I read a lot of posts on here about disrespect. Customers will come in and say something totally offensive to you, and you hate it. So I wanted to offer a little advice to you girls to help you overcome the feeling of being disrespected. Consider this one simple thing: It's a fetish. If it's not an outright sexual fetish, it's an emotional disability. People love the reaction they get when they get under your skin. Calling you a whore while they're on a cam site is of course ridiculous, that's why usually I assume that's their fetish and they want to make you mad because it gets them off. If they are straight up trolling for no sexual reason, then they must have a serious emotional issue if they're trying to hurt people for no good reason.
That's how I think of it when it happens to me. It ends up not bothering me very much, and guess what happens as a result of that? I don't get disrespected nearly as often. The other boys in the room who might be into the same thing and notice my "it's no big deal, just ban the guy and don't emotionally react" attitude don't try it because they know it doesn't work. And it lets the guys who aren't into that thing know that I'm secure enough not to let it get to me.
So, I hope that's some food for thought for you ladies. You can't change the world, but you can change your attitude!![]()



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