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    The following are two examples of two very beautiful dancers (I am talking each is an 8 or 9) but each as annoying in different ways.....

    Example #1

    I met a very nice looking stripper recently and I found her physically very attractive but her personality a tad annoying.

    For example, she offered up without me asking that she was a medical student and would be a doctor in a few years by the age of 29 and started celebrating. Even though I am highly educated myself, I can imagine this type of comment might be taken as "I am better than you" to most regulars.

    I imagine she is like this in general. I would have to imagine the other girls in the strip club would hate her. She also tries to charge more and do less than the other girls. In other words, she doesn't work as hard! I will always go for the harder working girl that is respectful though not as attractive.

    I imagine she doesn't have a lot of regular customers as a result and must always be "scamming" fresh meat. Am I right about her or what?

    Example #2

    In this case, the girl is very attractive, extremely hard working, respectful but she has a very unusual body odor sometimes. I cannot tell if it's dandruff shampoo or some type of unusual skin creme but it has a very unique chemical tint to it.

    I know that some medications can cause unusual smells but it's just so odd. I cannot put my finger on it. Sadly, I don't have the heart to tell her and will just have to avoid her in the future as she is the opposite of Number 1 but I can't take this unusual odor! If I told her, I think she'd be upset. Should I tell her?
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    She probably does annoy the other girls. Many dancers are very sensitive to the idea that people think they're dumb bimbos, and will try to disprove it whenever given the chance - but the ones who just blurt out their credentials or comments like that, typically are doing it to make sure everyone knows that "Well, yes, I'm a stripper, but I'm not a typical stripper - see how smart and not like a typical stripper I am?" It's pretty easy to tell when a girl in a club thinks she's better than everyone else because she doesn't consider herself "like them." There was a girl like this in my old club. She would constantly make comments about how she had just come in one night with her bf, watched the girls onstage, and thought "psh, I can do that!" and that's why she decided to become a stripper. She was basically like a female customer who is all "I'm better than the strippers!" but then took it to the next level to "prove it." She very obviously thought that that made her better than the other girls - it was impossible to hold a civil conversation with her because she just immediately gave off an air of "I'm better than you and I don't want to talk to a 'trashy' stripper like you." It was really fucking obnoxious.

    But, you come across people like this in all walks of life. Their looks don't do anything to overshadow their elitist personality. If you find her too annoying to deal with for a short time, then just tell her that you're waiting for someone else next time.
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    For dancer #1, I avoid those type of dancers. I once made the mistake of buying a dance from a dancer like that when I just started. But never again.

    Dancer #2, I would either tell or mention it to the manager because I'm sure she would appreciate it if this was affecting her income.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    The following are two examples of two very beautiful dancers (I am talking each is an 8 or 9) but each as annoying in different ways.....

    Example #1

    I met a very nice looking stripper recently and I found her physically very attractive but her personality a tad annoying.

    For example, she offered up without me asking that she was a medical student and would be a doctor in a few years by the age of 29 and started celebrating. Even though I am highly educated myself, I can imagine this type of comment might be taken as "I am better than you" to most regulars.

    I imagine she is like this in general. I would have to imagine the other girls in the strip club would hate her. She also tries to charge more and do less than the other girls. In other words, she doesn't work as hard! I will always go for the harder working girl that is respectful though not as attractive.

    I imagine she doesn't have a lot of regular customers as a result and must always be "scamming" fresh meat. Am I right about her or what?

    Example #2

    In this case, the girl is very attractive, extremely hard working, respectful but she has a very unusual body odor sometimes. I cannot tell if it's dandruff shampoo or some type of unusual skin creme but it has a very unique chemical tint to it.

    I know that some medications can cause unusual smells but it's just so odd. I cannot put my finger on it. Sadly, I don't have the heart to tell her and will just have to avoid her in the future as she is the opposite of Number 1 but I can't take this unusual odor! If I told her, I think she'd be upset. Should I tell her?

    Hmm well with Dancer #1
    I don't think she's coming off as " I'm better than you" but perhaps she's just proud that she's not using her money on lines of coke. If she's a 9 and she's also highly educated then she can be a bit intimidating to most men especially if they aren't 9s themselves and their educational goals reached are smaller than her own. So yes any guy that isn't in her league in both respects would find her annoying. This goes without saying. Guys go their to boost their ego and fantasize that these hot women want them. Even if it's not true. No one wants to leave feeling less than the girl they are paying to grind on them. She also sounds like she has great level of self esteem too . I'm pretty sure with her looks and her education there are men that tip or pay her to do nothing or even less because they feel they have a girl that is above the rest.

    My suggestion is to go for lesser attractive women that will do much more for your money. This seems to have worked for you and you should continue to seek services from the other girls.

    Dancer #2
    I would avoid telling her anything. If she smells that bad then just don't do dances with her. Problem solved. Or if you really enjoy her beauty , tip her while she's on stage and get dances from what you consider 4's-7's.

