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    my customer, who i called in and waited for, gave his money to some other dancer when he knew i was there. I went up to him and everything, yet he still gave her the money i waited for all night


    this bitch will learn her lesson, about manners and etiquette. i'm seeing 4 shades of red, thats how fucking furious I am

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    Eek! Inhale....Exhale....
    Maybe she didn't know?
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    Dude.... I would be mad at the customer
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    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    oh. ill let him know. and her too. she knew he was my customer.

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    ahhh gotcha.... that sucks. all you can do is brush it off and go forward though....
    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    Totally not her fault. It sounds like he chose to spend on the other girl.....sometimes regulars get sick of the same girl all the time. His money, his choice. Freaking out about it will probably push him away even further.


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    Welll... looks like he's her customer now.
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    ugh. fuck this, fuck her and fuck him. i am so ready to beat some ass, you guys have no idea. im just venting thats all

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    I know you're venting and I feel for you girl. I just have to point something out.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sia View Post
    Totally not her fault. It sounds like he chose to spend on the other girl.....sometimes regulars get sick of the same girl all the time. His money, his choice. Freaking out about it will probably push him away even further.
    I believe this. Honestly, it's any guy who comes in is the CLUB'S customer. It's nice to be someone's regular and it's nice to say "my customer, her customer etc." but ultimately, it's the club's customer.

    the whole "my customer" thing always pisses me off. He may be your regular but no one forced him to spend money on someone else. He wanted to spend money on that girl so he did.

    sorry that you lost him I've been there... it sucks.
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    yeah, i'll be fine

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    Default Re: i am beyond furious

    I know how you feel. You can't always control how you feel, but you can control what you do about it.

    I had a reg that everyone knew was mine, and girls would hustle him anyways, and I'd get soooooo mad about that-both at the customer and at the dancer. Most of the time he didn't spend money on them, but occasionally he would. I wish I could control how and when and on who customers spend their money, especially my regulars. But unfortunately, you can't.

    I'm sorry this happened. It totally sucks. Dancers' greed can know no boundaries and ettiquette and respect is quickly flying out the window.
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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    I'm sorry this happened. It totally sucks. Dancers' greed can know no boundaries and ettiquette and respect is quickly flying out the window.
    regardless of what I said in my earlier post: THIS IS TOTALLY TRUE.

    it's gross.
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    Nobody is anybody's customer they are the clubs! When I worked local I had guys who only dances with me for years an if I was busy I would send another girl over while he waited. It's his choice and guys hate this territorial shit that's why they're at the club to escape their nagging wives and real life problems!

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    This sounds like a game to me. Some guys do this to provoke a reaction. I had a guy try this game with me with camming. Would contact me and say hey log in I want to play with you so bad. I get on the site and then he comes in my room to tell me he already got off with someone else, even though he was messaging me the whole time. This is just a mind f*** game. Don't get mad at all. I mean is that guy even worth fighting over? Just see him as the customer he is and think that he just got one over on you Remember alot of those types of games are just a bit of an ego boost for him. Say nothing to him and say nothing to her. If he went to a different strip club all together, would you be mad? Yes but you would see him as the asshole which is the same case here. The girls may know he's your regular but again he knows you were waiting for him. Were you perhaps busy with someone else? Well he wanted to teach you a lesson. He already knows that this would create a vibe at the work place. Think of how badly this can escalate? If you get fired would he stop showing up at the club? Nope he would just go and find someone else.

    So again don't talk to her about it and don't talk to him. She's there doing her job just like you and he enjoyed disappointing you even if it was just to see the look of frustration on your face.

    Also I think I read somewhere that when a dancer didn't want to take things OTC the guy started opening spending money on another dancer. Just to piss her off and show her " you can be replaced".

    Again you can be pissed but don't let them know that. Just take it in stride and don't call him for awhile or if you do be prepared for him to do this once more.

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    ^Yeah I was going to point that out. I've had customers do that to me occasionally... You won't let me kiss/touch/fuck you yet? You won't meet me outside of the club? Well, let me rub THIS is your face etc.

    Although I was the girl on the other side of the equation once. I have no idea who's regulars are who's so I had done dances with one absolute gentleman. He came in again but was too afraid that his regular girl was going to rip him a new one that he wouldn't talk tome even though she wasn't working. Like, I thought you came to the SC for the absence of pussy-whippage but oh well.

