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    Default Pro Financial Dom Joins Stripper Web

    Hello Ladies.
    I saw many of you ladies are very interested in learning the art of being a Financial Dom. I am a Pro Financial Dom and wanted to say hello to all of you beautiful ladies.

    I can help you get your own website started, and show you how to be a financial dom.

    I deal with many wealthy men .. who love to give money....

    Its quite a rush.. let me tell you............and you begin to love what you do.

    Its simple, and easy.. ..

    MISTRESS ABBY
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    Haha awesome, looking forward to your input! My stepmom is an award-winning domme and she's definitely a good advice source for me. The more dominatrices in here the better, hopefully your attitude will rub off on us milder ladies

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    I love financial domme work however I find it's difficult to sift through all the guys who only want to talk about it rather than actually spend money on me Definitely a favorite fetish of mine though!

    It's good to have you here. Welcome!


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    @spoilmeImyours Mistress Abby, Hi, can you pm me with more info on how to become a financial domme? I get alot of guys asking me about that everyday. I would like to make more money. Thanks!

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    Caramel Kitty.
    Basically to get started you will need a website created....and input specific keys words that will take viewers to your site. You need some good hot photos taken of you. Having a cam is a great way also to record you taking someone possibly you know that doesnt mind being filmed, then do some start up footage of maybe him with a foot fetish, you spanking him, you dressing him in womens clothing.
    Many men have hidden secret desires.

    I can build websites, also get you on search engines, and your video viewed.
    I dont do it for free ..it would cost a tiny bit.. but you usually start making money immmediately

    For me the first day I got started .. I made $100 bucks off 2 guys.. so its extra money
    The more you promote yourself the more you make.

    If you strip this is a great way to get customers.. Make some business cards that send them to your website.. ask them if they have a fetish ...
    As a stripper you cant sleep with your customers but you can sure send them to your website to admire you.

    Email me at: [email protected] if you would like to invest in a website and allow me to help you get off the ground..

    MISTRESS ABBY

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    Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned, or of humiliating another; often (but not always) in conjunction with sexual stimulation of one or both partners in the activity. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. It can be verbal or physical, and can be relatively private or public. Often it can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations it can also be easily carried out over a long distance or online. The distinction between humiliation and dominance in an activity such as erotic spanking is that the sought-after effect is primarily the humiliation; the activity is just a means to that end.

    While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM or other sexual roleplay, relatively little has been written on it.[1] Humiliation play can however be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation. Erotic humiliation can become extreme enough to be considered a form of edgeplay, that some consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safeword. This is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context.Contents [hide]
    1 Terminology and overview
    2 Means of humiliation
    3 Psychology of humiliation
    4 Online humiliation
    5 See also
    6 References
    7 External links

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    Terminology and overview

    The person being humiliated is often called a bottom, and the person who humiliates them is often called the top, (though these are standard terms used in general dominant/submissive role play and are not specific to humiliation interests) or if female, sometimes humiliatrix. Other common names are slave or sub/submissive for the bottom, and Master/Mistress or Dom/Domme for the top.

    Humiliation is not the same as dominance, as the devotee is not necessarily seeking to be ordered about. Humiliation comes into its own as a sexual force when the devotee seeks the humiliation over and above the means; for example, when being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved. As such, it encompasses a range of paraphilia, in particular foot fetish or shoe fetish, body worship, spanking, bondage and most BDSM styles. It can be as basic as the desire to kiss and massage feet as a precursor to sex, or it can be complex, involving roleplay or public displays of subservience. It can also be for a set period of time (a "scene") or as an ongoing facet of a relationship. The "humiliation" is not intrinsic to the act or the object. Rather, it is semiotically charged by the shared attitude of the partners engaged in the act. It is they who invest specific acts, objects or body-parts with a humiliating aspect.[2]
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    Means of humiliation

    A woman in a bondage dog mask/hood.

    There are many scenarios which may be considered as giving rise to sexual humiliation. Some scenarios may be based on verbal abuse and others on physical aspects.

