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    Default Getting those multiple lapdances

    I apologize if this is already up, but I couldn't find a thread on it...


    At the club I'm at, I'm consistent on how many lapdances I give wether it's busy or slow. My problem is getting multiples from a single customer (excluding regulars).

    Our crotch has to be 6 inches from the customer's face, but other than that it's up to the dancer's discretion how much contact there is. So grabbing and rubbing of brests is allowable but not something I really prefer to do. Our "VIP" area is separate from the rest of the club, but it's a single room that all dances are being done in.

    I'm thinking guys are seeing how much contact the other girls allow and are feeling ripped off when we're done. Should I just suck it up to clench mutiples, or stick to my guns?

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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    Stick with boundaries you're comfortable with. Doing something that makes you feel dirty isn't worth the extra 20$.

    That said, how much more liberal are the dancers at this club than you are? If it's a lot and you aren't making enough money to get by, I'd recommend looking for a different club that has stricter rules for contact so you're at least working with an even playing field.

    But if you're making enough money on your own terms, just work on blocking your customer's view of what the other girls are doing - they shouldn't be checking out other people when they've got you in front of em! Pull out all the stops: hair curtains, intense eye contact, running your fingers over their face, whatever, so they're focused 100% on you.

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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    How to get multiple dances from 1 guy? Well since ive changed my husteling tactics i get guys who spend at least $80. First look at the men your approaching. I used to approach younger guys but they ended up only buying 1-3 dances so now i go for older men who i assume can spend more because they have careers. And they do spend more on me than younger guys. Next thing i would sujest is chaning up your dance itself. Is your dance the same pace throughout the whole song? That bores men. What I do during the last 30 seconds of the song is go harder. So faster grinding, more touching, WAY more enthusiasm and sexyness. If you arnt familar with the song then listen for the dj. During the last bit of the song he starts talking and so that signals a end to the song so go harder. Also i only ask to continue at $100. Meaning after 5 songs then i will start asking as most guys can part with $100 as opposed to stoping at 10 songs. I dont like to ask during the first 5 because i feel it breaks up the moment but thats just me. Hope this helps!
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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    Quote Originally Posted by missyqueenb View Post
    Also i only ask to continue at $100. Meaning after 5 songs then i will start asking as most guys can part with $100 as opposed to stoping at 10 songs. I dont like to ask during the first 5 because i feel it breaks up the moment but thats just me. Hope this helps!
    I do this as well, sort of. After the first song I ask if they want to keep going and then generally don't ask again until we're up to 100$ - unless they're foreign or seem like trouble-makers, then I make it clear how many songs we've done and that a new one is starting. I figure any idiot can count up to 5, but after that it can be easier to lose track. It's also my way of trying to get a nice amount out of my customers!

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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    Thanks gals. I will keep this in mind. Some of the girls will let a guy get grabby, but shoot, I won't even let my bf fondle my breasts, so there is no way a stranger is doing it. Adding a bit of "intimacy" may make a dance from me stand out (crossing fingers).

    I make enough money right now, I just think it's insane when a girl comes walking out of the back after doing 19 dances in a row (our club record is actually 53 held by the new owner/ex-dancer) and I wonder why I can't get more than 2 in a row lol

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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    Quote Originally Posted by missyqueenb View Post
    Also i only ask to continue at $100. Meaning after 5 songs then i will start asking as most guys can part with $100 as opposed to stoping at 10 songs. I dont like to ask during the first 5 because i feel it breaks up the moment but thats just me. Hope this helps!
    I'm going to try this too. The reason I haven't is because I don't want to deal with guys trying to short change me.


    Right now I just make the dance progressively more intense and then a couple seconds into the second song say, "we should stay here, I'm only getting started with you."
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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    ok question. i like the idea of not asking for few songs to not "break the mood", but at my club, theyre really strict about getting your money after EACH song, so the guy doesnt say, " we only did 2! i only owe you $40!!" when we really did like 6... so they have us get our money after each song and its REALLY HARD to get them to get more becuz i can imagine how annoying it would be if i had to reach in my pocket every 4 minutes. they(the club) dont mind if you ask in advance, but usually the men only want to keep going if they really like you after the first dance.. how do you guys suggest i go about it? i want to be able to seal a good deal (id be happy with 2-5 dances from one guy) but dont want to 1. get ripped off 2. get in trouble for not getting the money up front

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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    ive only worked in 1 way contact/guided contact clubs (where we can touch, or guide hands, but no customer touching) and I swear by eye contact, and generating an 'intimacy' during the dance my key move was like a body slide, Id go up so my belly button is at their nose, then sway sideways but slide down so my boobs are inches from their body, until I was on my knees (does that make sense?)
    after the first dance/with regulars, Id also sit on their lap, but put my head back on their shoulder,arm around neck and relax for a bit.
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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    1. Heavy grinding/dirty talk/moaning if you can stomach it should be reserved for the last 30 seconds of the song. This encourages him to buy more because he believes it's just getting really good, and can only get better.

    2. Bust out hot, heavy breathing and lines like "do you want more?" at the end of the song.

    3. After the second song, I typically just politely ask if he wants me to keep asking or to just keep going until we get to X number of dances.
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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    The one mistake a lot of dancers make is ripping their clothes off and grinding in the customer's lap within the first minute of the first song.

    I consistently sold multiple dances by:
    -Doing everything SLOWLY
    -Wearing outfits that covered my breasts and butt completely. You wont have much to take off if you're wearing nothing but a teeny bikini top and a thong.
    -EYE CONTACT!

    Clothing removal should be slooowww and sensual. Start off a couple of steps away from him, then get closer as the song progresses. Stroke his face and back of his neck, whip his face with your hair. Once you are physically close, slide your body down his (if that makes sense) but don't grind on him AT ALL until the last 20 seconds of the song, then whisper in his ear, "do you want more?" Then slowly turn up the heat. Whatever you do, maintain eye contact at all times! You'd be amazed how effective that is.

    Oh, the only thing I miss about dancing was seducing the hell out of a man during a lapdance. I was damn good at it.
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    Default Re: Getting those multiple lapdances

    tabitha is spot on! the first song is your striptease. i know stripperhacks gets picked on for being very low contact but you really can sell the same amount of dances as someone who is super high contact.

    if you can talk during a dance, that helps too.

    also, don't beat yourself up if some guys never seem to buy more from you. you can't make money they don't have, and if you don't know the customer has it, don't be afraid to risk "ruining the moment" by getting the money before you do multiple songs

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