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    As a rule I avoid dancers who talk too much about themselves. It generally means that they are not concentrating on entertaining me (or any other customer). I try not to engage in psychological profiling in the strip club. I have more than one fav who has been thought of as "stuck-up" by other dancers because they insisted on coming to work, hitting the floor, earning a living and going home without poking their noses into anyone else's business. Honestly, you would be surprised at how many of the cackling hens back in the dressing room will dis a girl who chooses not to get involved in drama!

    A also avoid dancers who smell bad. Again, there are plenty of hoties who smell great! As to why they smell bad? Well, I'm not a doctor or a biologist. I don't really care.

    I try to rely on my base instincts in a strip club. Hot or not, engaging or annoying, sweet or sour. I know what I like, I can figure out if a dancer is offering it rather quickly and I don't spend much time thinking about the ones who are not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    For example, she offered up without me asking that she was a medical student and would be a doctor in a few years by the age of 29 and started celebrating. Even though I am highly educated myself, I can imagine this type of comment might be taken as "I am better than you" to most regulars.
    Every once in a while I run across a dancer somewhere who simply must let me know, almost at the outset of the get-to-know-you chatter, that she has a degree in xxx, or goes to school for xxx, or even has a degree xxx AND works a day job in her chosen field.

    IMHO it is a function of insecurity. It seems to me that some (though certainly not all) of the more educated dancers simply cannot bear the thought that customers might think of them as merely strippers.

    When I run across these types, I simply move them along as quickly as possible. My experiences with girls that have this problem, which I generally refer to as "dancer inferiority complex", are similar to yours in that they are usually not overly motivated to earn. IME, they also have much more brittle personalities and some even go to great lengths in trying to prove just how smart they are. Net-net, it is generally painful to deal with these types.


    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    Example #2
    In this case, the girl is very attractive, extremely hard working, respectful but she has a very unusual body odor sometimes. I cannot tell if it's dandruff shampoo or some type of unusual skin creme but it has a very unique chemical tint to it.

    I know that some medications can cause unusual smells but it's just so odd. I cannot put my finger on it. Sadly, I don't have the heart to tell her and will just have to avoid her in the future as she is the opposite of Number 1 but I can't take this unusual odor! If I told her, I think she'd be upset. Should I tell her?
    IMHO, there is no upside in telling her. She probably won't appreciate hearing it and she might even react very badly. I would just avoid her in the future.

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    I've had mixed results w/ the example #1 situation. Sometimes it's worked to my benefit, by letting them drone on & on about their accomplishments, while it appears as if I am actually listening. The dances can turn out to be very satisfying.....that is if they shut up long enough to get 'em into the LD area. Sometimes, tho, there is just no quieting them down, and short of sticking a fork in the side of my head there is nothing to do but wait for her to come up for air to quickly excuse myself & make a run for it.

    As others have stated about example #2 - there is no way to address it to her without it embarrassing her completely. Perhaps if she has a good dancer friend there (who smells OK), maybe a subtle hint can be mentioned to the friend in hopes that she'll pass it along.

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    johnnytwoshoes,

    Next time, ask her to give you a thorough penis exam. It may be more fun than the lap dance and it would be more in her alley. Just a thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    johnnytwoshoes,

    Next time, ask her to give you a thorough penis exam. It may be more fun than the lap dance and it would be more in her alley. Just a thought.
    Dislike.

    I got so many of these shitty, trying to be funny requests before I dropped out of med school.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    "Work harder! This dick ain't gonna grind itself! I gave you a whole $20, why aren't you naked yet?!!! I don't want to have to spend another $20 to be able to cum cuz your lazy ass didn't try hard enough!"

    Heaven forbid she doesn't maintain as many regulars as the other girls because she refuses to stoop to their level.
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    1.: A lot of more attractive girls don't do high milage dances & do very well despite this, whereas some (not all) girls who are less pretty do it to increase their income (we have all seen this). It doesn't mean she isn't working hard, or that the customers do not enjoy her company & her dances, it just means she has different bounderies. Most dancers don't "go on" about their lives unless they are asked a question like i.e. "So, what else do you do?''-but perhaps she was tipsy, proud-as someone mentioned (maybe she had just passd an exam & was still wired from it), chatty, not good at making convo', or maybe she thought a you seemed like a smart cookie & would appreciate the remark. If it was an up market SC (or she had previously worked in one) then the girls may be used to older gents, or corperate types who often look for a good conversation as well as a great LD.

    Having said that-some ppl are just plain annoying (which she may well have been) & no body wants to have a tedious, one sided chat with Mrs or Mr "Me, me, me, me, blah, blah, blah". And, sometimes ppl simply clash.

