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    I will be going to Vegas next week and plan on hitting a SC. This will be my 3rd time in a SC. I remember my last trip to the SC, I noticed this one stripper just doing laps around the club with her co-worker. She was just so hot!!! I tried making eye contact every time she walked by but she was too busy talking to her friend.

    Then I noticed a bunch of girls just hanging out at the bar and near the entrance. I couldn't understand why all the good looking ones were just hanging out!!

    Ive read a few posts here how girls do not care if you approach them....Ive never even thought about that...lol. I guess that is why the majority of the girls hang out by the door and the bar closest to the door.

    So its really ok if I see a girl by the bar or something to approach her?

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    Yes, its perfectly fine to approach a dancer. They don't bite (much). However, if you're uncomfortable with that method, asking a waitress works just as well. But I'm fairly surprised you weren't approached by a flock/herd (is that the right term) of "wanna dance?" as you entered the club.

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    Yes! I love being approached, and I can't think of any girl who wouldn't like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleSnuglet View Post
    Yes, its perfectly fine to approach a dancer. They don't bite (much). However, if you're uncomfortable with that method, asking a waitress works just as well. But I'm fairly surprised you weren't approached by a flock/herd (is that the right term) of "wanna dance?" as you entered the club.
    This was my second time in a SC, first time solo, I wanted to find a seat, get a drink and sit first so I tried my best to run past that first group hahah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog83 View Post

    So its really ok if I see a girl by the bar or something to approach her?
    Of course it is ok to approach a dancer if she is by the bar, sitting & chatting to co-workers, walking by etc. We LOVE when a customer whisks us away for a dance

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    Yes approach. One of my best regulars ever approached me and I don't know if I would have approached him because he wasn't normally the type interested in me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    Of course it is ok to approach a dancer if she is by the bar, sitting & chatting to co-workers, walking by etc. We LOVE when a customer whisks us away for a dance
    Just smile and say hi?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Yes approach. One of my best regulars ever approached me and I don't know if I would have approached him because he wasn't normally the type interested in me.
    I have thought about this, if strippers approach everyone or just ones they feel comfortable around or think they are a spender$$. So stripers dont approach every guy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog83 View Post
    I have thought about this, if strippers approach everyone or just ones they feel comfortable around or think they are a spender$$. So stripers dont approach every guy?
    It really depends on the dancer. I have a dancer friend that doesn't hustle at all. Apparently, all of her customers approached her for dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog83 View Post
    Just smile and say hi?
    Dude, I feel you. You walk in, see the place jumping and think, "Now what?"

    Just smile, say hi and tell her you'd LOVE to get a dance (or two or three). Watch her light up like a Christmas Tree.

    Maybe once you're back there, ask what her boundaries are if she hasn't already told you. Respect them. And then when the dance is over, tip what you feel is right.

    TOO just posted his original SC Rules for Customers in the thread entitled "Who ruins the fantasy" - fantastic advice and worth a read for us noobs.

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kessler View Post
    Dude, I feel you. You walk in, see the place jumping and think, "Now what?"

    Just smile, say hi and tell her you'd LOVE to get a dance (or two or three). Watch her light up like a Christmas Tree.
    No no no! That is completely wrong! Here is the correct method: You bring out your most obnoxious voice and ask the dancer, "Hey baby, how 'bouts you and me hav' a lil' fun in the back room? And remember to grab her ass then give it a little squeeze. This shows you're serious.

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    ^^ You may get hit with a stiletto in that case!
    Otherwise I love to be approached. You know what days strippers remember most fondly?
    The days where guys asked them for dances
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I don't know if I would have approached him because he wasn't normally the type interested in me.
    hmm...so is this like saying because you may have thought that you're not his type, that you had no interest is going to him to offer him a dance?


    Im the type to very rarely ask for dances. If im not approached I take that as a sign I'm not someone who you care to dance for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Let_It_Fly View Post
    hmm...so is this like saying because you may have thought that you're not his type, that you had no interest is going to him to offer him a dance?


    Im the type to very rarely ask for dances. If im not approached I take that as a sign I'm not someone who you care to dance for.
    For me, if I pass by asking someone for a dance, it's not that I have no interest dancing for him per se. Really, I'm pretty much interested in dancing for anyone who wants to pay me to dance. It's more like, who do I want to invest time in trying to make a sale? If I see a customer that looks like the type of guy who generally buys from me, and a customer that looks like the type that generally turns me down, then obviously I'm going to want to focus my efforts where I feel I am more likely to make a sale.

    Obviously this technique can be flawed, since I may pass by guys that would spend money on me, but after a while of doing this and getting an idea of who "likes" you and who doesn't, it almost becomes automatic.