    Verbal aspects might include:
    Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, girl, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.[3]
    Verbal belittlement, such as "slave", "boy", "girl", "missy", "pet".
    Insults and verbal abuse, such as "fat", "ugly", "stupid", "worthless".
    Degrading references, such as "slut", "tart", "bitch", and "whore".
    Racial or ethnic slurs
    Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size, bottom, and slighting of mannerisms such as walking, responsiveness, standard of self-care.
    Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.
    Small breasts humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult female's breasts, or her inability to please a lover, and her breasts become objects of derision.
    Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male's genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
    Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.
    Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical and personality traits.
    Mockery, derision, and ridicule.
    Being scolded like a child.[3]

    Physical and tangible aspects might include:
    Ejaculating, spitting, or urinating on the bottom's body, especially the face.
    Performance of menial tasks or abusive workload, such as cleaning the floors with a toothbrush.
    Frequent, mandatory performance of sexual services for the dominant, such as erotic massage, cunnilingus, analingus, or fellatio, without expectations of reciprocal acts or intercourse.
    Detailed accountability and control (micro-management) as to time spent or activities done, including list of jobs to do, precise directions as to how the housework is to be performed, and exactly how to act and behave.
    Specific rituals and affectations to be adopted. This includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, only speaking when spoken to, kneeling or prostrating in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only after others or on the floor, low status place to sleep, and a wide variety of body worship activities such as kissing or licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express acknowledgment, subservience, shame, or even positive emotions such as happiness or excitement.
    Suppressed freedom of movement and/or privacy. This may include never being able to leave the room in which the dominant is present without permission, having the dominant watch while the slave or submissive uses the toilet, being forbidden to leave the house or 'dungeon' in general for the duration of slavery or servitude, etc.
    Detailed punishments for a variety of 'infractions' or misbehavior, such as having to stand in a corner facing a wall for several hours, flogging or whipping, reduced rations, or forced exercise.
    Roleplaying "lower status" beings, such as animals (for example dog or horse) or babies/children (see human animal roleplay, pup-play, and adult baby play).[3][3]
    Spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint or other BDSM activities such as cock and ball torture (CBT).
    Prohibitions or restrictions on clothing, even in public. For females a common example is being mandated to only wear revealing bikinis or lingerie. For men, a particularly powerful sense of humiliation may be achieved through forced feminizing or cross-dressing.[4][5] Both sexes may be expected to go completely nude, with decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, or cuffs being the only exceptions.
    Use of chastity belts or other means of erotic sexual denial.
    Wearing of external signs of "ownership", such as a collar.[3]
    Having friends, family or strangers aware of or witnessing one's treatment (i.e., public humiliation).
    Erotic objectification, where the bottom is cast in the role of an object, such as a footstool.
    Embarrassment.
    Male forced anal penetration using dildos, anal plugs, or similar objects.
    Cuckoldry, taking on a third party lover to humiliate the bottom as an expression of the relationship between the top and the bottom. In this scenario, the bottom typically is allowed only to witness, and not invited or permitted to participate.
    Having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.
    Forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body.
    Financial domination, where usually a submissive (or money slave) will give gifts and money to a dominant. The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM, but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.
    Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.[4]
    Feelings of humiliation are key to many of those engaged in klismaphilia.[3]
    Feederism

    Some sexual humiliation involves inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and embarrassment.

    Sexual roleplaying may or may not involve humiliation. For example, one person might play the part of a dog because they enjoy being mock-forced into it, and the top will emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of their inner animal or playful spirit.
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    Psychology of humiliation

    Humiliation in general stimulates the same brain regions that are associated with physical pain, the inference being that humans evolved to remember social rewards and punishments as strongly as other animals recall physical reward or pain in response to their environment. As with any form of pain experimentation in a sexual context, consent and (paradoxically) a high degree of awareness and communication is needed to ensure that the result is desirable, rather than abusive. For example, a submissive may enjoy being insulted in some ways, but be genuinely crushed and devastated if humiliated or insulted in other ways.

    Humiliation play is also connected to sexual fetishism, in that non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one's sexual degradation.

    For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving ego reduction or getting over sexual inhibitions. For example, between gay people, terms usually associated with homophobia may be used, such as "faggot" or "dyke."

