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    Default 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Oops I accidentally deleted this message.
    Last edited by Mailinator2; 12-09-2011 at 09:54 PM.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Sounds like a typical extras girl in a standard high mileage club. The amount of extras you are offered and contact levels seem to be regional in my experiences.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    uh-oh....

    Anyway....sometimes these things happen at clubs, sometimes they don't. So yes, you might find this at other clubs. Is this really what you are looking for??

    And no, you aren't special...if she did it for you on your first visit, she more than likely does the same for others all night long. But don't worry, I am sure she cleaned up well after the guy before you. :-(

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Nothing really special or over-the-top from what I read.
    Sorry.
    AAMOF, where I club, your experience would be considered very average.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    i phrased my post poorly. Not "special" as in "zOMG she must have totally been digging me!". I just want to know if I can get the same treatment at many places, or if I need to make a beeline back to this place. Your response answers my question perfectly, thanks.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mailinator2 View Post

    Or have I found a "special place"? Do you have any opinions / observations about my experience?
    ...You haven't found a special place, you have just found a, er, "special" girl aka A typical extras girl (as was already mentioned). It may have felt as if you two shared an intimate & pleasurable moment-but, if she behaved this way with you then she would behaved this way with every other paying customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    ...You haven't found a special place, you have just found a, er, "special" girl aka A typical extras girl (as was already mentioned).

    Exactly. Please don't assume that this means all the dancers are willing to provide that same service. They're called extras for a reason - they're outside of our job description. Some girls will offer them, some will get offended if you ask. You might find extras girls in a "classy" club, and you will find clean dancers in a relative brothel. Even in clubs that have a reputation, or at the place you got a hj last time around, the price of a lapdance or VIP does not entitle you to a happy ending.
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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    What you experienced is the average SC trip in socal. But it will vary from dancer to dancer. However, you may receive an air dance if you come across a dancer that doesn't like you/having a bad day/etc... As mentioned in my other posts.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mailinator2 View Post
    I had a great time, but I'm not sure if my experience was pretty standard/common or rare. Would I find or could I expect this type of treatment at other clubs?
    Standard? No. Common? Depends on where you are. Rare? Hard to say, but if you had tipped her better after the first dance she might have warmed her hands up before the hand job...
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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    "if you had tipped her better after the first dance she might have warmed her hands up before the hand job... "

    nice. what would you have tipped on $20 for a single dance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    And this is why every customer in socal pulls their fucking dick out on me.

    If I should ever be fortunate enough to meet you in a club, I promise NEVER to do this

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mailinator2 View Post
    "if you had tipped her better after the first dance she might have warmed her hands up before the hand job... "

    nice. what would you have tipped on $20 for a single dance?
    Dude, it was a joke. I don't tip very often actually.
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    Your experience is not dependent on the strip club. It is dependent on the exotic dancer who serviced you. If you go to another strip club and find a girl who shares the same philosophy and objective then it is quite likely that your experience will be the same or else, it can be very different. Even in the very same club, you are highly unlikely to repeat the same experience with another girl unless of course her philosophy and objective is exactly the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Oh, no, no. Not you. You can pull things out. Go right ahead.
    Sounds like something I would pay to see...
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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Even though I'm not gay I'm pretty sure I would have appreciated Lopaw as a customer.

    OP, I had to read that twice before I understood you got grinding and a hand job. No none of that was common when I danced. In fact it would have gotten me fired. No touching was common.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Oh, no, no. Not you. You can pull things out. Go right ahead.


    That is very generous of you, but I am a woman of my word.
    A promise is a promise.






    Well....OK......but just this once .

    And yoda is just plain naughty
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    /siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh
    And this is why every customer in socal pulls their fucking dick out on me.
    Apologies for being the bearer of bad news. But it does get pretty bad. At one of the clubs I rarely visit due to its less-than-desirable location, the DJ had to interrupt a stage show to make this PSA, "This is not a brothel, do not ask and the dancers will not offer." Well something along those lines. When I asked one of the waitress about that PSA, she told me she could point me to the dancers that offered extras if I was into that sort of thing.

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Haha. Yeah. I caught that... but what DIDN'T occur to me was the fact that he got FORTY FIVE DOLLAR HANDJOB. Holy fuck what a stupid, cheap bitch that dancer was! lol!
    At least charge, oh, idk, EXTRA for your EXTRAS. They call them that for a reason... Well. Multiple reasons. One of them being that they cost additional funds beyond the cost of the dance.
    According to the conversations I've had with the dancers in my local clubs. An average night in SoCal is 200-300. I'm guessing thats why extras are offered.

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    Default Re: 1st timer: Was my experience unique or common?

    Oh No.... This kinda makes me nauseous.
    I've been gone for 2 years and this thread has really dampened my excitement to go back.
    This is what's going on in the next booth these days? Fucking ew.
    Why won't DANCERS just DANCE and that's it??!!!

    And wow she didn't even quote him a price she's just being a whore for the price of a dance!!!!
    Lucky her she caught a noob who tips I'm sure most of her JOHNS don't bother.
    Last edited by kikidejavu; 12-09-2011 at 12:34 AM. Reason: Sorry this is bitchy but I'm really skeeved out by this :/
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