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    So, I'm new to sugar daddy dating. And I made a mistake: scheduled a meeting when I'm most likely going to be on my period. His schedule is pretty tight and so is mine, and I don't want him to feel like I'm shuffling him around by cancelling or rescheduling.

    Do I tell him why I'm rescheduling? Or do I just go for a "something suddenly came up" approach?

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    Do you have sex every time you meet with him? If not, no biggie, just meet up as usual! It sounds like you do or else you wouldn't be so concerned though. You can still get sexual without having sex (BJ, HJ, lap dances, etc.), so you can just meet up as usual and do that. If he tries to go for more, just say it's not the best time so you want to make it all about him. Most dudes will realize what that means and just enjoy the attention. Why miss out on money just because of mother nature!

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    Agree. Guys know we have periods, and older guys (as SD's tend to be) arent ridiculous about it like a much younger guy is. Its just part of being a woman. Ive always been pretty blunt regardless though, and if things start to turn sexual just say btw, its that time of the month. Like Shanna said, theres plenty other things you can do still...

    But even so, it shouldnt make a difference....unless he only sees you to have sex with you, in which case yeah, just let him know before you meet up since you already know why hes seeing you. But then this wouldnt be as much a SD/SB relationship as it pay for play.
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    If you're worried about having your period to meet him, he's not a sugar daddy, he's a john.
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    I'm not a sugar daddy to my ATF escort but she is pretty much the only girl I see regularly. After six years I actually have a pretty good handle on her cycle but sometimes it's early. She just calls me and tells me. It's not the end of the world and, in my opinion at least, not something you have to lie about. If she can't have sex we just go out for dinner. Of course, I don't pay her for that so your situation may be a bit different.
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    No, lol, we don't have sex every time we meet. Last time we just had coffee together. But we were talking about what we wanted to do on this particular date and a lot got hinted about sex and in responding emails I consented (not blatently, but you know what I mean).

    So no, I'm not worried about sex every time. But this time? Yeah. And it'll raise an eyebrow if it doesn't happen.

    Shanna, I think I'll take your advice and just work around it. But should I tell him ahead of time so he doesn't just dive right in? In my experience, telling a guy you're on your period when you're already on the date is kind of a turn-off, or indecent at the very least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mysterion View Post
    In my experience, telling a guy you're on your period when you're already on the date is kind of a turn-off, or indecent at the very least.
    This is not my experience. I myself would prefer to know ahead of time.

    Also, there are many alternatives to Intercourse. You can Google for "Outercourse" or "Non-penetrative sex" for details; wikipedia has a short (but informative) article on the subject.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mysterion View Post
    No, lol, we don't have sex every time we meet. Last time we just had coffee together. But we were talking about what we wanted to do on this particular date and a lot got hinted about sex and in responding emails I consented (not blatently, but you know what I mean).

    So no, I'm not worried about sex every time. But this time? Yeah. And it'll raise an eyebrow if it doesn't happen.

    Shanna, I think I'll take your advice and just work around it. But should I tell him ahead of time so he doesn't just dive right in? In my experience, telling a guy you're on your period when you're already on the date is kind of a turn-off, or indecent at the very least.
    I honestly cant comprehend why it would be indecent? Its a part of female function that many women go through every single month...if hes had any experience with women, hes well aware of this. I promise you, its not a big deal.

    You guys are comfortable enough to hint and tease about having sex together, why not comfortable enough to say, thats going to have to wait cause mother nature has plans for you that day? Since you two get along and have a good time without sex anyway, it shouldnt be a big deal to just do that the next time you see each other.

    You're both adults....its no big deal.

    ETA: Yes, I do think you should tell him ahead of time...only because with how freaked out you are about this and what you said about the convos, Im getting the impression that sex is expected and youre afraid of how he will react if he sees you and cant have sex with you. That to me is indecent lol But definitely let him know ahead of time so that if he doesnt want to be with you if you arent having sex, he knows before and not once you two are together.
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    If you have to have sex have you ever tried to use a sea sponge? They are very comfortable and if you live in a place that you can go to a health food store they sell them there. If not you can order them through the internet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissIesha View Post
    If you have to have sex have you ever tried to use a sea sponge? They are very comfortable and if you live in a place that you can go to a health food store they sell them there. If not you can order them through the internet.
    Would he be able to tell that it's there, do you think?

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    As an escort, I am a huge fan of the sea sponge (in my personal life as well). They cannot tell it's there. The sponge has a texture that blends in to your vagina. It gets pushed way up there, but you just have to use two fingers to pinch it out. I love the sponges so much.

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    Sorry to be such a harp but... when it comes to work, definitely dont tell, use a sponge or take the time off. But a SD is supposed to be a relationship of sorts, thats not dependant on sex and this wouldnt be such a huge issue.

    Anyway, I suggest you practice with the sponge first! Make sure you have the placement right, right size, far enough in... Cause if you find telling a guy its that time of the month embarrassing, him seeing it for himself all over.....everything.... will be mortifying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mysterion View Post
    So, I'm new to sugar daddy dating. And I made a mistake: scheduled a meeting when I'm most likely going to be on my period. His schedule is pretty tight and so is mine, and I don't want him to feel like I'm shuffling him around by cancelling or rescheduling.

    Do I tell him why I'm rescheduling? Or do I just go for a "something suddenly came up" approach?
    I had a regular, p4p, that I used to see on my trips to Rio, while I was in town I would see her about three times a week. The last time I saw her I turned out she was having her period, but she did not say anything about it, I found that out on my own. It is really not cool to be having sex and look down and see the condom turning a nice shade of pink. I suggest you not try to hide it from him if you are going to have sex with him.

