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    after dealing with the mother fucker that has stalked me since 2008 I don't sleep well at night, I sometimes have night terrors, I look over my shoulder constantly and even though I am now 2 counties away in a place he claims he wouldn't ever drive through, I'm surprised when I don't see his car. I've had panic attacks, been afraid to walk out my own front door prior to moving this far away, every time my phone rings with a number I don't recognize I expect it to be him with another cheap throw away phone, every time there is a cop in my face for a crime I supposedly committed ( real or imagined on the part of who ever sent them) my first suspect is the stalker, he has found out about my camming and spent low amounts of money there until I got him blocked when he started harassing me through SM email. He always insists that I meet and fuck my cam customers (I don't) he always insists that I left my husband (I haven't) he always insists that I've moved in with a escort client or that I moved in with a cam customer (I haven't)
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    So glad I found this thread kinda makes my prob a lil less scary but never the less I’ll post it.

    So my 'hanger on' has reappeared again. Though he may never have gone away. I know I said he has many different aliases but this time I truly did not even think it was him from the way the conversation started out. We somehow got onto the subject of clubs and how he had seen me on a website. I was puzzled since I did not know the photos were up on the site yet. I put the comment to the back of my back and carried on when he said he wanted to meet me at the next club night. (lucky not attending next night anyway) I was like yea yea sure let’s meet.

    Even then I knew I should have known it was this same creepy guy who is nothing but a fantasist. He likes to think hes into financial domination and when hes under his many aliases that I know of (and when I need a wee or hit my target) I always ask 'Show me the colour of your money' which always results in him leaving so fast. It’s too funny.

    But its 2012 and I want an easy fun stress free year where I can work hard and party harder. I will be right pissed if I find this guy attends these clubs night while I’m there. Don't think i’ll be comfortable at all. You girls are right gotta get a gun. Or rather in this end of London a knife to protect one self. Its Crazy that I need to think like this just to keep myself in shoes, booze, food and a roof over my head.

    Am I not allowed to have a normal life away from webcam world where I can hang out with friends and family without fear that some nut job I’ve cammed for is stalking me cos I said wouldn't meet in person or that I said 'no' to his sick request.

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    Well I have a fear of being raped and have had nightmares for years about that happening to me. Since camming, my nightmares have gotten worse. But I realize that I control what info I give out and when I think about it realistically, I know I have never put myself in that spot.

    You ladies who have been/are escorts. Yeah, I'd be scared too and I'm not surprised that you have had stalkers. And the cops not doing anything, it's the same treatment that rape victims get when they will say they "acted" like they wanted it or "acted" like a whore. Whatever that means. If you go on a date with a guy who ends up turning into a psycho who rapes you by the nights end, it's not like you KNEW that would happen when you were flirting with them by dancing sexy at the club with them. Same goes for an escort. Just because your job is providing both sexual or non sexual company in a sexy way to a man doesn't mean they have the right to harass you. Really upsets me and it did long before I became a cam model.

    This is what fuels my dom personality in part. Some men I get on cam aren't true subs, and they are jerks that treat women badly. So I get great satisfaction from degrading them thinking about how they have degraded how many women in the past. Now it's my turn

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    Quote Originally Posted by MistresSadist View Post
    Well I have a fear
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    Hey ladies, I got a threat from my stalker yesterday in an email. here is a copy and paste of the email.
    Date: Mon, 2 Jan 2012 20:28:01 -0500 (EST)
    Subject: hi alecia


    you must have left mike finally, i don't understand why you don't want money other then you left mike , and the new guy wont let you see me. you must have a ton of cash ok fuck you then you smelly ugly cunt who needs you anyway's, like i told tony i will make sure you go too jail you ugly fuck i know detectives all over the city, and i know were and what hotels you stay at all the time you stupid bitch, as long as I'm breathing you will always have cops on your back dick face....
    (mike is my husband, tony is another family member who is less than desireable)

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    My only stalker was when I was offline. He was a dude who I went to school with and had a rough home life. He was extremely possessive of me. For example, I went out with a group of friends, including him, and he demanded that someone next to me move over because 'he sits next to the girl'. Which was stupid and annoyed everyone. Ended up dating his best friend which sort of sent him over the edge and the next thing you know his face is in my window one night.

