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    The rules don't apply for one dancer at my club. She's been here two months and comes in whenever she feels like it. ALl of us have shift schedules and she never shows up on time for hers. This girl even leaves early. She acts like she's better than everyone and is a bitch to girls. She isn't dating anyone there so I crossed that off. She gets away with things that would have girls fired if it was them. How is she getting away with this? Why is she being treated like a princess. It is so unfair! Is there any way I can report this?

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    A- She's sucking/fucking someone higher up.

    B- She's been there for a really long time and/or makes a LOT of money; it's probably both.

    C- She isn't present on the days when the schedule is written or finds some other loophole, such as telling them she needs a flexible schedule for childcare.

    No, you can't report it. Who the hell would you report it to anyway? If she IS pulling some kind of rank with the boss, he's not going to give a damn what you think about it and would probably put you on his shit list for calling him out on it. And frankly, you don't want trouble with this girl. Again, she obviously is on your boss's good side and probably wouldn't hesitate to complain about you, even if it meant making shit up to get you in trouble. (telling him you're doing extras, for example.)

    If you stick around for a while and become one of the top earners, chances are good that you will be given some extra slack too. All of my bosses have always loved me because I make a lot of $ without giving them to much trouble. So, I can pretty much do whatever the hell I want.

    And as for her being bitchy....well, a bitchy stripper is like a gay hair dresser in New York. They're everywhere and you might as well get used to it.
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    Oh wait, my bad. You said she's only been there for 2 months.....yeah, I'd limit that down to her screwing your boss.
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    ^You never know if she worked there before and just took a long break.

    There were two girls at one of my old clubs who got the same sort of treatment in that they got to come and go whenever and didn't bother with the schedule. One of them had left for a break before I started there and then came back after I'd been there for a few months, and I was all confusing and curious about the special treatment she received as well, but then I learned how long she'd been there.

    Of course, it's also possible that she's fucking someone or maybe even related/a close friend. Or maybe she tips a shitload of money to the people that matter. There's countless possible explanations, but as long as it's not affected your money, it doesn't really matter. Just focus on your hustle instead of the other girls.

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    yeah, stop caring about what other girls do and just focus on your own work. hell, i wouldn't complain if a girl wasn't in the club when she's supposed to be. one less piece of competition.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LVhottie View Post
    The rules don't apply for one dancer at my club. She's been here two months and comes in whenever she feels like it. ALl of us have shift schedules and she never shows up on time for hers. This girl even leaves early. She acts like she's better than everyone and is a bitch to girls. She isn't dating anyone there so I crossed that off. She gets away with things that would have girls fired if it was them. How is she getting away with this? Why is she being treated like a princess. It is so unfair! Is there any way I can report this?
    You need to leave the girl ALONE! She could have a serious health problem or another issue with a doctors note that she showed to her boss so she can come & go as she pleases. She could have cancer or an autoimmune problem or something. Worry about yourself, who cares what some random girl is doing??

    At one of the clubs I used to work at I had an open schedule. I could come & go if I pleased. But that's because I have lupus & pretty severe arthritis and the manager was understanding. If another girl said shit to me about it, I'd probably be extremely rude & yell in her face about it because frankly, its none of her business.

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    There are going to always be favorites. There is not getting around it. Do the best u can with what uve got and worry more about improving urself then whats happening with the other girl.

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    I'm busy and can barely make it 2 my shift. I get mad because she gets to come in whenever she feels like it.

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    ^^Try to let it go, ur wasting energy that could be used on urself, being pissed at her. Focus on improving urself and ur life and in time u wont give a crap about what anyone else is doing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LVhottie View Post
    I'm busy and can barely make it 2 my shift. I get mad because she gets to come in whenever she feels like it.
    What's the penalty for showing up late or not at all? At my club, it's $35 and it's waived if you call off; there's no fine for being late..I've never heard of a club that will actually fire girls for not showing up. If that's the case, find a new club, pronto! That's the best damn part of being a dancer, aside from the cash....you have the freedom to write your own schedule and not necessarily stick to it. If I couldn't be my own boss, I would find it incredibly pointless...I can go to college and earn a salary if I want to put up with that BS.
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    Unfortunately every club has one or two of these girls. It's complete bullshit I agree. I've been at ny club for almost 10 years and even I can't get away with the shit new girls get away with. They will walk in and management lets cerain ones walk all over the club. I know they aren't screwing anyone on the side. Mostly it's the fact that they bring in money for the club. Money talks. Eventually this girl will fade out but most likely she'll be replaced by another one.

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    Is she a traveling girl perhaps? How often does she come in? I used to work at a club and I'd travel to work there, and the management loved me because the regular girls were lazy and whiny and since I was driving a few hours away I'd come in whenever I wanted, and leave when I wanted...although seldomly early.

    Is she working hard and bringing in a lot of money and/or customers when she is there?

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    honestly, if your username didn't imply that you were in nevada, i would think you were talking about me. because this described me really well. i'm special. why shouldn't i get special treatment?

    i'm confused as to why you're worried about what another dancer is doing instead of focusing on what you're doing.

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    I agree with the girls above... there is nothing you can do about that, its the nature of the clubs. I think it is that they are draw cards for the club.....


