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    I need some affirmation. I changed my hair back to really really dark from light blonde and I do think it looks good and there's no way I can change it back (wayy too damaging) but now I'm scared I made a bad decision...
    Need some positive success stories from girls with dark hair.. I actually think it might be better for my dancing money, but i haven't been able to try it out yet and I'm just nervous. DOes anybody else know what I mean?

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    So.. you want to know about if not being blond will make you money in the club? I saw a girl with red and purple short hair and she made more than all the blonds I saw the last time I was in the club.. Does that help?

    If not, I have dark hair and I never had trouble.

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    Everyone is different. For me, the darker the hair the better. Men love dark hair on me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    So.. you want to know about if not being blond will make you money in the club? I saw a girl with red and purple short hair and she made more than all the blonds I saw the last time I was in the club.. Does that help?

    If not, I have dark hair and I never had trouble.
    I was dark before and I actually made money easier, but that was when I started and maybe it was newbie luck.. i guess it's just some sort of anxiety cause I can't change it back. but yeah, it does help
    I actually think down here in South Florida, they like dark haired girls better overall. It's mainly black and latino customers and I noticed that the black guys didn't like me as a blonde, whereas when I started (with dark hair) they liked me.

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    Well, then there's your answer!^
    Vyanka, I always pictured you blond, for some reason.


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    I think it kind of depends on where you are dancing, too.

    When I danced up in northern California, most of the top earners were brunettes. I had a lot more regulars, quicker lap dance sales.

    Now that I dance down in southern California, I find that some nights being exotic really doesn't help me very much. They like blonde white girls down here :/

    But there are plenty of men out there who find nothing sexier than a girl with long, thick, dark hair

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Well, then there's your answer!^
    Vyanka, I always pictured you blond, for some reason.
    Ha. Not the first time I hear that.

    Btw Crystalize, you may have to buy new makeup all over again to go with your new hair color. Practice to find watch matches. That's probably going to be the only annoying thing about change.

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    I just went from brown-black hair to blonde hair, and haven't seen much of a difference in my money. It's your hustle and ability to sell dances that really makes the difference!

    Blonde hair isn't necessarily the best money maker, either. Some guys hate blondes on principle. And when I had dark hair, people constantly mistook me for being Asian, so I could play up the "exotic" thing. When customers asked for Hispanic or Asian dancers, the bouncers would come get me -- that doesn't happen anymore, and I miss it! lol

    You'll get different kinds of attention, but if you look hot and have a hustle, you'll be fine. Sexy, sultry brunettes are SO hot. I honestly miss being a brunette sometimes. : )

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    I was blonde for the first ten years of my stripping career but due to the amount of damage being bleached blonde with extensions did to my hair I went back to my natural reddish brown colour and never looked back. Even being older, I have made waaay more money with dark hair. Don't worry, you'll do fine!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Ha. Not the first time I hear that.

    Btw Crystalize, you may have to buy new makeup all over again to go with your new hair color. Practice to find watch matches. That's probably going to be the only annoying thing about change.
    yea i look a lot younger and more pale now... am figuring out a whole new style, too. I got another appointment for color on thursday and I think I might go even darker, almost black

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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    I just went from brown-black hair to blonde hair, and haven't seen much of a difference in my money. It's your hustle and ability to sell dances that really makes the difference!

    Blonde hair isn't necessarily the best money maker, either. Some guys hate blondes on principle. And when I had dark hair, people constantly mistook me for being Asian, so I could play up the "exotic" thing. When customers asked for Hispanic or Asian dancers, the bouncers would come get me -- that doesn't happen anymore, and I miss it! lol

    You'll get different kinds of attention, but if you look hot and have a hustle, you'll be fine. Sexy, sultry brunettes are SO hot. I honestly miss being a brunette sometimes. : )
    So true! I've gotten a lot of negative reaction as a blonde, i guess cause it's controversial and such a stereotype.

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    Years ago when I went from blonde to dark brown many people complained that they preferred me as a blonde. I want to go darker my own self but I dont think its going to help my money any. It hurt it the last time I went to a brunette.

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    Although hair color is important but it is way less important than facial features. In my book, a beauty is a beauty whether she is blonde or brunette.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    Years ago when I went from blonde to dark brown many people complained that they preferred me as a blonde.
    Ditto! Blonde was such a pain in the ass to maintain so I decided to go back to brunette and I've suffered horribly since making that decision.

    ...On a positive note, my hair is much healthier, lol.

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    ^Guys love healthy hair too!

    I have long dark brown hair and I would NEVER dye it. I really feel like I would lose money as a blonde. As a brunette I get to play up the smart sexy bookworm and it does look more exotic, I get asked if I'm Italian a lot.

    Also, I'm not as attracted to blondes as I am brunettes. I love the dark sexy look, men and women.
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    Quote Originally Posted by K Sweet View Post
    ^Guys love healthy hair too!

    I have long dark brown hair and I would NEVER dye it. I really feel like I would lose money as a blonde. As a brunette I get to play up the smart sexy bookworm and it does look more exotic, I get asked if I'm Italian a lot.

    Also, I'm not as attracted to blondes as I am brunettes. I love the dark sexy look, men and women.
    I' gonna try to look more exotic, too. I'm looking at youtube videos to do my make up so I look asian. Sometimes guys ask me if I am and I think that could be great for money. There's barely any asians down here. and everybody loves a hot asian chick !

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    It just depends on your customer base. Some guys love blondes. Some guys like brunettes. Some like bald chicks. Just do what looks good for you.
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    it's true.. i mean I had my reasons for changing it back (it's my natural color btw) so I shouldn't worry.. it looks so much healthier now and when i get my extensions back in it'll look more natural too..

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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    Ditto! Blonde was such a pain in the ass to maintain so I decided to go back to brunette and I've suffered horribly since making that decision.

    ...On a positive note, my hair is much healthier, lol.

    Id love to go brown again bc hell yea my hair would look a million times healthier but it kills my money which sucks. Stupid ass blonde crap...sometimes I think of pulling a Sinead or Britney(shaving it) bc I get so sick of dealing with it..but then I quickly rethink that one. lol

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