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    If you were GHB'd at work, and acted up at work. Would you even bother going back to that particular club? Or would you just move on and find another club. I am asking because this happenend to me. I am completely humiliated and the situation was beyond my control. Also, this has occured to at least 10 other girls from what I've been told after the fact.
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    OMG. Sorry to hear that. Thats so awful!!!

    You were the victim of something horrible. Don't feel shameful. It wasn't your fault.

    I don't see any problem with you going back to your club. But considering 10+ ladies have been drugged there, I would be very careful with my drinks.
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    Yea its happened to me. Stupid assholes. U just have to pick urself up and go back. Sometimes things r uncomfortable but its was out of ur control just remind urself of the facts and move forward.

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    ^ What Sophia said.

    Don't be embarrassed for the way you acted, you were drugged and it wasn't your fault. I would definitely be concerned with the fact that slipping date-rape things into girls drinks seems to be happening so much there though. If you find a new club, it shouldn't be because of your behavior, it should be for your safety. A girl at my club was slipped something and it gave her a seizure in the dressing room, its scary stuff!


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    Did you tell anyone that's what happened?

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    First of all, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've been drugged before, both at work, and also at a party surrounded with people I thought I knew, and I know how invasive and violating it is.

    That said, if it had happened one time and the circumstances immediately afterwards were in your favor, I wouldn't blame the club. When I was drugged, a guy slipped GHB in my drink at last call and I was halfway home before it kicked in. I told the club who had done it and they banned him. However, if you were drugged and obviously under the influence at work and nobody lifted a finger to help or interfere, I'd say fuck them and find a new place. Plus, you said that this has happened to ten other girls? That's extraordinarily suspicious to me. At the very least, the club is attracting the wrong sorts of clientele, and even if the club is "unaware" of who is doing this, it would be worth leaving just so you don't risk having the same guy do it again. But from what you said, I'm getting the feeling that you just do not feel safe at this club, in which case you NEVER need an excuse to leave. No amount of money or club loyalty is worth your safety.

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    This is happening alot now it's really scary. Happened to me at a casino and my two friends at a local bar. Girls be careful! Never accept a drink from a stranger. The weird thing is nothing ever good came to the person drugging. In all of our cases as soon as we drank the bad drink we immediately felt sick and left the places we were at. What are these guys thinking?!

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    Actually at first I thought she took GHB at work and just took too much. There are people now using GHB as a party drug when it originally was used as the date rape drug. I know a few people in passing that are heavy GHB users partier types that add a dash of Ketamine and maybe some Coke into the mix. I have to say they are the most fun people to watch when you're the only sober person there because they are literally bouncing off the walls. Generally at some point they will get naked and an orgy will just open up right in front of you. You sit back and just watch the show and wish you had some good lighting. One of the guys I know takes a bit too much and ends up blacking out or he'll vomit and pass out . He'll wake up 2 hours later and will be ready to party again like nothing happened. He scares me because he's just out of control. A few times he tried to push me to take something and I just cut him off. Our relationship was basically you do what you do but as long as you can respect that I'm not down with that shit then we're cool. So before ending up with a spiked drink I just decided it was time to cut ties with the 24/7 group.

    I thought maybe the OP had just overdosed but now I realize she was drugged by some fucked up asshat.

    The guys that have taken it have told me that it makes everyone on it want to boink like rabbits and it doesn't make them go limp like e and doesn't get in the way of them getting off like coke does. All in all they say it's the drug to party on because you're happy and hard.

    Now at a place of work being drugged sounds super f***ed up. I can't even believe that a bunch of girls would get caught up and none of the bartenders knew. Typically issues with girls getting drugged have to do with a surrounding participant in the game. I would bring my own bottle of water from now on and would go off if I was told otherwise . Seriously I just wouldn't feel safe there after this. I mean does anyone there have an axe to grind with most of the dancers? Is there someone that hits on you all that works there that just wanted to mess all of you up like that?

    That many girls ? One guy? Highly doubt it.

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    Yeah I told them that I felt really strange, and they called the ambulance. It was at a super busy club and there was over 350 girls that night. I felt tired and I was really hot so I kept removing my clothes.
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    Why didn't they just call the police close everyone in and find out who the culprit was? Or is that unrealistic. I just felt if they round up all the guys in a club immediately and pat them down, they could find the vials of whatever. Or do they not check to see what the guys actually bring in?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrina312 View Post
    Yeah I told them that I felt really strange, and they called the ambulance. It was at a super busy club and there was over 350 girls that night. I felt tired and I was really hot so I kept removing my clothes.
    If management etc all knows what happened and helped you out, I really wouldn't worry girl. Don't be embarrassed over something that was out of your control.

