whats the best way to deal with customers who find you on there and ask for friend request?

whats the best way to deal with customers who find you on there and ask for friend request?
Ignore. Stop giving out your name and other identifying information. Reconsider the information you share online as well.
Are these regular customers or one-timers? I could see it being a bit of a dilemma with regulars since you don't want to stop the cash flow, but, again, limit the information you share both in person and online to make yourself less findable. Ignore the request and if they ask about it, tell them your Facebook is for professional/school purposes only, and you don't like to mix the two worlds. Surely your customers have jobs (otherwise, how else could they afford you, duh) and can understand privacy issues, not to mention since they're regulars, I assume you have a somewhat friendly relationship and they don't want your life to be ruined.
If it's one-timers, who gives a fuck. Ignore and block.
I was about to ask why the hell they're even able to find you on fb until I saw your last post in the other thread about friending girls from work and then guys recognizing you and friending you.... I would really set your profile to private so that you can search for others but they can't search for you. There's even a privacy setting where if a friend of a friend looks at their friend's friend-list, you will not show up. If you're still worried about them finding you through that, change your profile picture to some random pic or inanimate object - something that doesn't look like you, so even if they do see "Sammy G" in some other girl's friend list, they won't be able to look at your pic and be like "oh, that's Sparkles from the club!"
As far as guys who have already tried to friend you, just ignore them and then set your privacy to what I already suggested so they can't find you and try again. If they bring it up in the club, just say "Oh, all my family is on fb so I really want to keep my work and personal life separate."
Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.
Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
I made a fan page and send them there and many have even joined my website so more income :-)
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thanks, i think i well be a cartoon and
not keen on a fan page, i don't really want public photos of me saying i'm a dancer



I get this A LOT. They always find me through other peoples fb pages. I didn't even know facebook had a privacy setting where people can't see you on others friend lists. That's pretty cool, I definitely need to do that.
It's almost always been regulars of the club that do this to me. I've ignored them all. Then, when I do see them next at work, I politely bring it up and say something along the lines of "I know we are "friends" here at work, but a lot of my family is on my facebook page and I don't wanna mix my family life with my work friends", etc etc. Make them seem like you care and wanna "friend" them...but can't because of family. It's an easy way out.
Pretty much every regular I have said this to is very understanding about it..I think mainly because I'm polite about it. Which is good because I don't wanna share personal details of my life with those creepersFor me; my solution has been a win/win situation.





Theres an option on Facebook where you can't be searched by anyone, and people can't see you on friendslists. Since I'm a camgirl, I use these settings. It's nearly impossible for my friends/family to find me, but it's worth it for safety reasons.





Either make a different profile for clubbing purposes, or create a fan page while having your personal info private.



yeah just set up a different profile for strippers/clients/clubs etc. I anyone asks just say not all you family/friends know what you do so you have to keep it separate from your 'real life'.
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