
Originally Posted by
Naida
For the true SCJ, strip clubbing is a hobby, FYI.
As for approaching- DO IT! There are lots of reasons why dancers won't approach a particular customer. Maybe you don't stand out from the crowd. Maybe you don't look like her "type". Maybe she is busy and hasn't had time to approach everyone. Maybe the club is too big/busy for her to take time talking to everyone. Maybe another customer upset her earlier and she's talking to other girls until she feels composed enough to start approaching again. Either way, if you like a dancer and she isn't engaged with a customer, introduce yourself.
If she's with another customer, it can be a little tricky. Observe how long she's been sitting with that customer, whether or not money changes hands, and how well they seem to know each other. If she's been there for 10+ minutes and no money has changed hands, she might be new to dancing and just doesn't know how to excuse herself, in which case, you'll be her knight in shining armor. But always, ALWAYS wait at least ten minutes without money changing hands, introduce yourself to both the dancer and customer, then ask as politely as you possibly can if she is busy. If she gives you a moment, make it apparent that you want dances as soon as she's available. If she says she is busy, politely say that you're sorry to both dancer and customer before excusing yourself.
As for the argument about visible stacks- DON'T DO IT, unless you're at the tip rail. In clubs I've worked, this is the only acceptable place to leave money out. It will get the attention of the dancer on stage- so be ready to part with those bills or have problems. A stack is supposed to mean "I'm willing to spend this much on any one girl," so only have a stack as big as you are willing to tip each girl. (As in, if you'll only part with $10 per stage set, only have a $10 stack. Replenish the stack as needed.) If you have a $50 stack and you only tip me $2, you are a waste of my time and every girl in the club will be told as much, which means a crappy experience for you. Keeping the stack small gives two benefits for the customer- 1) When you run out of bills at $5, I can excuse that smile, say thank you and move on to other tippers. If you stop at $5 with another $20 still in front of you, you have officially pissed me off. And 2) Strippers have a reputation for also being a bit thieving, and where there's smoke there's fire. Even I've been guilty of ripping guys off for a few bucks when they leave cash out. Making your funds visible makes them a visible target for thieves, dancers and customers alike.
Anywhere else in the club- you just look like a PL. If it's a stack of small bills like 1s and 5s, you just look like a pretend spender and no girl will take you seriously enough to approach you. If it's a stack of larger bills, any real dancer worth her salt knows that you're not spending that money or you'd already be in VIP/CR/other dances. The only dancers it'll attract are ones that I can basically guarantee you DON'T want at your table. Oh, and thieves, regardless of denomination.
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