LOVE LOVE LOVE the 60 day new girl period, ok? It's amazing. Then you log in one day and you are no longer a new girl and only have 100 ratings and wonder where you went wrong. Sure Im a 4 out of 5 stars but most of us newbies are unless we are doing something wrong.
So, what do I do? I leave LJ. I want to go to a real site and I'm not sitting on free chat 12 hours a day just to 'go fish'
Then I join another site and hear about all their nasty chargebacks. Ugghhh. Plus on LJ I was at 2.99 a min now this site Im on 0.99 a min. Again, Ugghhhh.
I also join Chatterbate and dont care for how its all out there public (free chat/private keeps me safe from would be lurkers) and also hear that they dont respond to emails and dont pay as promised. Ugghhhh!
I refuse to work for a site that asks my SSN. Thats just my choice. Lots of sites dont.
So, here's where I stand.
I have to be honest with myself and admit that Im not willing to do the work. I was a dancer for 6 years and after I had my son I was DONE with it and once you're done when you try to go back, they can smell it off you and your money takes a nose dive. I'm good at camming but I am finding out that it's REALLY HARD and TIME CONSUMING work and I dont think this is where I'm wanting to focus all my energy. Just wanted to add Im a single mom with a 5 year old and a 2 year old and one of them is autistic. So needless to say, I have little to no free time. I know camming is a great way for a single mom to get by and do well but I'd need to work from 11pm-4am and when Im up at 7am thats rough. Plus I have other income.
I teach Yoga as my day job and Im thinking maybe sticking to my holistics is more my nitche.
Yes I am discouraged! I'm gonna ride out this new girl phase and try to do everything I can to make sure I stay up on top as much as possible but if it doesn't pan out, it doesnt pan out.
Can anybody offer me any advice, criticism, or insight? I want to make sure I have all the info so that I can make the best educated decision for me.
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