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    Default Have to get this out.

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    Aww sweetie I'm so sorry. I'm not even gonna say much, cuz I know you just need to vent. But I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. I've had pretty much the same experience lately. No one said anything outright, but some things have been said, hints have been dropped, visits cancelled, etc.

    I'm glad that she got it out of her system so that you can know how she feels. But I'm sorry that she's not being supportive of you. I understand why she isn't (from her perspective, and I would understand why my mom wouldn't be), but I know how hard it is to have people disappointed in you. And growing up in my house was the same thing. Never good enough.

    I'll chat with you soon. Hang in there. You're a woman and you're making your own choices. Hopefully she'll come around to seeing that, or at least you two can come to some common ground when things have cooled down.

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    Just wanted to say I LOVE the responses you've come up with to tell your mom. Articulate and well thought out. I can't imagine how hard it must be to deal with this kind of crap from someone under the same roof as you.

    Good luck, and hopefully you can get out of there soon!
    Hopefully she will come around eventually, at least enough to keep things civil.

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    sorry about what you have to deal with..that's why I'm saving up and moving out before I touch camming. I know there are some on here who have open minded and support families and mine is just not one of them. My mom would react the same way and probably shun me for life if she found out about it.

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    Maybe you could try writing that out to her in a letter in your words so hopefully she understands your feelings and reasons? But ultimately she needs to understand that you are a grown woman and these are your choices. She gets to choose whether she supports you or not. I think the best thing will be to get your own place asap. I hope things get better for you soon.

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    First of all, I applaud you for having so much strength in yourself to feel so strongly about camming. I know a lot of men or women would completely cave if their mother or father came at them like that. The fact you validate each and every one of those questions with your own genuine feelings means this is right for you. I think we can all agree there are a LOT of girls who cam that really don't belong here. Maybe it's just me, but I find it very refreshing to read this so thank you for that!

    Secondly, we all need to vent every once in a while. Maybe once your mother sees you're not backing down from this, she'll be more open about discussing it with you. From there, you can explain your stance and hopefully get a bit of understanding. I know from a lot of experience that it's hard getting a parent to understand something they think is a disappointment out of their child, but she's your Mommy and she loves you in the end of it all.

    I don't have much advice to offer other than what's already been said. I really do hope and pray things work out for you in your stressful situation, though. <3

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    I might sound like a hypocrite now, but I would not encourage my daughter to cam.
    and this is part of the reason " why"

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    My heart goes out to you lady!

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    Hey Eliana, I just wanted to offer some words of support. It sounds to me like your position in your family has been under-appreciated and that they are more concerned about them living their lives than you living yours. You sound like a wonderful person who does well for themself despite having an unstable support system which is nothing short of amazing and brave.

    Like you've said, you've just got to keep your mouth shut so you don't kick up too much dirt before you can get yourself to a place you want to be. There are people out there who can appreciate you for who you are. I applaud you for looking towards the future and throwing away the cares you have about a family that does not treat you well. My family was the same and removing myself from them has been the best thing I've ever done for myself.

    I think you'll do great no matter what you do. And I personally love that you are so open and helpful towards your daughters. It is not the job of the family to tell someone what to do, it's the family's job to make sure that person is happy doing it.

    In regards to Fridays post... It doesn't have to be like that for every model. With the right attitude and knowledge and support you can completely overcome all of the things she is claiming are unavoidable.

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    Sorry to hear about your situation, I too all my life have dealt with a mother that talks to me as such probably worse lol, infact she hates me and tells my family members horrible things about me to the point where I wont go around them... Just recently I realized how much pain this has caused and has messed me up in the head some, Idk if this is part of the reason I turned to the adult industry, but thats another story (getting therapy soon).Anywho here's the thing people like that you cant convince them no matter how you present the situation to her. So its best you save your energy (dont argue) and invest it in camming so you can get out and get your own place and do your own thing. But while you are in HER house show respect and stay positive, and it will come back ten times fold, I promise. Been there done that. Success is always the best revenge in situations like these

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    Default Re: Have to get this out.

    Thank you ladies. I had to get this out cause it was eating at me. I truly appreciate all of the support.

    Fridays, I'm definitely not saying I would encourage camming, but if it was something they wanted to do I think it would be important to educate them on safety, boundaries, and the fact that this is harder than a job it is a business. I should definitely say I would support them in that decision no matter what they wanted to do so long as it was safe and made them happy.

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