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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    Hell no it's not ok. It's not ok to go behind the counter as a customer at Starbucks to make lattes, so unlicensed/unhired amateurs should not be getting onstage for any reason. At my club we have one day out of the week where we give pole lessons to "civilian" girls on the back stage, but that's regulated

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    If some one asks me first and it results in money for me, I can pretend to be having fun with it.

    Otherwise, audition and pay house fees like the rest of us, bitch.
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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    A group of grannies came in once, at this dive I briefly worked at. One of them got topless and went on stage. She must have been pushing 80. That was funny, I actually enjoyed the looks on all the faces of the gangbanger MS13 vatos with white tees and tear drop tattoos, seeing this old white lady who looked like she stepped out of the Golden Girls topless on the stage.

    Other than that, the drunk chicks with money all over them/in their mouths laying on the stage expecting me to get freaky really annoy me. I usually just completely ignore them. WTF? What if a guy did that shit???
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    There are some circumstances that can make it not that big of a deal (like making extra money) and sometimes even fun. But the majority of the time, that's just not cool.

    I used to go to my home club's sister club as a customer because I knew a lot of the staff including both managers and a couple dancers. When I go to the club as a custie, I tend to tip well ($100+ in tips) and some times VIP or shower shows (which all the girls I've worked with love towards closing time) if I want dances. I dress pretty slutty, but they didn't mind because I stay away from customers. We all enjoyed playing while I tipped them, and they were cool with me dancing on side stages because I showed some tricks and always gave the girl on stage any tips I made. Twice the money for them, no extra work.
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    i hate it but i go with it cause if you throw a fit it makes you look like a bitch and you lose out on money one time my friend came into the club wasted and made it rain on me and tried to kiss me when I was on stage. I made lots of tips from that and there were lots of couples which I sold dances to, so it was awesome. Generally that shit is good for money but soo annoying and awkward.

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    Well what do ya know, two bitches got on stage last night while another girl was performing. AND, the not drunk one who followed her drunk friend up there picked up ALL the tips and took them..... I was like WTF. That pisses me off, I can understand if it will make you more money that would be great, but I will be quick to snatch my money back. I think the bouncers should tell them when they're trying to get on (if the dancer is okay with it, that is) that they CANNOT take money from the stage. They don't pay house, they don't tip out, so why the fuck should they go take stage money? The worst part is most of the tips they took were already there before they got on stage and the dancer didn't do anything to get her money back. You got me fucked up if you think you're going to get on MY stage and swoop up my tips!

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    ^^^ OMG thats terrible! Female customers think its all fair game in a strip club... I really hate it and its so disrespectful

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    Well what do ya know, two bitches got on stage last night while another girl was performing. AND, the not drunk one who followed her drunk friend up there picked up ALL the tips and took them..... I was like WTF. That pisses me off, I can understand if it will make you more money that would be great, but I will be quick to snatch my money back. I think the bouncers should tell them when they're trying to get on (if the dancer is okay with it, that is) that they CANNOT take money from the stage. They don't pay house, they don't tip out, so why the fuck should they go take stage money? The worst part is most of the tips they took were already there before they got on stage and the dancer didn't do anything to get her money back. You got me fucked up if you think you're going to get on MY stage and swoop up my tips!
    for sure, I would've told them hell no. But the dancer was in a fucked up position cause she would've seemed greedy/bitchy to all the customers watching.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    Well what do ya know, two bitches got on stage last night while another girl was performing. AND, the not drunk one who followed her drunk friend up there picked up ALL the tips and took them..... I was like WTF.
    Wow, that is fucked up. I can't believe the bouncers wouldn't do anything about that!

    I had one girl try something similar once. Here, people have to have at least a $5 tip to come and lay on the stage with it. So this bitch has a bill in her hand, but tries to grab one already on the stage to use, thinking she's being sneaky. I snatched both bills from her hand, kind of pushed her into lying down, yanked her shirt up and went to the other end of the stage to continue my show while she was lying there half naked looking like a fucking idiot. I didn't have any trouble with bitches after that, lol.

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    Annoys me to no end. Go to a MALE (performers) strip club plz!! They can take the heat.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    It should never be allowed... somehow women think they can get away with what men cant...

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    at the bikini bar where i used to work it happened a lot and i was down because the girl's friends would usually make it rain and we kept the money. for this reason we would try and pull girls onstage a lot....


    now i work at a more upscale nude club and that shit would never, ever go down. if it did i would be extremely awkward.

