its been about a month in a half since i got back to work from my breast aug. my earnings have gone up in a major way. the other dancers on the other hand have become so damn catty towards me its not even funny. they were before but now its like stupid jealous. i work at a dive so keep dive quality females in mind for the most part. alot of the girls are druggies in one way or another and they spend their money on stupid shit. me on the other hand i believe in investing in myself early in this game so that i can get my money together in the long run and get me a business started.
all of the other girls sit around and chit chat amongst each other. i don't feel comfortable. i don't trust them. so i just keep to myself. i think i talk to only one of the girls out of all of them. all they do sit around and take me apart piece by piece and i'm like seriously. they all hang out in one way or another outside of work and i've been invited a few times but i just make up some type of excuse why i can't go. am i handling this situation in a wrong manner or should i try to be more welcoming towards them?



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I hate this advice but I believe it to be the only way and that is to hold your head up high, smile and keep going.


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