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    Dizzy I am dissapointed

    Well, I just wanted to post a thread ("I hope there isn't an older post about this same thing, I searched") about what's being going on here on SW. I know there has been a debate about new girls that post question about EVERYTHING over and over again and I know I'm one of those girls. I preffer not to post on that TROLL thread because I don't want to argue like that.

    I do posted a Thread about "SOS Help, having a bad time with MFC" and a lot more, and I feel now very very very sad because now I have the impression that you don't like to help newbies. After posting that thread I read ALL, I mean ALL the older post about MFC but I still couldn't understand MFC and had question, maybe you had an advise specifficaly for someone like me... I didn't know anything. Some of you gave me links of the same posts I read about instead of giving an advise and I understood that there was nothing more, I had to handle from now on just myself and I said "Thanks, I'm sorry, I'm going to read that" just to be polite because I had already read ALL CAMMING THREADS before I posted one thread myself.

    Anyway, I don't want to offend anyone because I know that not all of you are like that (reffering to the ones that not post anoying sarcastic troll comments) so I'm saving what I think about that thread just for me.

    I thought we could discuss about things in a polite manner and this was a really friendly forum because we all have different problems but we can relate anyway because of our job but now I think I was maybe wrong. I'm working everyday a lot of hours daily (between 4-5 hours) because I need to get out of this house soon and I don't have much time to make the money but sometimes I can be online and don't get much money... I'm so stressed that I cry a lot...

    Maybe I'm not pretty enough, maybe I don't know... I still have a lot of questions... But...

    May I ask? I just don't know anymore.


    PD: Oh, and I still go on MFC and after 10 minutes not being tip I run scared U mad?

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    I do not mind newbies posting questions such as what you posted, plus you did take the time to look and that's awesome. I've actually though seen newbies post threads admitting they didn't bother and were too lazy to try to search - that's ridiculous.

    MFC has never worked for me but I do great on other sites. I won't waste my time there. I know it works for some but no matter what I do it doesn't for me.

    Once you find a site that's a good fit for you, you will LOVE getting on cam when you make that money consistently. That same 4 to 5 hours you are spending not making money there could be spent way more efficiently if you find a better fit.


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    I'm kinda new to camming too and I totally understand where you are coming from,in the begginning you do feel like you need a lot of guidence, this site has helped me sooo much!

    a lot of people on this site are very helpful so please don't be discouraged , I think many of them have probably taken the time to answer previous posts and then they get frustrated when they see the same questions they have already answered... not that your questions are the same but they probably do see the same " I'm new " posts a lot.

    If you have searched and you don't find what you are looking for maybe start by saying "I searched and didn't find an answer" that way maybe they wont be so frustrated, a lot of people here sincerely want to help ( even the ones that come off as bitchy )

    As far as MFC I haven't tried that site but I have done well on streamate , maybe you should check them out, I have read on some of these threads that not all sites suit people the same, some people might do well on Streamate and not at all on MFC or the other way around. Don't give up, and it has nothing to do with looks , different people like different looks.

    Good Luck, feel free to send me a PM if there is something you think I might be able to help you with but you don't want to post

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I do not mind newbies posting questions such as what you posted, plus you did take the time to look and that's awesome. I've actually though seen newbies post threads admitting they didn't bother and were too lazy to try to search - that's ridiculous.

    MFC has never worked for me but I do great on other sites. I won't waste my time there. I know it works for some but no matter what I do it doesn't for me.

    Once you find a site that's a good fit for you, you will LOVE getting on cam when you make that money consistently. That same 4 to 5 hours you are spending not making money there could be spent way more efficiently if you find a better fit.
    ^^ Yes, this... ditto! LOL MFC just does not work for me. It's definitely NOT for everyone.

