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    Default I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    I've already been through a shit storm when someone found out about my porn vid which was damn near 4 years ago.

    I really don't want to go through another shit storm like that again. Should I just strip?

    My 2 main fears are:

    1. I won't get hired at OR worse I'll get fired from an awesome professional job in the future.

    2. People that know me and my kid and my kids dad will find out and create a shit storm.

    Is the risk there? High enough to stop me?

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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    Since I've already done porn is it like f*ck it? Or will this add alot of crap?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    Well, doom and gloomers will say that being in this industry, it's not a matter of IF people will find out, but WHEN. If you are that worried about future repercussions and not sure this move is worth the sacrifice, I would not do it. From the sounds of it, you have a lot to lose and if you have to ask if it's worth it, it's not.

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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    There are blocking features on pretty much every camsite so you can block the areas where you have family and friends and where you live. This isn't foolproof since people can still get through it, but when I set mine, I figured "right, like my 52 year old dad is going to go out of his way to figure out how to get through IP blocks on camsites... he can barely open youtube..." I honestly doubt that most of the people who do something like fuck with that are going to be people you know personally.

    You can always change your look for cam. Wear a wig. Put on false lashes. There are several threads about how to use makeup to alter your look, and how to cover up distinguishing marks like birth marks or tattoos.

    The only jobs that I'd be really worried about this coming back to bite you would be education or government. But, like you said, you've already done porn and been outed, so that in and of itself would be enough for me to be deterred from trying to get into those fields. Not saying that you should say "fuck it, why not" to camming, but if your name is already out there associated with porn, I would reconsider if you were planning to go into those fields anyway.

    Personally, I think the chances of someone important finding out are slim if you just take certain precautions:
    -Block critical areas
    -Change your look at least to the point where someone would have to be like "hmmm, it looks like her but maybe I'm just crazy...."
    -Never give out personal info to any customer. No real name, no real location, no real school history or past jobs. Make up everything so that there's less chance of someone who would know you from somewhere figuring out it's really you. Also, don't use the same name you used in the porno.
    -Don't tell anyone. You never know who's gonna turn on you and try to hurt you with the info.

    If you do all that, I feel there is a very small possibility that you will be found out. But if you're really worried, then just stick with stripping.
    Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.

    Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.






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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    There are blocking features on pretty much every camsite so you can block the areas where you have family and friends and where you live. This isn't foolproof since people can still get through it, but when I set mine, I figured "right, like my 52 year old dad is going to go out of his way to figure out how to get through IP blocks on camsites... he can barely open youtube..." I honestly doubt that most of the people who do something like fuck with that are going to be people you know personally.

    You can always change your look for cam. Wear a wig. Put on false lashes. There are several threads about how to use makeup to alter your look, and how to cover up distinguishing marks like birth marks or tattoos.

    The only jobs that I'd be really worried about this coming back to bite you would be education or government. But, like you said, you've already done porn and been outed, so that in and of itself would be enough for me to be deterred from trying to get into those fields. Not saying that you should say "fuck it, why not" to camming, but if your name is already out there associated with porn, I would reconsider if you were planning to go into those fields anyway.

    Personally, I think the chances of someone important finding out are slim if you just take certain precautions:
    -Block critical areas
    -Change your look at least to the point where someone would have to be like "hmmm, it looks like her but maybe I'm just crazy...."
    -Never give out personal info to any customer. No real name, no real location, no real school history or past jobs. Make up everything so that there's less chance of someone who would know you from somewhere figuring out it's really you. Also, don't use the same name you used in the porno.
    -Don't tell anyone. You never know who's gonna turn on you and try to hurt you with the info.

    If you do all that, I feel there is a very small possibility that you will be found out. But if you're really worried, then just stick with stripping.
    I just wanted to say, perfect advice.

    If America has taught me anything it's that it doesn't matter if something is true or not, you just have to sell it. If I ever get outed I plan on saying this:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2g5Hz17C4is

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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    I hear about people recording and reposting shows that girls do, anyone else?

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    Default Re: I have to ask before making a final decision...Will camming get me outed?

    ^It happens, I personally haven't found myself in 7 months of camming but there are steps you can take to have recorded shows taken down. But it is a very real risk of the industry
    lol wut?


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