to, aren't comfortable with the material, or just don't think that you have the experience yet. Feel free to turn it down and say "I don't do that".
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    Quote Originally Posted by WebDarling View Post
    Haha I just hope they warn me before hand that they want me to tell them about calling their penis small, because I'm so used to tell guys they have a huge cock!
    They will. SPH (small penis humiliation) are my absolute favorite customers, and I am trying to make it into a specialty for myself. But you don't have to worry about figuring it out on your own - most of them will be using screen names like "2inchcock" "microcock" "tinydick" etc and that makes it pretty clear. On top of that, the vast majority of them will straight up say "I like SPH. Do you do that?" or something similar (I love it when girls laugh at my little dick - want to see?).

    The more that I do fetishes, and this one in particular, the more I realize that the guys who honestly love this stuff have no problem being asked questions to clarify what they want, and will usually pay for that conversation.
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    I love my submissive guys! Well, most of them. Some are just time wasters and will message you back and forth. But the good ones are good!
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Literotica is awesome!

    This sounds like a pretty standard humiliation domination guy - but this encompasses so much that I would reply with questions. Make sure you sound like a pro dom, but be very specific about asking for what he wants. This will help you figure it out, and also make sure that he gets what he wants and comes back for more!

    i.e. - If you think that you deserve to spend any cam time with this goddess, then I need you to prove that you are worthy of it. I require that the losers I keep for my amusement are obedient, responsive, and know exactly how I require to be worshipped. You have already told me that you are a loser, now you must tell me....<insert list of questions, ask for previous experience, expectations, etc here> If your reply is satisfactory, and you provide me with an appropriate tribute, I will grace you with my presence.

    Something along those lines. You want to figure out exactly what he wants, and figure out his "keywords". Does he always talk about women leaving him and he can't get a girl because he is not enough of a man? Go into cuckolding stuff. Is he talking about how he is a dirty slut that will do anything? Go into cum-eating, obeying orders, sucking a guys dick etc etc.

    And at the end of the day - just because this is a really common desire, it doesn't meant that you have to cater to it if you don't want to, aren't comfortable with the material, or just don't think that you have the experience yet. Feel free to turn it down and say "I don't do that".
    Wow, you're amazing <33 This is unbelievably helpful, and was exactly what I needed to help me figure this out! Thank you so much, I REALLLLLY owe you! I know I'm going to have fun with this, I just wanted to know how to even get started with it I can't wait to start making this guy my bitch lol

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