    I know it's hard not to take some of these threads personally but like laurielegs said above, if you're really trying and making an effort to research and work you'll do fine here. If you're gonna be lazy and not try to search then you're gonna get bashed. It's awesome that you actually are reading the stuff here before asking your questions

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    lol none of that is the issue. The issue is that the exact same questions get asked like 5x a week and the girl is always like "I just used the search function & read tons of posts!!!" then the exact thing she asked is like 10 threads down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    lol none of that is the issue. The issue is that the exact same questions get asked like 5x a week and the girl is always like "I just used the search function & read tons of posts!!!" then the exact thing she asked is like 10 threads down.
    Or in a sticky lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skindoll View Post

    PD: Oh, and I still go on MFC and after 10 minutes not being tip I run scared U mad?

    Are you really?

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    This post is this biggest cry for attention I have ever seen. I almost think the OP has to be a troll!

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    The last part was pretty rude of you :/ but I get what you're saying through the rest of it. Girls get sick of answering the same questions over and over again, but it's different if you've searched all over the place and still haven't gotten what you need. Clearly you should be trying different sites, because MFC doesn't seem to be working for you. I suggest you sign up and try something else.

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    I'm sorry but to those that think MFC is an easy place it isn't. MFC takes a LOT of time and dedication to get regulars and even then it can be rough some days, I can't stress this enough. Stick it through and have a good time.

    Ps, if you stick around long enough you'll see why we get irritated by the amounts of unnecessary threads that have been answered plenty of times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    This post is this biggest cry for attention I have ever seen. I almost think the OP has to be a troll!
    LOL I don't need to get YOUR attention, I need to get the attention of my costumers that's why I'm here trying to understand how to cam.


    And, my answer to that bitchy comment... I just thought I needed to defend us noob girls from that troll comments you posted and I'm not the kind of girls who just ignore it to don't look bad or make friends or to be polite/cynical.

    You all make yourselves clear on that threads, I'm make myself clear here, if you have a problem with that don't read.

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    Default Re: I am dissapointed

    If you have a question, just ask. Make sure it's a question that hasn't been beaten into the grounds of this forum yet.

    Seriously, search. It's the easiest thing in the world. And it's amazing what you can find with just a few clicks.

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    Thank you all of you girls about the advise about MFC, but that's not the point of this thread. I'm going to work it and search my way out of this pool by myself now that I have read all.

    The things is... I understand you are sick of answering the same question, but there's no need to make fun of us like that, I think that's rude.

    Maybe we can work on a solution to this like one girl above said, posting a sticky note that says: "DON'T FORGET TO READ ALL POST".

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    What Alleyson said.
    I personally never make fun of someone it's not what i do, but there has been a lot of trolls comming into CC that were actually men creeping on us or pretending to be females by asking stupid questions & intentionally starting wars. So if some of us vets are on edge that explains it when you get random messages asking us for our cam names, ect.

    If you have any questions about mfc feel free to pm me if you can't find your answers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WebDarling View Post
    The last part was pretty rude of you :/ but I get what you're saying through the rest of it. Girls get sick of answering the same questions over and over again, but it's different if you've searched all over the place and still haven't gotten what you need. Clearly you should be trying different sites, because MFC doesn't seem to be working for you. I suggest you sign up and try something else.
    It wasn't my intention to be rude, It was just a joke , but don't you think that hedious troll thread posted before about newbie question is even worse?

    PD: I'm still scared of MFC so I run away after 10 minutes not getting tip because I work hard on ANOTHER site btw.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I do not mind newbies posting questions such as what you posted, plus you did take the time to look and that's awesome. I've actually though seen newbies post threads admitting they didn't bother and were too lazy to try to search - that's ridiculous.
    ^ This.

    I like newbies. I do not like lazy people.

    I do not like people who argue, complain, or feel entitled to get all of the information they want at the drop of a hat because they stomped in here and made a thread demanding it.

    Lots of us sorted through pages of threads and read up on tons of info before camming before starting or even signing up here and posting a question. I have been camming before I joined SW.

    Yes, we were all newbies once. We are helpful. This entire CC is extremely helpful and packed full of info. Seriously, start backwards and read until you get back to page one. (It took me a hours and hours - a full week).