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    I like girls & use them on stage to make me more money when they jump up on stage to tip me, but I would luv for a girl to have the balls to get on stage with me cuz if she is Hott stuff working with me I'm going to put on a show where it's going to rain on us or b if she is actually trying to upstage me I'll dance circles around her so she feels like a fool. If a girl can actually managed to upstage me going head to head well then I'ld sit back & give her props cuz she would of earned it & must be a pro so I'll even tip her myself. However that is highly unlikely.

    We only have had newbies & ex dancers actually get up on our stage which I'm ok with cuz they are in the bizz or getting into it & either it gives me something to watch or laugh at.

    Drunk custies should not be allowed ever unless it's an amateur night they signed up for.

    I do however go with my gfs to other SCs & like to show off sometimes just for the hell of it. Still that's me checking the club out as a dancer asking the managers or being asked by the managers to do so.

    When my gfs (who work as dancers in other clubs/states sometimes) come in and visit my club I usually talk them into doing a stage set with me just cuz it's hott & tends to increase customer spending.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    Well what do ya know, two bitches got on stage last night while another girl was performing. AND, the not drunk one who followed her drunk friend up there picked up ALL the tips and took them..... I was like WTF. That pisses me off, I can understand if it will make you more money that would be great, but I will be quick to snatch my money back. I think the bouncers should tell them when they're trying to get on (if the dancer is okay with it, that is) that they CANNOT take money from the stage. They don't pay house, they don't tip out, so why the fuck should they go take stage money? The worst part is most of the tips they took were already there before they got on stage and the dancer didn't do anything to get her money back. You got me fucked up if you think you're going to get on MY stage and swoop up my tips!
    Wtf. If I ever worked in a club like that, someone's getting knocked the fuck out. They're already being disrespectful hopping on stage like its no one's business. Idk how those dancers have the patience.

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    I wonder why more club owners/mgrs allow this when liability may come into play. Yeah, we're independant contractors, but customers aren't. Can't clubs be held liable if one of these jackasses gets hurt?
    Besides that, removing money from a dancer's stage is theft. If a girl walked into a bar and snatched the bartender's tip jar, she would probably be arrested. This should be no different. Unfortunately, though, since security and mgrs don't seem to see it the same way, the dancer may have to invest too much time (losing more money) pursuing it.
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    I don't mind bringing hot ladies on stage (if I invite them up!) to find a hidden bill in her bra or pants, and if I think it'll get the crowd going & make me more $$$.

    However, I am NOT ok with ladies just assuming I'm down with them inviting themselves on my stage, lying on their backs, legs spread, waiting for me to lez out on them over the dollar bill in their mouth.
    And there's really no graceful way to get her off the stage when this happens without looking like a jackass!

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    The bitches who come up with one dollar are getting what they deserve for that one dollar, same as male customers. Two seconds of booty shake and a thank you. You want a show? I want money.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Default Re: Female patrons getting on stage - is it ok?

    No. If you want to dance, become a dancer. If a dancer invites a girl up, that's fine, but a female customer getting onstage by herself is rude and it takes attention away from the girl on stage.






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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    for sure, I would've told them hell no. But the dancer was in a fucked up position cause she would've seemed greedy/bitchy to all the customers watching.
    Very, very true and hadn't thought of this until I read people saying that. I would prefer to team up with another dancer to do a les show or flirt on stage with rather than a female customers. I'm so tired of it. I'm making decent money at the club I'm at but out of all the clubs I've worked at this is the one where it happens all the time, and we get TOO MANY female customers. A bunch of college girls trying to hang with the guys and be attention whores. Lot of lesbians too, because there is a gay bar nearby but they don't tend to be big spenders so far... blah.

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    I know.. Girl customers love me but I always feel really uncomfortable and can't use my normal hustle. I try to seem 'fun' and into it but I'm just not... In general, groups with girls, I just leave out completely.. One time I was on the stage naked doing the booty flex thing when you're on your knees and this bitch sticks her fucking face (!!!) into my vagina! At the time I just stood up really quickly, shocked and laughed it off cause I was in a good mood but really? They treat us like objects wayy worse than guy customers.

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    Church money. PLs treat us like common hookers but try not to piss us off too bad (in their minds, at least) because they think they might be able to fuck us. Women? They're not trying to bone us and typically have an even lower opinion of us than men do. Easiest way to ruin my night? More than one female customer in the club.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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