The very first thing I ask is what the guy wants. I'm not a mind reader, and this in my opinion is my biggest problem. If they don't tell me, I usually just do what I want (I'm an action kinda gal!). If they want action now, I give it to them. If they want a slow striptease and a warm up before, I give it. So my problem with
my low raters are that they're
always the ones who do not tell me what they want and I
always ask first thing.
It'd be interesting if SM enacted a limit, but I do not think I'd take part in that. I have nothing against the girls who want that, but it's just not my style. I have block sessions enabled for the guys who want to do that sort of thing, and I think having that option is good enough for me!
Editing to say: I am not a fan of the one minute shows, either. I like to get an orgasm out of all my effort, but I guess there could be all sorts of problems that we don't know about like if their net went out, if they simply didn't like what they saw, the wifey came home, I was so hot they blew it right then and there and were too embarrassed to say anything, their house caught on fire, they could actually just be looking for something free, or anything! It's hard to actually know, easy to speculate. Take a deep breath, put on a smile, and try again

I always make it clear and obvious when I didn't get my orgasm and usually one very kind guy will help me out with my problem! <3
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