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    It's way too much traffic for them to check all of the guys. Actually, management was super agitated.
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    I will never leave my drink with someone I dont know. I dont believe u need to go to the extent of finding a new club bc this can happen anywhere..High end clubs..local dives..its doesnt matter. Trust no one and look out for #1. Bottom line..

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    This has sadly happened to me twice *face palm* (this wasn't your fault so there is NO need to feel embarrassed about it).

    The second time my drink was spiked was so BAD that I was rushed to the ER & remember NOTHING (Although the club has cameras EVERYWHERE I know I wasn't harmed). Unfortunately it was my first night at this club. I went back once after this happened...& only once (I had made a bad impression & felt VERY uncomfortable being there. I understand that it was an incovenience for the staff but they were not very supportive/forgiving so I choose not to go back).

    If the club & the dancers are going to be understanding then going back should be fine (they may even have been very worried about you). But, if management didn't realise that your behaviour was due to the GHB that some idiot dropped into your glass then they may see you as "trouble" & you may not be welcomed back (if his is the case you should explain this to them-did you get a blood test? If so, you can always show them the results).

    If you were not too fond of this club then by all means find a new club & start watching your drinks like a hawk!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Why didn't they just call the police close everyone in and find out who the culprit was? Or is that unrealistic. I just felt if they round up all the guys in a club immediately and pat them down, they could find the vials of whatever.
    Never gonna happen.
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    This is really sad. I'm so sorry.

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    this happened to me. actually, a customer commented on the fact that i was sweating excessively and did i feel alright before i even noticed that i was feeling strangely. an off-duty cop was working security so it took him half a second to conclude i had been drugged and he took me home later that night, but i spent the shift passed out in the dressing room.

    i'm sorry someone did this to you. it's nothing to be ashamed of. if mgmt is agitated, it's because they don't know how to fix this problem, not because you inconvenienced them by getting sick.
    Quote Originally Posted by Katrina312 View Post
    Yeah I told them that I felt really strange, and they called the ambulance. It was at a super busy club and there was over 350 girls that night. I felt tired and I was really hot so I kept removing my clothes.

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    it keeps repeatedly happening to a friend of mine.
    its beyond your control, they knew that what can they do?
    its not like u drugged yourself for fun and o.d.' or something.
    if they dont let you go back anywhere because you been spiked at THEIR club and had YOUR safety violated its probably not worth going back; sounds dodgy, would be better off without it kinda thang.
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    Happened to me. I was so pissed off. It hit me on the way home and I was gurning like crazy, could barely walk and actually thought I might pee my pants. I take G recreationally so I knew exactly what it was.. I was kinda happy at least it happened to me because I knew what was happening and what to do.. What if it was some 19 yr old who lives at home and her parents don't know about her work? I haven't gone back to the club since but I wrk at one of the other clubs in the group. I would just go back and try to be more careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    This has sadly happened to me twice *face palm* (this wasn't your fault so there is NO need to feel embarrassed about it).

    The second time my drink was spiked was so BAD that I was rushed to the ER & remember NOTHING (Although the club has cameras EVERYWHERE I know I wasn't harmed). Unfortunately it was my first night at this club. I went back once after this happened...& only once (I had made a bad impression & felt VERY uncomfortable being there. I understand that it was an incovenience for the staff but they were not very supportive/forgiving so I choose not to go back).

    If the club & the dancers are going to be understanding then going back should be fine (they may even have been very worried about you). But, if management didn't realise that your behaviour was due to the GHB that some idiot dropped into your glass then they may see you as "trouble" & you may not be welcomed back (if his is the case you should explain this to them-did you get a blood test? If so, you can always show them the results).

    If you were not too fond of this club then by all means find a new club & start watching your drinks like a hawk!

    i still ont know why youre hung up about that club. id just go back... unless they were really fucking mean about it or something?




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    ^ ummm ya... I had to tell my taxi driver to just keep driving to my house and that my husband would meet him on the street. I was passing out and he wanted to drive me to the hospital and I refused cause I could just see the shit Id have to deal with (Ive been there before as result of my own stupidity and they treat you like a piece of turd junky). I was just hoping the taxi driver wasn't a weirdo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    it keeps repeatedly happening to a friend of mine.
    Really? Maybe its her regular? Its happened to many of us, including me.

    But, honestly, the only girls I've known who have it happen "repeatedly"...well, my observations tell me there is another factor at play.

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    ^ no its at all different clubs mostly.



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    sadly, i have been there and done that. severely.

    i went right back to work.

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