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    Default Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    Does this bother you? Do you think they should get kicked off? Why?

    It annoys me, it happens a lot here in the clubs around UM, and it comes off as the chicks trying to upstage the dancers. Two girls got topless and barefoot on our stage tonight and got taken down by bouncers, which I was content with.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    Super irritating for the same reason you mentioned. Thankfully, I've never experienced it. I don't even know how I'd react!

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    Oh hell fkn NO!!! Never ok.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    If they want to dance on the stage, they should be getting charged stage fees like everybody else. Otherwise, they can GTFO.
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    It happend to me and it was so annoying. I was on stage and this random girl hopped on stage and just started dancing. I was so pissed because she ruined my show! Of all times to go up why did it have to be me. Turned out she was a former dancer from a while ago. Shouldnt she know better. So annoying
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    Drunk girl did this to me last Halloween. Just hopped up and tried to grab my pole. I swung my legs to do a trick and kicked her "on accident." Ooops. Stripper shoe to the kneecap got her off stage quickly.

    And no, its never okay. They either want attention, are to drunk to handle themselves and are just going to get hurt, or want you to do some lesbian show. No thank you.

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    The only time I've been ok with this was when it was a girl with a group that tipped me about $20 and asked if she could come up. I still wasn't ecstatic about it.

    It just looks fucking trashy and a lot of the time it's rude, ugly attention whores.
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    A couple weeks ago, on a super dead Sunday or Monday night, a bouncer asked if it was ok to put an "amatuer" up on stage with me. She was there with a group of guys. I said OK, and it actually worked out really well for me. The bouncer made sure her friends tipped me and I sold a few dances after it. So in that case I didn't mind at all.

    But some random drunk girl getting on stage? No. Go away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amareth View Post
    It just looks fucking trashy and a lot of the time it's rude, ugly attention whores.
    It is sooooo common in my area. When it's a young crowd, it's really common for guys and girls to lay on the stage with tips, and some dancers encourage the girls to get up and strip as well.

    Last night a very chunky girl was allowed to perform for a song, as an amateur. It was amusing, and my stage show followed her. It worked out well for me and got me some stage tips. One drunk customer mumbled...."You look like a supermodel...." Well yeah, after what you just watched, lol.

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    Um no. Pay the house fee bitch!
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    The thing is, last night the bouncers were letting the girls get on stage, when one got on and didn't get kicked off, her friend took her clothes off and got up there too. It took another dancer to get up there and literally cuss her out and yell at her to get off "her" stage, then the bouncers removed them.
    I don't think we should have to do that.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    I think there should be a sometimes option.

    I go to strip clubs as a customer occasionally and ask to get on stage by myself. The house girls never seem to mind because it gives them a quick break and someone new to watch.

    If the girls are very intoxicated then I'd say no because it takes away from the dancer's money. But I usually leave within ten minutes after getting off stage as a customer so I don't talk to their customers and take away from business. I understand how strip clubs work, that's why.

    Drunk women that try to get on stage and look ridiculous should save it for amateur night. Also, climbing on stage with a dancer uninvited is a BIG no-no. That's her time to advertise.
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    Ew, no. My old club did this - and everyone I mean everyone in the club would cheer and clap like it's the best thing they'd ever seen, even if the girl(s) were flat out ugly! It just takes attention away from the dancers.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    I don't think its okay. I do love it when this happens though because we have a few girls at the club that will take advantage of this and literally pimp the girl out on stage and of course, keep all of the money they make off of them-lol.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    At my club we don't really do a lot of stage shows, so the stage is empty a lot of the time. We don't get a ton of female patrons, and even fewer that want to get up there. Management allows it as long as the girl removes no clothing and there is a dancer up there with her to ensure she doesn't do something stupid. I've made lots of tips off girls who want me to show them some simple spins and stuff.

    But during a show without asking would be incredibly rude and the bouncers would haul them out.

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    Never. Ever. Ever.
    Our house fee is our rent. We've rented that stage, our workspace, for the allotted time. You want to pay my house fee/rent? Then you may use my stage.

    It's also a safety issue. These girls are drunk non-professionals. They could spill a drink, have lotion on, or even puke on the damn stage. All of which I may slip in. In a drunken, not-so-sexy attempt at being seductive, she could hurt me. Hair, piercings, clothing, etc could get yanked on. I'm in 8" stillettos, she's wasted and barefoot.

    A girl I know was on stage 4 years ago, when a drunk chick tried to do the lay-on-the-stage-with-money-all-over-me-to-get-the-stripper-to-pick-it-up-with-her-mouth thing that I totally despise, when for some reason she yanked on the dancer's stilletto. Not maliciously, just drunk. Of course, the dancer went down, her knee and ankle had been wrenched sideways, and she has major knee problems to this day.

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    I'm gonna say, sometimes. A female regular at my club is a phenomenal dancer and looks fantastic. Since she comes in so often and spends a fair amount of money, she's become friends with the manager. So, for one whole stage set, (3 songs) they let her go up on the smallest stage and dance around topless to her heart's content. She actually did really well and made just over $75 in tips. Oh, and the girls were soooo pissed. "That's not fair; she's not even a stripper and no one tips ME that much!"<-----direct quote. Sometimes, under controlled circumstances, it's all in good fun. I've shown middle aged women basic pole tricks and spins and their husbands made sure I was tipped very, very well.

    But if some drunk bitch just got on my stage and ruined MY show? No, I think an ass whooping would be in her future.
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    i don't give a shit. i don't want to be on stage. anyone who wants my spot in the rotation can take it and enjoy themselves while i make real money.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    ARGH I hate this. If they want to get on stage so badly, they should have the vaginal fortitude to go audition like the rest of us.

    Last weekend this horrible drunk girl was begging to get on stage with me. I overheard her tell the bartender that she'd split tips with me and "only wanted one free drink!" She had NO teeth, and had been incredibly loud and grabby all night. I wanted to murder her.

    Thankfully the bartender saw the look on my face and said no.

    On the other hand, there is one ex-dancer that comes in, spends boatloads of cash with her boyfriend, and is amazing on the pole. I don't mind her at all, other than that she totally shows me up. But she is the exception that proves the rule.

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    Hate it.

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    IME, all guys would prefer to see the non-naked girls get naked. The shot girls, female patrons, whatever. Even if the girl is 100 lbs overweight and pimpled, they want to see them naked. This insane phenomenon makes it very easy for female patrons to steal our shows. And then if we don't act all delighted about it, we get to look like total assholes in front of a ton of customers. Blah.

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    Drunk girls onstage are not only tacky, but a liability.

    No way.

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    [/quote]
    My worst experience was when this abnormally overweight woman started cussing and yelling at me about MY weight (I weigh around 105lbs...which was clearly not enough for her). She started screaming to everyone at my stage that I was a "bag of bones" and "why would you want to see THAT?!" The she said, "I'll show you a REAL woman!"...tries to jump on my stage...right as the bouncers yank her back and kick her ass out.[/quote]


    Yeah one time we had one of those onstage and nobody saw fit to warn me when I came out of the DR. I think my corneas are scarred and I still have nightmares sometimes.

    I think it's ok once in a blue moon. Bring the hoi polloi up to Mt. Olympus for a tantalizing glimpse, then send their asses back.
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    NO WAY!!! this should not be tolerated at all. We are there to make money the stage and pole is OURS to work on, the stage is off limits unless you are doing a show that lets you take a customer on stage but for a girl to just think she is entitled to just jump on and have a go is not on....

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