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    Default How do you feel about pictures?

    Working at a club, guys weren't allowed to take pictures. I am sure some did but I doubt those pictures turned out very well. I remember a long time ago one of my coworkers wanted to take a pic of me in the dressing room, dressed in my stripper wear. It just felt weird. I mean those girls were my competition and they only made friends with other girls so they could stab them in the back. This was a dive of a club where extra's girls and pushy/narcissistic girls ruled the club. I just wondered since we weren't really friends why she wanted a pic of me. And I had to wonder if she was going to use the pic to spread rumors or harm me.

    So I had a sugar daddy for a while. I met him at the club. He seemed different from anyone else I had met but he said he was married, going through a divorce. I met him on a regular basis about once a month for a while and we had sex, regularly. Then he disappeared for a while and then recently he wanted to get together for dinner and to me dinner was a code word for sex and being he is/was a sugar daddy... So anyway.. I meet him for dinner and apparently he hadn't been anticipating sex. I wanted to make the night about him because I was worried he felt like I was just another money grubber, because I think too much and I need to learn to expect more from guys. Anyway he did absolutely nothing for me. He just dicked me and ditched me. I even gave him an early Christmas present and he never called me afterwards to say thank you or anything. I was thinking of texting him a photo of myself (non nude) but a nice pic.

    Is that stupid?

    I have a hangup with pics. I never seem to look good in them, not like I think I look in my mind. And almost like some primitive people, thinking you are stealing their soul if you take their picture... I just feel like I am making myself vulnerable.

    Am I just a freak? Thoughts, opinions?

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    I am SO anti-pictures in terms of my stripper-life, it's not even funny. I have one picture of me with another girl in our dressing room that I took on my phone, and I sent one a very good regular (one time in three years) a picture of me in regular clothes. If I even get a hint of a customer taking a sneaky pic of me, you can bet I'll have the bouncer on him in a hot minute. One guy took a video of me on stage on his cell phone and I made the bouncer wipe his whole memory card, every single picture he ever took. I hope there was something special on it That shit doesn't fly with me at all.

    But anyway, if the guy dicked you and around and ditched you, then never thanked you for the Christmas gift, why would you want someone like that to have your picture? Sounds like he deserves a whole bunch of nothing!


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    I want him to want me so I can deny him of me. Or so I can at least have that option. I feel like he thinks he has the power now, because I was nice to him and had a "all him" night. I think he is so self-absorbed that he didn't even realize what a dick he was. Though I realize it was my fault.. for being nice or something like that... I should have denied him sex and let him buy me a nice dinner. I guess that makes me shallow and I'm okay with that. Live and learn I guess.

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    i've noticed a lot of men will leave their phones in their cars because they think they will be confiscated, which i appreciate.
    younger men, i will just say, "i need you to put your phone away". i don't give a fuck if you're sending a text or playing doodle jump. if it has a camera, it needs to be out of sight while i'm anywhere near you.
    for the most part, you can tell if someone is sending an email or something, and they will go outside if they need to make a phone call, so there's no real reason for a phone to be out of their lap or off the table. if i can see the camera, it's gotta go.

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    I am anti photo taking in general but definitely when it comes to stripping. This is ironic because I modeled but never allowed it at the clubs or the parties. I also hate people in general taking my photos.

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    ^^^Agree.

    I hate my picture being taken in general but I do like to take pictures of myself!
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    My boyfriend told me a while back he was working on someone's computer and the guy had videos of girls giving him dances... Judging by the view, the guy had the lapels of his jacket wired up. I never saw them, but he said the video quality was uncomfortably good. He was working on the computer as a freelancer and it was before we met, so I assume he didn't confront the guy about it or anything, so now I'm constantly freaked out when I work on the north side of the city because I'm paranoid I'm going to be on this creep's computer...

    I don't like anyone having compromising images of me, and I can't recommend you give this guy the opportunity to get anymore pleasure from you.

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    There was a situation once where another dancer was pointing her camera at me while I was on stage, I literally walked from one side of the stage to the other and she FOLLOWED me with her phone, another chick saw it and since we were cool she got a bouncer. When I got off stage the girl with the cell phone was in the office and the girl who told the bouncer told me it did look like she was recording. She came out talking all kind of shit about how she 'don't want no video of another girl' and whatnot. They cheked her phone and she didn't have a video. Later on before leaving I saw her using a stupid astrology program that lets you look at stars, the background was black with colored constellations and shit. Well, thats basically what it would look like if you were recording the stage.

    I don't feel bad she got interrogated by staff, bitch was always sitting on her ass complaining she had no money yet doing stupid shit like this.

    Oh and you're wasting your time with this so called sugar daddy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl View Post
    I want him to want me so I can deny him of me. Or so I can at least have that option. I feel like he thinks he has the power now, because I was nice to him and had a "all him" night.
    You sending him pictures to try and get him to want you (even if it's to deny him of you) just feeds into that power. You put the ball in his court with that dinner date, so it's probably wisest for you to just back off and leave him alone. If he contacts you, ignore. He's truly not worth your time and effort.

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    Worth a thousand words. Pretty steady exchange rate.

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