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    So, tonight I decided to help the girl I brought with me on this strip trip. She was feeling a little down about not making a lot, so I though to double-hustle with her, which can be lucrative if you find the right guys.

    Well, I did (thanks to the dj/bouncer). I brought her over, introduced her, and started working the guys.

    I brought them over to her stage, had them building mansions, making designs with dollars (a sun, a flower, etc), and overall had them tip her almost $80 on stage, and then we got dances with them. Then she left, I got on stage, and she didn't help at all. She left to go play pool.

    Well after my stage, I go back over to them to do round two, and am going back with them. I was thinking about just letting her play pool, but instead went and got her to do more dances, where we did another 4 dances with the guys.

    But no thank you? No, hey, thanks for coming to get me, no thanks for getting them to tip, no thanks for bringing me over with you in the first place?

    I'm a little put out about that. Not mad, just like huh, ok then.

    So I don't think I'm gonna run and get her again, no extra effort or going out of my way. I may change my mind later, but not at the moment.

    IDK, I always say thank you to a girl when she goes and gets me and I end up making money.
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    Default Re: I'm a little miffed....

    Wow, wtf. Your are so sweet! Geez, I'd not only be thanking you, I'd be slipping you a cut for helping! She sounds very selfish & inconsiderate. I wouldn't help her anymore. Damn, what, she doesn't see that you helped her make $. More importantly, you were caring enough th want to help & even try to make her feel better.


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    Try hooking up 7 girls to do a 5,900 rooms and only 2 even said thank you. They were all sitting on their asses and I had to hurry and round them up before the guy changed his mind and I sold a 2200 room for him and I and I only got the same amount as them! I told a few of them this and it was because only 3 girls are allowed in that room and they did 7 so I think they all should of chipped in and gave me say 25 each since I made 5 extra girls money and made 500 less than I would of but that's life and I certainly won't do it again!

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    yeah... I don't think I would be helping her anymore. She was quite ungrateful to not help you after you helped her. Or she could have AT LEAST said thanks.

    but on the bright side you should have some good karma coming your way
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    Default Re: I'm a little miffed....

    Yeah, girls are never grateful when you help them out. At my old club, we had tipwalks after stage. Everyone did it, and when girls would walk up to guys I was talking to for a tip, I would point to her and say "Would you like to tip the pretty lady? Come on, she worked so hard up on stage!" Shit, it's only polite. But I can't even count the number of times I would walk up to a guy who was talking to another girl, just for a tip, and she would purposely keep jabbering on and on and on, intentionally ignoring me like I wasn't there. Like, really? You know how the tipwalks work and it's not like they avoid otherwise "engaged" guys when they do their tipwalk. After I've helped them out on every single tipwalk, they can't even allow "their" guy to part with a single dollar during my tipwalk? God forbid!

    Point is, bitches are greedy. They'll happily take any help you give them, but would never dream of helping you back.

    You're too nice papillonluvr! I feel so bad every time you post about wanting to help out some girl and she never appreciates it or is a snotty bitch about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    Yeah, girls are never grateful when you help them out. At my old club, we had tipwalks after stage. Everyone did it, and when girls would walk up to guys I was talking to for a tip, I would point to her and say "Would you like to tip the pretty lady? Come on, she worked so hard up on stage!" Shit, it's only polite. But I can't even count the number of times I would walk up to a guy who was talking to another girl, just for a tip, and she would purposely keep jabbering on and on and on, intentionally ignoring me like I wasn't there. Like, really? You know how the tipwalks work and it's not like they avoid otherwise "engaged" guys when they do their tipwalk. After I've helped them out on every single tipwalk, they can't even allow "their" guy to part with a single dollar during my tipwalk? God forbid!

    Point is, bitches are greedy. They'll happily take any help you give them, but would never dream of helping you back.

    You're too nice papillonluvr! I feel so bad every time you post about wanting to help out some girl and she never appreciates it or is a snotty bitch about it.



    It didn't used to be this way. But she is a new dancer (not even 21!), and older dancers don't "coach" or "teach" the new ones anymore about dancer ettiquette and politeness.

    Although I think a Thank You is just common courtesy if someone helps you out, not only in the dancer realm but everywhere. But people seem to forget simple politeness as soon as they step into a strip club.
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    Normally, I don't double hustle with girls. Since she was having a hard time of it, I offered to work with her. She'd said that'd be cool, so I did.

    I didn't bring her along with the idea we would double hustle. I brought her along because I'd planned to make the trip, and it's nice to have company and someone to split the travel costs with. We'd never doubled before, but I've worked alongside her and she's generally nice and chill and not a druggie or drama queen.

    I didn't mean that since she's under 21 she's rude. I meant it that she's only been stripping for a short period of time. Most (not all, but a great deal) of girls that are that young don't have any idea of what's considered rude in the dancing world.

    If she asks to hustle with me again, I'll probably say no unless she agrees to work with me in return.
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