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Honestly, I didn't read your whole essay you wrote. You throw around insults about us fellow camgirls then expect us to give you advice before you "ditch the site" which amuses me. So I'm going to keep this simple if your so scared of being located don't give people your information on your where about's; it's COMMON SENSE.
If this job makes you feel like a "whore" obviously you should start looking for a job that won't make you feel like a "whore" unless you want to continuously feel shitty about yourself. I don't even know why I'm writing this in all honesty; god forbid this "camwhore" is actually a good person. With that being said I still believe your a man but I thought I'd give you some last input before you "ditch this site" since you've read all about our "camwhore" advice/informative threads.![]()
Honestly I think youre legit to an extent. Ive run into people like what youve written who've gotten eaten up and spit out by the industry before. Whether theyve just allowed themselves get torn apart or it happened to them is a matter of debate. But I am positive you arent the latter, so you have options that you just arent seeing because youre thinking and behaving irrationally.
I didnt read everything you wrote though because I am a bad person, but I got the general idea.
I cant relate to your situation but I think youd benefit from therapy. Check out local clinics and try to find sliding scales. Ask ahead if you can bring your daughter with you because you dont have a sitter. Try a women's center if you're near one. You may find support. I know there is a local mom meetup in my area, so that may be a normal thing, try to find one and maybe you can get advice on sitters or find someone low cost or even pick up side gigs like dog walking. Networking with people (like a local mom's group) can give you a better advantage in the vanilla job market. Most of my best and highest paying jobs have been because I knew someone, not a blind application. Camming can burn bridges because youre so isolated from networking opportunities, so make sure you get out there. A mom's group and therapy are places where you may be able to brig you daughter.
Spend time more time listening than talking if you join social groups. Especially dont bring any "Im young, petite, and cute so I was discriminated against" tropes with you to the Mom's group, that kind of mindset is usually absurd but it is a great way to make enemies among women who can help you. Youve already burned bridges here so just dont do that same narcissism thing IRL.
Oh and if youre with Moms, this should be obvious but girl IDK, Im already hating myself for answering this so Ill go full throttle: dont tell them youre a sex worker or your drinking or how both of those things impacted your child. If you do, prepared to be even more lonely, have CPS at your door, run out of neighborhood, burned at the stake, that kind of thing.
Dont force a square peg into a round hole. What Im trying to say is that the adult industry is not for you. I doubt it ever will be.
I dont have any other advice asides from that.




I admit I skim-read (hey, if I don't even get to quote you - which I'd have to if you wanted a response which matched the length of your OP - I'd have had to, so... meh), but in short: you need more help than ANYONE here can offer you my dear. You need to take control of your life.
What got you into camming for you to hate it so much now?
What attracted you to it as a job if you judge your clients based on their fetishes? (I don't understand sex workers who label all their clients "pervs", "sickos", etc... and "sexual predators").
Most women here take great pride in the work they do, and they're successful at it because they maintain professionalism, treat their clients with respect and (most importantly) maintain their own self-care. And so I don't know if you will find anyone here who will relate to you in that sense, but an internet forum is NOT what you need.
You honestly, seriously need more help. I'd advise you see your doctor: regarding alchoholism, self-care, paranoia and possible depression. Just go to your doctor and tell him / her everything you're going through.

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I'm sorry that you're having so much trouble.
But I also think that this whole thing is really weird. You tell everyone off and then turn around and ask for help then bitch someone out yet again in the same thread where you're asking for help.
Chica... please get some help... because I'm really not making fun of you, but this is addict behavior. Classic and easily-identifiable. I'm thinking the psych majors are nodding their heads, and I'm nodding mine b/c I have experience. So... I feel your pain, but....
You're obviously reaching out. Trouble is... you keep burning our hands every time someone reaches back to help you.
I'm honestly surprised I even opened this thread after reading your last one. But I wish you the best and hope that you find what you're looking for (and first decide what that is).
First of all, Leah is one of the sweetest women I know. And she's most definitely not lazy. Which I'm guessing is why she DIDN'T bother reading the whole thing. She's probably doing something more productive (like I should be).
And second of all, what's up with you? There you go again apologizing and then trying to insult someone.
It's nuts. Ok, I'm outta here. I got work to do. I think maybe you need to take a step back before you post more. I find breathing before I write and sleeping on it work for me
LOL I guess most of us are lazy since we didn't read your word for word essay you decided to write. Honestly like said above you need professional help and this career doesn't suit you, your going to be eaten alive obviously your in a bad state of mind as it is.
I doubt anyone would randomly guess exactly where you lived even if it's isolated like you said. I call BS, even then you could still play it off as if you don't live there once again common sense. People on MFC will always ask where your from get used to it and don't give out information your not comfortable with.
Your right we could never be friends. Even after you admit you were an ass you still try to insult after somewhat of a half ass apology/explanation for your fit you threw when people gave you their honest opinions. I'm not here to make friends but i do adore the friends that I have made you ladies know who you are especially my chatzy girls.![]()

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Okay i wasnt sure .... But now i know ...lmao!!! Thats a troll! omg Bwahahahaaaaaaaa
I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"
Where is my head? Bad Jess.
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