    But we are not going to spoon feed info. Lots of people come in here, demand and take info and then run off not having contributed or helped in anyway.

    My personal pet peeve is because I know a certain question has been answered a million times before and someone comes in and begs for it, and there is 5 of the SAME question below it.

    Anyway, we don't hate you OP, or any other newbie. A lot of it is general frustration because of all of the questions. I've had some "bitch-moments" recently. But I mean well and I'm always honest.







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    Quote Originally Posted by Skindoll View Post
    It wasn't my intention to be rude, It was just a joke , but don't you think that hedious troll thread posted before about newbie question is even worse?

    PD: I'm still scared of MFC so I run away after 10 minutes not getting tip because I work hard on ANOTHER site btw.
    I get that it was a joke, and that' fine, but you knew that would offend some people who work their butt off on that site Think about who you're looking for advice from. Do you really want to get on their bad side? I don't appreciate that the post the girl made turned out the way it did, and in that post I was nice and offered help. But the post that was made to poke fun at it was a stress relief to the girls who have to deal with it all the time. We obviously don't hate the new girls who are posting things, I love knowing I can help out with things like I wish people would have done for me (and even things they did), but there is a separate post for the girls to complain and joke about it now so we DON'T hurt those girls.

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    I honestly don't mind newbie questions. Those questions actually motivate me more to go on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    ^ This.

    I like newbies. I do not like lazy people.

    I do not like people who argue, complain, or feel entitled to get all of the information they want at the drop of a hat because they stomped in here and made a thread demanding it.

    Lots of us sorted through pages of threads and read up on tons of info before camming before starting or even signing up here and posting a question. I have been camming before I joined SW.

    Yes, we were all newbies once. We are helpful. This entire CC is extremely helpful and packed full of info. Seriously, start backwards and read until you get back to page one. (It took me a hours and hours - a full week).

    But we are not going to spoon feed info. Lots of people come in here, demand and take info and then run off not having contributed or helped in anyway.

    My personal pet peeve is because I know a certain question has been answered a million times before and someone comes in and begs for it, and there is 5 of the SAME question below it.

    Anyway, we don't hate you OP, or any other newbie. A lot of it is general frustration because of all of the questions. I've had some "bitch-moments" recently. But I mean well and I'm always honest.
    I understand your frustration, I've been there too (Of course not in SW yet though), but I'm trying to say here that making TROLL THREADS is not the best way to deal with it. I can't deny I felt offended by it.

    Anyway, I'm glad to know you meant well and say "I've had some bitch-moments" (because we all have those) instead of complaining about my opinion about this because fighting about this is useless and it's better to work on a better way to deal with this.

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    Let's just put it this way - i've been member here for a little under a year, and in the last 2 months i have seen more new members (i say members because i'm sure many of them are cheapo guys looking for kicks) join and start posting than at any time previously, even in all those months combined. Some of the new girls are great, and have spent time reading and are now actively participating in the forum and helping others by sharing useful information. Too many of them though are posting things like:
    What site is the best?
    What times are the best to work?
    How many hours should i work?
    Why didn't i make any money on so and so site?
    What should i do in a private show?
    What cam sites are there that i can join?

    etc etc etc

    Not only are these answered a million times over (easily found by searching, and in most cases just a few posts down from the newest one and in plain sight!), but they are the kind of things girls can only learn by themselves. No one can tell you the best site, the best times, what to do in a private etc, because those are all relative to the girl, the site, her niche, and her customer at the time. Questions about what sites to cam on, where to promote etc will often attract irritation or be left unanswered because this is a competitive industry. No one is going to willingly share their customers with you. That's just something you have to learn to deal with.