    As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. Sexual fantasies relating to mild humiliation are not uncommon. Some humiliation roleplay (pup-play and age play in particular) is combined with loyalty and care-giving to the extent that these fetishes can be seen as exercises in trust rather than primarily a humiliation fetish. Consider that the desire to be beneath the other partner during intercourse, the idea of "getting caught" such as with having sex in the garden or woods, or mild rape fantasies (where the person imagines themselves to be forced in a way they would like, and which must be seen as completely different to any real form of rape), are mild emotional games that emphasise status, vulnerability and control. However, for most people such ideas remain a fantasy and they would have strong reservations about it being made public, or engaged in with a partner for real, however erotic the idea may be.If a person does reveal their fetish to their partners, this usually is a result of a huge amount of trust invested in them, due to the similarly huge psychological struggle they would have had to have gone through to tell them.However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession as the act of confessing would be humiliating. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on the other.
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    Online humiliation

    Online humiliation is the desire to be seen in a sexually embarrassing context via the internet. This practice allows the submissive to seek fetish partners from across the world.

    Common methods of online humiliation include:
    Public pillory
    Embarrassing photographic or video assignments for submissives - submissive must humiliate themselves on camera, etc.
    The requirement for submissives to keep online journals, detailing personal information such as masturbation frequency and details
    Verbal abuse
    Publicly bidding for items that reveal their fetishes
    Money slavery - submissive must buy dominant gifts, pay for bills, or pay taxes
    Homework slavery - submissive must do the dominant's homework, or occupational work
    Repetitive assignments such as copying the phone book, etc.

    These practices can be conducted via chat, webcam, e-mail, BDSM contact websites, or via the virtual world of Second Life.

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    Financial Domination comes from a deep need for a loss of control. Financial Domination can be played in a myriad of ways but the main idea is a dominant woman seductively or harshly manipulating money from a submissive male.

    For the submissive the idea of having a woman take money from him or manipulate him into a state of wanting to give money to her is incredibly erotic. In some cases the submissive male even dreams of complete financial ruination. This is extreme but has been done by many femme dommes in the past. Usually Financial Domination just involves the taking or giving of money either on a scheduled basis, through coercion or blackmail, or just out of an intense need to give.

    Now for those of you who are reading this thinking, “you’d have to be nuts to get off on that,” let me remind you that everyone has their own erotic fantasies however if you’ve ever taken a woman on a date, you’ve been financially dominated. If you’ve ever been screwed over in a divorce, you’ve been financially dominated. So don’t be too quick to judge. For some it’s painful, for others it’s very hot.

    This is another fetish that has an underlying current of humiliation as well, but again it depends on the individual. To hear a woman laughing and telling you what a sucker you are can be very arousing.

    Financial Domination can be done by phone, mail, live sessions or just about any way that’s imaginable. Being a Sugar Daddy is a more controlled form of Financial Domination but usually involved sex. The true fetish doesn’t involve sex at all because the dominant female wouldn’t dream of having sex with an unworthy submissive. The fact that he’s giving to her is simply because he feels that he isn’t worthy of the money but she, being more powerful and beautiful, should be made to enjoy her life with his money but without any tangible benefit to him. The mere fact that he has given the money is the benefit to him.

    I use this metaphor a lot when I’m describing the feelings of the submissive in Financial Domination. When you go to a Christian church there is a time in the service where the plate is passed around and every one gives money to help keep the church running. No one there expects anything from that offering. They certainly don’t expect the pastor to get down and say blow the congregation in gratitude. (Lol that’s probably a whole other fetish.)

    No, in fact you give because you WANT to, you want to make sure your church is there for you next week, that the pastor can eat for the week and the bills can be paid. It’s the exact same thing with submissive men. If it’s done correctly they look at the woman as a goddess, a deity. To offer up money to their goddess is just the right thing to do. Her life is ALL that matters. As a submissive male you want to eat, sleep and breathe this woman. She IS your religion.

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    ...you didnt write either of those things. For the first one you didnt even try to hide it?

    Also... very obvious stock photos? Also pretending you have a nonexistent BBW FinDomme giving you gifts for some reason? Also wikipedia? Also youre only on one findom social networking site? Also you have very very very new profiles, no website, banned account on Youtube, deleted (but it was barely updated and only this year for 1-2entries) account on Blogspot, and you seem to have a (very very recent) history of only using free blog hosts like livejournal? Also carbon-copy hustle of pretty much every established findom except youre not on a single site where you could even be voice or visually verified?