    Good luck! Before you know it a better reg will pop right up

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    I dont think you should me mad at the other girl. She's just trying to make money. You guys arnt best friends, she doesnt owe you anything. At the end of the day she has bills to pay and any custy will do. Why should she turn down money? If you wanna be mad at someone be mad at him cause he's the one whos spending money. I find it crazy when dancers get mad at other dancers for "stealing" custys. A girl has got to eat so if Janes custy wants to spend money on me ill take it. As for "ettiquette"...it dont pay the bills. No clean stripper should be looked down upon for trying to make money.
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    Maybe I've gotten used to the dirty hustle in Miami (and I don't mean extras), but if a guy asks ME for a LD or VIP, I don't care if another girl considers him 'her regular.'

    Granted, I wouldn't go hustle him for it, but if he approaches me, why wouldn't I let him give me money?

    You think a guy wants to get turned down by a stripper because they don't want problems with his regular dancer? What will he think of you? As a customer I would imagine you're being territorial and threatening towards other dancers, and I know you were pissed when you posted this but that is exactly what its coming off as.

    Oh and another thing, I have never been one to say or know, oh, that is so-and-so's customer. I am not keeping track of what other dancers are doing. The easiest way to find out is when a customer tells me, "I'm waiting for x to come over." Fine, no hard feelings. If he doesn't tell me that and takes me up on a LD oh well, not my fault. AND, if he comes in the club again a week later I'm sure I wouldn't remember his face and would hustle him again if I didn't.

    Too much drama :/

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    It sounds like he waited, didn't see you so he spent it on someone new. It sucks losing out on money, but you really shouldn't say anything to him about how he should spend his money as he pleases. Customers come and go...no one owns them. They all get expired, sometimes come back after( if they don't sense territorialism).

    As for the girl, I would do the same too. I don't see what she did wrong here.

    I hope you have a better, awesome week. $$$$$$$$

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sia View Post
    His money, his choice.
    ^This. It's never fun when this happens, but sometimes it does

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    Yeah, don't say anything to the girl. He chose to spend his money on her and not you. The very fact that you "went up to him and everything and he still gave her the money" means that HE made a very specific choice about who he was going to spend that money on. If he really wanted to give it to you and not her, he would have sent her away or, at most, given her some pity money to go away so he could focus his attention on you. He didn't. What did you want the other girl to do? Refuse to make money just so you wouldn't be mad? Unless she pulled some shit like interrupt your conversation to get all up in his face and then promise to suck his dick if he gave her "your" money, she wasn't doing anything wrong. Regulars come and go. I can't even count the number of times I had a regular for a couple months who then decided to go to a different dancer and stop spending on me. But you can't get mad and "teach a lesson to" the girls they choose over you. I know it sucks to lose a reg and his money, but it was HIS decision. This isn't a singles club, it's a strip club, and guys usually aren't going to tell you when they want to move on to a different dancer. You just have to realize it yourself and take it with grace.

    What's easier: accepting it and ignoring him to focus on making money elsewhere, OR creating drama in the DR by confronting a girl who technically did nothing wrong and wasting time trying to hoard a guy who probably will be difficult to get money out of in the future since he clearly wants to spend it elsewhere? He's not a super-awesome bf - he's a SC customer. There's plenty more where he came from... no sense in trying to fight for him.
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    One more thing: The best regulars can have several girls and still save a bit of money for each

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    I wonder if somewhere out there on a forum... there's a post from some girl going
    "This customer came up and asked me for dances, so I did them and now this other girl is really, really mad at me. Did I do something wrong? She says he was 'her' customer but I didn't know and he asked me so I'm not sure if I need to apologize or something. "
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    My first thoughts were it's the customers choice where he spends his money.

    My second thought was if she is one of those girls that has been working on your custy knowing he is your regular, and doesn't quit.

    That is a manners and etiquette issue.

    I would be pissed at your reg especially if you called him in. Talk to him and find out what happened.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    My second thought was if she is one of those girls that has been working on your custy knowing he is your regular, and doesn't quit.

    That is a manners and etiquette issue.
    It would be if she is clock blocking her/invading her space while she is trying to hustle the dude. That is a big no no. There she has no manners/etiquette.

    But if this regular is giving other girls money, they are not not gonna quit... that's hustling. Not a manner/etiquette thing.

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    I'm one of those girls that will call a customer "mine." I think you have every right to be upset. YOU called him into the club and he came. If you didn't call him in then he wouldn't be there in the first place. He obviously came to see you. Now, if he came in on a night you weren't working then of course he has every right to spend on whomever the hell he wanted.

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