    2.: As for the second girl, this is very touchy as it is quite a personal issue (which I'm guessing she may not be aware of). I wouldn't personally tell her, the poor girl would be offended & embaressed. Certain meds' can do this, in which case she may be aware of it. Someone mentioned telling a dancer friend of her's to pass on the message, maybe this may be a nicer way of letting her know. But I can just picture how that would go down in my club, "Oh, hey babe-that guy *insert name here* said you smell & that I should tell you! *bounces off*". IMO-if she is one of your ATFs/Regular girls then perhaps you could buy her a perfume or body spray that you like as a gift? Bare in mind that it may simply be a hair product, her tan, hand santizer (or wipes, I have seen girls use these on their skin i.e. legs, butt etc after dances/stage sets) or her perfume, or even a certain soap powder that you can smell (maybe you are sensitive to it).

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    johnnytwoshoes,

    Next time, ask her to give you a thorough penis exam. It may be more fun than the lap dance and it would be more in her alley. Just a thought.

    Yeah, maybe she will pull a cotton swab out of her garter and take a sample to check for STD's.
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    Dancer #1 - I study a medicalish degree and never ever mention it unless specifically asked and definitely do not talk about it unless asked specific questions... no matter what degree the girl studies... medicine, music, languages, accounting... its fucking boring... lets get the subject back on something interesting. Unless the customer is specifically interested (I do have a cpl who like to talk science - which is boring for me but hey they are keen).

    Dancer #2 - poor girl... honestly it might hurt her feelings but if it was me Id want to know if I had a "chemical" smell. but if you tell her she'll probably never dance for you again. Decide whats more important... her knowing or you having dances..

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    the botox in my face is making it difficult to laugh as hard as i would like to. but goddamn, i laughed really hard at this.

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Obviously she is a hard worker if she is in med school. She knows her worth ITC and knows it's not worth it to be as dirty as the other girls. God, I can just imagine this poster yelling at the girl like she's a construction worker "Work harder! This dick ain't gonna grind itself! I gave you a whole $20, why aren't you naked yet?!!! I don't want to have to spend another $20 to be able to cum cuz your lazy ass didn't try hard enough!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    The following are two examples of two very beautiful dancers (I am talking each is an 8 or 9) but each as annoying in different ways.....

    Example #1

    I met a very nice looking stripper recently and I found her physically very attractive but her personality a tad annoying.

    For example, she offered up without me asking that she was a medical student and would be a doctor in a few years by the age of 29 and started celebrating. Even though I am highly educated myself, I can imagine this type of comment might be taken as "I am better than you" to most regulars.

    I imagine she is like this in general. I would have to imagine the other girls in the strip club would hate her. She also tries to charge more and do less than the other girls. In other words, she doesn't work as hard! I will always go for the harder working girl that is respectful though not as attractive.

    I imagine she doesn't have a lot of regular customers as a result and must always be "scamming" fresh meat. Am I right about her or what?

    Example #2

    In this case, the girl is very attractive, extremely hard working, respectful but she has a very unusual body odor sometimes. I cannot tell if it's dandruff shampoo or some type of unusual skin creme but it has a very unique chemical tint to it.

    I know that some medications can cause unusual smells but it's just so odd. I cannot put my finger on it. Sadly, I don't have the heart to tell her and will just have to avoid her in the future as she is the opposite of Number 1 but I can't take this unusual odor! If I told her, I think she'd be upset. Should I tell her?
    Maybe girl number 2 wears chemical pheromones to enhance her attractiveness but it will often seriously repel some guys while attracting others.
    You should def tell her because it will only help her in the long run and help her "clean up" so that she can be more attractive and make more money.
    If you tell her and she does something about the chemical smell and is much more pleasant as a result, you will enjoy her dances more and not have to dismiss getting dances from her because of that smell.

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    If girl#2's unique scent is indeed caused by medications, what are her options when she's told by the guy? Stop her meds? Worry about it constantly if she can't go off the medication? The OP didn't mention (or I overlooked, sorry if so) just how sharp his individual sense of smell was, how noticeable the odor was, and if he thought other people were avoiding her due to it. These would play a role in whether or not she should be told about something she may already be aware of and have no control over.
    If that's the case.
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    Even though I am highly educated myself, I can imagine this type of comment might be taken as "I am better than you" to most regulars.
    Apparently you don't know many doctors. They all act like that.

    She also tries to charge more and do less than the other girls.
    I like her already. She just works smart and not hard. When men ask for a raise don't they ask for more than they are probably worth? To me she sounds very business savvy.

    Like someone else mentioned she is using her money for something other than drugs.

    If you want quality like that, a med student no less, you're gonna have to pay for it.

    Seriously if you like her just pay her what she asks as long as she's not a scammer. It sounds like she has no problem asking for what she thinks she's worth.

    Don't compare her to other dancers because most of the time in a case like this there really is no comparison. Trust me she probably has enough regulars and they are well educated and spend lots of money on her too.

    #2 Yes tell the manager if you don't have the heart to tell her. As a dancer I would want to know.




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    Stupid.

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