    You dont want me to keep going. Pro-tip: if you didnt ask newbies for money off the bat I wouldnt have bothered to check.

    Wow, not even a Niteflirt? TalkSugar? Adultwork? At least there you can use stock photos and still have a female voice...

    Basically you dont have an internet presence or reputation to be charging people for your services or trying to take them offsite with your advice.

    Like, at all.

    It is obvious that this just a way to hustle newbies out of money, which is so ugly. I mean, come on. But Im just saying this for anyone who gets super excited about this "cost" to launch a business for a fetish that is heavily over-saturated with providers. It is limited market, most of the fantasy is in talking about it not providing the service. Finding guys who will do this is hard work - they want authenticity, training, attention, a legacy, etc - that you wont get from someone asking you to pay them. Due to how limited real customers are and their expiration dates - financial domination is a zero sum game. Basically what youre doing now, is a hustle.

    So no need to hustle us or troll. If youre looking for customers that's cool, just be honest or go on the blue side. Or you know whatever.



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    love you roast.. you always do your homework! Keepin' us all safe over hurr

    and to the OP - if you want to share your actual FinDomme experiences here.. it's welcome. But get involved with the community first, before trying to push your services here.
    "When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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    Ladies,
    I simply put information for you on this site to help you understand financial domination. If I wanted to hide where it came from I would have... I simply was giving you others points of view on what Financial Domination is.

    Yes You Tube gonged me.. Why...in this industry if your getting alot of hits on the internet ie: especially You Tube they do their best to get you off .they want to control You Tube....

    I had a nice tasteful videos on their........... and many followers... but when your stepping on toes and taking their people they get angry.

    I dont think it fair you should jump to conclusions. Ive been a REAL TIME Dom dealing with very wealthy men.. and have made extremely good money.

    I came across your site and the questions and I felt I could assist you.

    So your comments are improper as you simply jumped the gun.

    My photos are all mine.. I have a photographer......and no BBW is giving me
    money.. She and I at times double up and work together in REAL TIME and CYBER.

    I am not a amateur Dom that gets on NiteFlirt, Talk Sugar and the Likes.. if you do you are just like one small number amongst many. I post in other places.

    So judge if you wish but you truly need to get your facts straight before judging someone and making false accusations.

    I wish all a good morning.. ..........Wish you all luck with wanting to become a Dom..

    The sad thing about many women..is they are haters.. NOT all but some love to disect a person to death rather than see someone is truly trying to help them get started..

    You can either get $20 to $100 from a man....or find a few wealthy ones and make $5k to $18k a month.......... you decide ............. there are many wealthy men that are closet cases. They are in powerful positions and they hide a secret . They may have a wife that doesnt like sex, or isnt creative......... or is just flat out boring. Those are the men I cater to.......not the broke ones that you have to continuously email to Tribute.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SpoilMeImYours View Post
    The sad thing about many women..is they are haters.. NOT all but some love to disect a person to death rather than see someone is truly trying to help them get started..
    I'm sorry, but that one rubbed me the wrong way - what you call "hating" is quite simply due diligence around here. Sometime the red flags raised by a background check may be unfair, but they're paramount to any girl's safety here, especially when it involves a money exchange for services (I believe you call that "help getting started").
    If you truly have a newbie's interest at heart, invite, nay insist on diligent investigation and verification, because the run of the mill adult industry lady is suffers hustle in two forms - those offering services and those looking to buy her services. Just the way it works.

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    It's definitely pretty difficult to trust anyone who comes here and leaves no information but an email address.

    I was thinking you would post more than just a free email contact info, such as at least one example of a website you have done for another domme or pricing.

    We get a ton of guys coming here pretending to be photographers or webmasters trying to get us to email them. They never have examples of their porfolio or a website example to show!
    Any time I have worked with a professional webmaster they have at least a screenshot of their work. What sites have you done?

    Perhaps if you shared one website you have done or any type of example at all then there would be more interest.


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    thanks

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