    This is by no means an unwelcoming or bitchy forum. It is a place FULL of information and support. I tend to find the more you give TO it, the more you get back.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissKatie View Post
    Let's just put it this way - i've been member here for a little under a year, and in the last 2 months i have seen more new members (i say members because i'm sure many of them are cheapo guys looking for kicks) join and start posting than at any time previously, even in all those months combined. Some of the new girls are great, and have spent time reading and are now actively participating in the forum and helping others by sharing useful information. Too many of them though are posting things like:
    What site is the best?
    What times are the best to work?
    How many hours should i work?
    Why didn't i make any money on so and so site?
    What should i do in a private show?
    What cam sites are there that i can join?


    etc etc etc

    Not only are these answered a million times over (easily found by searching, and in most cases just a few posts down from the newest one and in plain sight!), but they are the kind of things girls can only learn by themselves. No one can tell you the best site, the best times, what to do in a private etc, because those are all relative to the girl, the site, her niche, and her customer at the time. Questions about what sites to cam on, where to promote etc will often attract irritation or be left unanswered because this is a competitive industry. No one is going to willingly share their customers with you. That's just something you have to learn to deal with.

    This is by no means an unwelcoming or bitchy forum. It is a place FULL of information and support. I tend to find the more you give TO it, the more you get back.

    Mmmm, I am a newbie too (3rd week on SM) but I have to agree with all the ladies on this forum. When I first came on here I started at the top, where it clearly states SEARCH BUTTON I'M LAYING DOWN THE LAW, then I went on to the STARTING PLACE FOR CAM GIRLS which is directly below that. I don't know what the deal is with some of you girls but it's all there in plain sight. It took me two weeks to read the STREAMATES THREAD, THE MFC THREAD THE AW THREAD. It is rude to just come on here and expect these ladies to hold your hand! They are not trying to be "bitchy" or anything like that, it's just that they have answered the same ?'s over and over again. One thing you should know about the search button is that sometimes you have to search for the same thing differently. For example: GOLD SHOWS, Gold Shows, GoldShows, GOLDSHOWS, GS . . . see what I mean? I have to admit that it is a lot of reading but that doesn't mean one should be lazy and expect someone to give you the answers. Just do the research.

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    I have been on and off this forum for years (I had an account back in 06, and deleted it...never did much but lurk anyway! I re-created one more recently) and as a general rule, the girls on here are FANTASTIC. Really kind, really supportive, and really patient.

    HOWEVER. In the past few months, there seems to have been a huge influx of stupid (by which I mean, overasked) questions. Its not just annoying to read, its really annoying for those people (newbs or otherwise) to use the search function properly. Its also really annoying if you have posted a relevant, not-previously-asked question, and then see someone else post the exact same one. On the same day. So that the threads are maybe three apart on the first page.

    There has to be a level of give and take to this community - that is what makes it great. And while I do not want to see anyone being bitchy or mean to specific newbs, I actually think that a general thread that points out this trend of re-asking questions is going to be less hurtful than an individual "fuck you" to each person that posts without searching.

    If you search, then great! If you look hard, read more (much, much MUCH more) than you ask, and stick to one, concise question at a time, we'll love ya, and do everything we can to help you. So continue to be an intelligent and polite member of the community, and don't worry too much about defending other people...

    Besides - the thread that prompted this one was done in a very joking way - and if girls can't handle having some fun made of them, they should NOT be in this industry.
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    In response to you leaving after ten minutes - I say stick around! A lot of guys use apps to get text messages or emails when their favorite models are on. When I sign on, it takes like 15 minutes for my regulars to get online after they get their notice. Your guys are probably getting notice, then by the time they get online you are just about to leave or already gone.

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    I'm going to get on cam and make some bad ass cash while ya'll sit here and try to figure it out.



    Quote Originally Posted by Skindoll View Post
    LOL I don't need to get YOUR attention, I need to get the attention of my costumers that's why I'm here trying to understand how to cam.
    We need to get the attention of our customers as well. Which also happen to be your customers. Know what I mean?

    Sorry if I have been a bitch.

    By the way, don't get on cam right now. It's a shitty time to work.
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    I swear to GOD I made a sticky about all new members needing to use the search function...

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