    There is a $80 no show fee at our club and i heard a girl that was fined $320 for no shows.... ouch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gracefulways View Post
    I agree with the girls above... there is nothing you can do about that, its the nature of the clubs. I think it is that they are draw cards for the club.....


    There is a $80 no show fee at our club and i heard a girl that was fined $320 for no shows.... ouch!
    Um, FUCK that....seriously. When I first started, we were only required to show up once a month! And even though the $35 fine exists, I've NEVER had to pay it and I no call/no show like nobody's damn business.....guess I'd be an example of "special treatment."
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    ^^^
    Yeah our club is pretty strict... but I think that girl is pretty slack and perhaps they were teaching her a lesson. I think if you do the right thing by the club they usually let you off.

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    I do this at my home club. I don't come in on my schedule because I don't want to. I travel excessively so I'm only there for two weeks a month. I back talk to management when they tell me to do something I don't want to do. I break a lot of club rules. However I'm not bitchy to other dancers and generally keep to myself.

    I'm thinking the reason why they keep me is because I make them a shit ton of money. I sell at least three VIP a night which totals some $400-500 to the club. A lot of girls at my club struggle to make $50. I have an attitude that's like "go ahead and fire me. I can make money elsewhere."

    Who cares what this girl is doing. Just make your money and mind your own business.

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    Stop.Hating.....It goes with the territory. Its a stripclub not the office. Life in a stripclub is anything but fair.Once you realize that and put all that energy into hustling I'm sure you'll notice an increase in your money...Cuz thats where your mind should be...on YOUR $$$$

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    She probably makes a lot of money and tips well. I've seen this happen but it's never bothered me. I'm happy to come on time and stay till the end of my shift because it increases my earning potential. However on the rare occasions I've been late or wanted to leave early it's never been a problem because I stay on good terms with management.

    Honestly the less time she's in the club the less competition for you and if she's a bitch then even better she's hardly there. Focus on making money for yourself rather than what this chick is doing.

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    There could be anything in the world that's the cause of this. Maybe she has a terminally ill child in the hospital and trying to fit in sleep and visiting hours. That would certainly make me bitchy. Especially if some girl I barely knew was overly concerned about my schedule.
    Or, maybe she simply is blowing someone.
    Point is, it could be anything. Who on earth would you be reporting it to anyhow? A mgr she may have come to a scheduling agreement with over an intensely difficult situation? Or a mgr she may be blowing?
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    I get where you're coming from. I used to get annoyed because there were so many girls who showed up to late to shift when management repeatedly made threats about being on time. I was never late, and the reason I got upset was because I'd be all happy that there were so few girls there, and then all of a sudden 5 more would waltz in late. I was just angry, because, imo, if they can't be bothered to start on time, then they shouldn't be allowed to come in later and make it harder to make money for those who came in on time (since we didn't have some sort of sliding scale house fee). But why they did or didn't make it on time is really none of my business. As far as I knew, these girls did this every night, and they always got the "stern look" and snippy comment from a manager, but nothing ever happened to them. They could have had reasons, or we could have just had managers that didn't actually give enough of a shit to enforce their own rules and these girls knew it and used it to their advantage. Don't know, don't care. It's not my business. No matter how annoying it was, I just sucked it up and minded my own business.
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    thanks for this post because i do whatever the fuck i want and everyone thinks i'm fucking someone but if they would stop gossiping about me for five seconds, they would realize that i am the top earner every single day that i work.

    Quote Originally Posted by NREXM View Post
    I do this at my home club. I don't come in on my schedule because I don't want to. I travel excessively so I'm only there for two weeks a month. I back talk to management when they tell me to do something I don't want to do. I break a lot of club rules. However I'm not bitchy to other dancers and generally keep to myself.

    I'm thinking the reason why they keep me is because I make them a shit ton of money. I sell at least three VIP a night which totals some $400-500 to the club. A lot of girls at my club struggle to make $50. I have an attitude that's like "go ahead and fire me. I can make money elsewhere."

    Who cares what this girl is doing. Just make your money and mind your own business.

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    LVHottie, do you work in a club where you don't pay house fees? If you do, that girl you're talking about is ME! HA HA! Yes, I've "been there for two months" but I've been working for the club for four years on and off. I am one of the favorites at the club because unlike the lazy ones, I hustle and talk to EVERY customer who walks in. I come in as I please, and ask ***, the manager to leave early.

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    ^^^^I think I just died and went to heaven
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    Some of the replies in this thread bug me. It's probably because I've been at my club for a decade and then some retard walks in the door and gets the red carpet treatment. For all the money I've made for the club over all these years *I* should be the one who gets their ass kissed. Instead I have to basically have a written slip of when, why and where I'm going on a night I need off. I'm made examples out of because I've been there the longest. Yet these newbies that just start can do whatever the fuck they want. It's bullshit. Seniority should rule. So I can totally see where the OP is coming from.
    However I also come from a club that claims they are different than all the other ones. It's a small club. We all know everyone's first and last names. We go to each other's weddings, baby showers, etc... So my situation might be a little different. But I still feel ya LV.

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