    If it is someone I am in a serious relationship that is one thing, but if it is any type of pay situation, no thanks I don't want to be having sex with you while you are having you period.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    Some men. I'm hemophobic, can't stand vampire movies and passed out trying to give blood. Never once has showering a bit off afterwards been a problem.

    As sharpie said, it's work. Conceal it and go about your business.


    EDIT: does anyone have a link to Sea Sponges? I haven't a clue what you're talking about but the idea sounds as inviting as having sex with sandpaper D:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    Some men. I'm hemophobic, can't stand vampire movies and passed out trying to give blood. Never once has showering a bit off afterwards been a problem.

    As sharpie said, it's work. Conceal it and go about your business.


    EDIT: does anyone have a link to Sea Sponges? I haven't a clue what you're talking about but the idea sounds as inviting as having sex with sandpaper D:
    Completely undetectable...its a natural sponge that is incredibly soft, Im trying to think of something to compare it to, hrm... just incredibly soft lol

    BTW...a sponge makes you think of sandpaper? What brand are you using?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mysterion View Post
    So, I'm new to sugar daddy dating. And I made a mistake: scheduled a meeting when I'm most likely going to be on my period. His schedule is pretty tight and so is mine, and I don't want him to feel like I'm shuffling him around by cancelling or rescheduling.

    Do I tell him why I'm rescheduling? Or do I just go for a "something suddenly came up" approach?
    Sometimes the truth works, and it is easy to keep track of. (appologies for the grammar)

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    I'm going with the sea sponges as well. Wet them really well before you use them, squeeze alllll the water out of them and push them up in there until you feel resistance. I've done tons of porno scenes w/the sponges in and never had a problem. Nobody even mentions it. I use it in my private life too. You can even wash, boil and use them again if you want.

    One thing to note tho is that you want to be really careful about STD protection. There has been evidence that it's easier to catch an infection while you're on your period because your cervix is slightly more dilated than it normally is, to let all the blood out.


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    About the Sugar Daddy, having sex thing. Seems to me it's up to the individuals involved. Maybe those who sometimes have sex with their SD just have a different concept of Sugar Daddy than the more conservative others.

    Some may not like any large age difference, or body size or facial features, so that may put them off. But others may not mind that. Some may be attracted by the respect shown, the kindnesses beyond just gifts of money, and the affection that a SD may offer. I've heard many women say that is more important to them than age differences or attractiveness, and my personal experience convinces me that some indeed do feel that way and that it is a turn on for them. If the SD is kind that way and it is an attraction to the SB, there is nothing wrong with any sexual activity that ensues. That would not even constitute a sex for money situation.

    SD/SB situations are not intended to be lifetime or even long term ones. But rarely are GF/BF or even marriage ones anymore. And in fact many marriages are, more or less, sex for pay situations, not expected to last long and maybe no time at all if the wife does not get the allowance she expects.

    Money is undeniably ALWAYS going to be a part of the male/female equation, whatever the status of the relationship. A situation with genuine affection is not very common in this age of instantaneous gratification, so when such can be found and is expected to last a while, is it not a good thing to enjoy it. It certainly can add a great deal to any relationship and the SD/SB situation is a relationship. And it is certainly a more honest one than teasing a SD with unrequited sexual innuendos.

    Of course this is not the situation with a SD/SB where BOTH have entered into a contract (verbal or other) where only an enjoyable platonic companionship of some duration is in the scope. And that's fine as long as it is HONEST. The fantasy and pretense of a strip club can only go so far in satisfying a normal man's needs, and there are not many escorts who expect a paid engagement without some sexual activity. So the SD/SB is a viable and flexible alternative, it seems to me.
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    There are also softcups, divacups or beppy tampons. Although, I would go w/ slutdust's recommendation. Sponges or beppy tampons would be your best bet, unless your in a hurry -then softcups are sold at Walgreens, right next to the tampons.

    http://www.softcup.com/

    http://www.divacup.com/

    http://beppyusa.com/
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    Thanks for the links, Brand_Lynn! If I can't find a sponge, I'll try these out. And IsobelWren, thanks for the STD advice, too. I didn't know that! I'm strict about condom use, but they're not foolproof and it's good to be aware.

    It actually looks like my period won't be much of a problem anymore, anyway. I got it early and should just be finishing by the time I have my date. If we do have sex, I'm going to use a sponge just in case.

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    BTW....they have sea sponges at all natural stores, like Whole Foods and such. Its the exact same thing as sea pearls... Youd just need to trim it yourself. I also wash it very well in hot water, and soak it in hydrogen peroxide before using it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mysterion View Post
    Thanks for the links, Brand_Lynn! If I can't find a sponge, I'll try these out. And IsobelWren, thanks for the STD advice, too. I didn't know that! I'm strict about condom use, but they're not foolproof and it's good to be aware.

    It actually looks like my period won't be much of a problem anymore, anyway. I got it early and should just be finishing by the time I have my date. If we do have sex, I'm going to use a sponge just in case.
    My advice is to practice using the sponge before having sex! It gets pushed way up there, but you just gotta relax or maybe "push" a little bit, and reach up with your thumb and index finger and pinch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikiwiki View Post
    If you're worried about having your period to meet him, he's not a sugar daddy, he's a john.
    I completely agree. I think girls' confuse the terms sugarbaby and escort. I would never fuck a sugardaddy, but I'll gladly take his $$.

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