    If it's slow, or a "wanna dance" type fast hustle I'll usually try to approach everyone. ....But then again if I'm being a bad stripper and being lazy or crabby then I might not.

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    nevermind.
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    Oh, and to the OP - yes, it's totally fine to approach a dancer if your want to spend money on her. We love that - it cuts down on the guess work, and I don't know a dancer that would dislike that.
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    Strip clubs are great. You can walk in, approach any girl (that's working) and they'll agree to spending time with you (as long as you're paying).

    You'd be surprised how many customers will come to the DJ, Manager, especially doormen in order to get dances. It makes the male staff look good because the girls think they're selling the dances BUT in reality the customers are either too nervous to approach directly, or just don't know how.

    I've only seen one girl repeatedly turn down customers for dances. For whatever reason, she was happy making a few bucks a night on stage- would not give dances. It was weird.

    So your chances are pretty good that she'll grab you by the hand and lead you to the VIP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog83 View Post
    Just smile and say hi?


    I have thought about this, if strippers approach everyone or just ones they feel comfortable around or think they are a spender$$. So stripers dont approach every guy?
    I generally approached all guys but this was a busy Friday so many choices.


    Quote Originally Posted by Let_It_Fly View Post
    hmm...so is this like saying because you may have thought that you're not his type, that you had no interest is going to him to offer him a dance?


    Im the type to very rarely ask for dances. If im not approached I take that as a sign I'm not someone who you care to dance for.
    I usually go talk to all guys but if it's busy then I approach those guys that are looking at me or tend to be my type. Younger guys generally weren't interested so I avoided them when there were more guys who are attracted to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleSnuglet View Post
    But I'm fairly surprised you weren't approached by a flock/herd (is that the right term)?
    I believe the proper term is a "hustle of strippers."

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleSnuglet View Post
    No no no! That is completely wrong! Here is the correct method: You bring out your most obnoxious voice and ask the dancer, "Hey baby, how 'bouts you and me hav' a lil' fun in the back room? And remember to grab her ass then give it a little squeeze. This shows you're serious.
    I then reply by punching you in the head and you fall down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog83 View Post
    I will be going to Vegas next week and plan on hitting a SC. This will be my 3rd time in a SC. I remember my last trip to the SC, I noticed this one stripper just doing laps around the club with her co-worker. She was just so hot!!! I tried making eye contact every time she walked by but she was too busy talking to her friend.

    Then I noticed a bunch of girls just hanging out at the bar and near the entrance. I couldn't understand why all the good looking ones were just hanging out!!

    Ive read a few posts here how girls do not care if you approach them....Ive never even thought about that...lol. I guess that is why the majority of the girls hang out by the door and the bar closest to the door.

    So its really ok if I see a girl by the bar or something to approach her?
    Absolutely not.!!! They want you to sit in the corner for hours, nursing your drink. They do not want you coming anywhere near them with your filthy cash!!
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    lol I don't usually approach dancers, but when I do I have found the ladies room to be a great place to pounce!


    The only caveat that I can think of in the "approach" genre is never approach a dancer if she is with a customer. It is incredibly rude and puts both the dancer & the customer in an awkward spot, not to mention the risk of bodily harm that might befall someone doing something so crass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    ^^^I'd like to amend that- I do not mind and actually enjoy being approached by a customer while I am "casually occupied," as in, I am standing mingling with my friends and some lame-o who thinks he's going to waste my time but can't be bothered to take a seat. I LOVE it when a serious customer comes up and respectfully requests a dance. Not only does it effectively take me away from mr. time waster, but it shows him (and the rest of the club!!!) that I am popular and the only way to get to spend time with me is to spend money on me.

    However, if I am sitting down with someone then yes, I suppose it would be rude to approach me.
    I would never ever approach a girl with a guy...that screams douchebag all over.
    I was just wondering if she is chit chatting with her friends and just hanging out etc.

    So I can really just go up, get her name and ask for a dance? It just seems so wrong to do that but eh, its a SC!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    There are guys who approach dancers, then don't buy dances? Are they broke or just arrogant dipshits?
    Yep had it happened where a guy wanted me to talk to him and wouldn't tip me. I was talking to another dancer when this guy flagged me down. I asked him if he wanted a dance and he said no, he just wanted to chat. I said ok for tips and he said "what tips". He then said my job was to talk to him and that he knew I was paid by the club. He even complained to the manager but he said we are not paid and no tipping means no talking.

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    I visit clubs as a customer a lot, and as a single female I get... about zero dancers approaching me all night, so I don't really have a choice!
    I've approached a girl or two on slow nights, when they were with other guys... but they'd been with him/them for over an hour and they clearly weren't buying. I think in that case that's okay. Just ask politely if she's busy or not.

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