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    ill get a guy who says they like sph and when we go private when i start talking about how small his cock is half the time they leave before they even get off. i dont get it. i kknow im good at what i do, but do you think a lof of these guys arent actually into it? that sort of how it seems to me. ive noticed with a lot of humiliation guys they tend to duck out of shows early without warning. im wondering if im too mean.

    anyone else notice the same thing?

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    Yes!! Me and you are on the same page, sister!

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    its just odd. its one of my fav fetishes to do, but man i think im missing out on part of the psycology of it or something.

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    Yep! I notice this with phone sex, too. They say they want to be my bitch, then they can't handle it. smh.

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    My take on it is this: A lot of these guys have a certain "style" they like, I think they take you private, see what your humiliation is like and then if it's not what they want they move on. They do it to me too, but lots of them leave 5 stars...so I gotta think they were not displeased...

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    have this saaame problem with guys like that, they leave and i'm like wtf?? I dunno. maybe there's some porn out there with pros doing stuff like that, just do what they do and if the guys still log off then obviously they they're so retarted that they don't even know how to satisfy themselves sexually

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    Mine always end up staying for extremely long periods of time and end up telling me they are addicted & ask each time when I'll be on next. I think they're just looking for something specific that you aren't giving them. Though half the time even they don't know what it is because at least half of these men don't even realize what their fetish really is. It like cuckold guys. Most of them don't even realize theres a word for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    It like cuckold guys. Most of them don't even realize theres a word for it.

    Is the cuckold thing always white guys and always involving BBC? I ask because that is how EVERY one of my cuckold shows have been directed by the client. Is that the norm?

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    yep seems to be with most of the ones i encounter as well. glad its not just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetgapeach View Post
    Is the cuckold thing always white guys and always involving BBC? I ask because that is how EVERY one of my cuckold shows have been directed by the client. Is that the norm?

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    No, but that's semi-common among most of them. Some of them are repulsed by the thought of a big black cock. Some are into their boss, someone they know, a girlfriend's ex, etc. Depends on the guy.

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    I love sph - its my favorite thing to do!! I usually ask what style of sph they are into - the giggly stuff, the mean stuff, maybe a little cuckolding on the side...

    I'm betting that if they are coming in and leaving quickly, its not exactly what they were looking for, and not something you are doing wrong. I do wish that guys would be more open and upfront about exactly what they want, so that we could give it to them!!

    Side note - I had a really funny sph moment the other day when I was on with a guy, c2c, who had an average sized dick. He'd obviously read my profile (where it says I love doing SPH) and was all into the idea of doing things that I wanted, so that I would "really" get off....so we're part way through the session, and he asks me to "sph me bb"!! I basically said, dude, I've already been talking about how great your cock is, and its not your fetish, so no. I appreciate that you want to make me happy, but I love SPH because I love making GUYS happy......

    So odd!! LOL
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    Yeah! I notice a lot of those guys leaving too. It mystifies me. I thought maybe it was that they want to leave before they get hard so I can't see their dicks are normal size. Maybe I'm just doing it wrong and they don't want to tell me.


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    i love any humiliation shows, i market myself mostly to the submissive guys, and lately 90 percent of my shows are focused on them, im a much happier cam girl!

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    for SPH I watched a few porns and wrote down some good one liners. I use those and haven't had many complaints.
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    They usually leave quickly for me too!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AudrinaCams View Post
    for SPH I watched a few porns and wrote down some good one liners. I use those and haven't had many complaints.
    ive done the same, especially for guided masterbation. its always good to watch videos for homework. the only things i dont get so far are blackmail and cbt. i dont think i want to do blackmail becuase it seems like theres way too much stuff involved for a normal amount of money. cbt seems cool, but i need to get more up on things to tell the guys to have handy for sessions.

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    I love SDH, its a hit or miss with me? Sometimes they stay and sometimes they don't? I just go with the flow of it.

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    it makes me mad when guys expect me to be able to read their frigging minds on what they specifically like and do not like when they dont bother to tell me before or during the show.

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    I have had that same issue as well. I have only had a few that stayed a good amount of time. They usually tend to be the ones that I laugh at. I even have a 2 inch dildo to help with the humiliation. haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    it makes me mad when guys expect me to be able to read their frigging minds on what they specifically like and do not like when they dont bother to tell me before or during the show.
    Agreed 100%. I love to get really into role plays and fetishes, but its pretty freakin impossible to hit the nail on the head if they just come in and say "so...humilate me. I'm a sissy bitch". Sweetie, there are more ways to humiliate you than I can number on all my fingers and toes. PICK ONE. Its so frustrating when you WANT to give great shows and great service, and fall short because you can't get any damn information out of them.
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    I have only done like ONE sph show. I LOVED IT WHERE ARE YOU SPH DUDES LEMME MAKE FUN OF YOU

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    It is WHAT you say as well as HOW you say it. The best advice I can give for domination show sis simply listening to him. Don't go off on a spew of words as soon as he comes in.

    Usually, (with my mean ass...lol) I start off with, " sooooo, What do you want out of my life?" and I can tell the direction of the call by the answer . Everybody's fantasy is not the same. Some people don't even like to be called losers. I recommend anybody trying to get into this type of work, research first. It will take you VERY FAR $$$$$$$$$$$

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    Another thing is that some of these guys who CLAIM to be into financial domination, small penis humilitation, etc. are full of shit.

    One of my pet peeves is guys who claim they wanna be financially dominated, but then they act like $200 (or whatever amount you decide to use) is "too much money." LMFAO!!!!!

    They contact you with specific requests, and then when you deliver, they suddenly can't handle it. HAHA!
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    even better when you ask for a 20 dollar tribute to even discuss it and they freak out about that. i dont get it.

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    ^^^^ those are the fantasy guys, they only want to hear about it, not actually do it.

    Crispy when you do ALOT more you will see the difference, and be able to swat these losers like a bug.

    They are soooooooooooo aggravating.



    The guys that wont lead you on in convo, clearly do not know what this is all about, I wouldn't even waste my time.

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