    I didn't have to do anything because he ended up getting into a fight with his pops and they all got kicked out of the housing unit. Never saw him after that! Hooray!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosemary Rabbit View Post
    My only stalker was when I was offline. He was a dude who I went to school with and had a rough home life. He was extremely possessive of me. For example, I went out with a group of friends, including him, and he demanded that someone next to me move over because 'he sits next to the girl'. Which was stupid and annoyed everyone. Ended up dating his best friend which sort of sent him over the edge and the next thing you know his face is in my window one night.

    I didn't have to do anything because he ended up getting into a fight with his pops and they all got kicked out of the housing unit. Never saw him after that! Hooray!
    that's scarry!

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    Curious...any of you girls know who screen name "DANMUHOTT" is on Streamate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by aleciaxxx View Post
    that's scarry!
    I'm scarier
    LOL!

    EDIT: Not familiar, CinnimonKiss. I have a shit memory, though
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    I don't think I've seen that screen name is he another troll?

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    so Ive been camming since December and do not consider myself an expert by any means but i did set up a few regulars after a couple of cam sessions. However, i have been slacking a LOT and would always think eh i dont want to work today but then i wont get paid next friday eh ill just work extra hard next week <----:/ urrrgh. i know its typical for guys to try to "get to know eachother " and shit and want a gf. but those emails i usually just look over and not think much but this guy is starting to creep me out. in jan i always had at least 1 email from him and then when i stopped coming on it was like every other day, but i guess with streamate they can see when we sign in even if we dont do a show because ive been signing in more and setting up my profile and hes been flooding me with emails. at least 5 a day for the past week and today i have 27 from him. ive done shows with him before he was one of my regulars but in some of the emails hes like "get on now, im waiting blah blah, hey were u at the all stars game? i think i saw u. "then the emails started saying i miss u i see u right now." its getting SCARY wth is wrong with these people?! u really have time to email me over and over 27 times in one day and someone who hasnt talked to u in a month u email almost on adaily basis?! isnt there other girls on streamate?! i think ive finally hit that point when im just so sick of people. thats why ive stopped on and off. in the beginning i made so money and was so nice now, someone ask me how old are u where u from over and over and then gets pissed when i wont do their stupid fetish and complain i wont do it when i already told them in free chat when they ask me i DONT DO THAT SHIT! omg.. now when i get on i have zero tolerance for bull shit urghh! dont ask me to show u anything until u pay me! i dont know if im just being hard on him cause all these annoying guys pushed my tolerance or if i should really just block his ass. what do u guys think?

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    Oo these stories are scary!

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    Just want to say, I still hope all of you are staying safe...

    I feel a lot safer camming then I would stripping or escorting, but stalkers should not have to be a fear for ANY woman, it's even worse for sex workers...I do believe sex worker's rights are human rights. I think it would be beneficial if cam sites had a "safety" page for new girls who don't know any better, like not opening up links, revealing personal info, etc.

    Yuna, why haven't you blocked him yet? He sounds extremely annoying and really creepy. I would block him asap, no reason to put up with that crap. I block anybody who becomes demanding (unless I can shut them up quickly and they're paying me, lol). You WILL make other regulars.

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    thanks amber i honestly think i will. i have 2 people blocked so far others i ususally just kick out if they get on my nerves so im not as block-happy as i should be. but i think i have such a low tolerance for guys now even the smallest things can irritate the hell outta me now. it wont let me block him through the email, i think i have to actually go live and wait for him to come into my room to block him (which shouldnt be hard because most of the emails are "im still waiting for u" . i woke up and checked sm again and there was a whole email page just all from this morning from him. i have to actually go to the 3 page to see any people's emails. i just really reachd that point where im thinking what are some of these peoples PROBLEMS?! honestly what made them think it was ok to be THIS KIND OF PERSON?! i feel a whole rant just want to come out of me now AHHHHHHH . i know i know as long as he is paying me i shouldnt let it bother me...maybe ill squeeze one more show with him and just upfront ask for gold and then block him. >

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