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    its been about a month in a half since i got back to work from my breast aug. my earnings have gone up in a major way. the other dancers on the other hand have become so damn catty towards me its not even funny. they were before but now its like stupid jealous. i work at a dive so keep dive quality females in mind for the most part. alot of the girls are druggies in one way or another and they spend their money on stupid shit. me on the other hand i believe in investing in myself early in this game so that i can get my money together in the long run and get me a business started.

    all of the other girls sit around and chit chat amongst each other. i don't feel comfortable. i don't trust them. so i just keep to myself. i think i talk to only one of the girls out of all of them. all they do sit around and take me apart piece by piece and i'm like seriously. they all hang out in one way or another outside of work and i've been invited a few times but i just make up some type of excuse why i can't go. am i handling this situation in a wrong manner or should i try to be more welcoming towards them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblebutt8o8 View Post
    its been about a month in a half since i got back to work from my breast aug. my earnings have gone up in a major way. the other dancers on the other hand have become so damn catty towards me its not even funny. they were before but now its like stupid jealous. i work at a dive so keep dive quality females in mind for the most part. alot of the girls are druggies in one way or another and they spend their money on stupid shit. me on the other hand i believe in investing in myself early in this game so that i can get my money together in the long run and get me a business started.

    all of the other girls sit around and chit chat amongst each other. i don't feel comfortable. i don't trust them. so i just keep to myself. i think i talk to only one of the girls out of all of them. all they do sit around and take me apart piece by piece and i'm like seriously. they all hang out in one way or another outside of work and i've been invited a few times but i just make up some type of excuse why i can't go. am i handling this situation in a wrong manner or should i try to be more welcoming towards them?
    BB08, you should know better than that!!! You're not there for friends you're there for money!!! Fuck em! And of course they're gonna be jealous! Ignore them and go about your business. Or find another club. And lets see some tits!!!!
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    I'd be careful getting out of work and hawk your belongings. Other than that, keep doing what you're doing. Focus on money, not those Fkn loser birds.

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    Stay true to yourself and don't let others bring you down. I can relate to your post. And I wouldn't necessarily blame it all on the fact that you work in a dive bar. You WILL find that in even the upscale clubs.

    Word of the wise tho... It takes a lot of inner strength and psychological well-being to survive in this type of "catty" environment, especially when you stand out as a balanced, responsible, freshly augmented and healthy entertainer. One must be strong to maintain these standards. Do NOT let them bring you down.

    Keep yourself. But don't feed their fire. Just ignore them. But don't be a total stuck-up bitch. Even when you are not working, don't waste the energy on worrying about them.

    Keep to your goals. Always be nice. Stay true to you. Don't be judgmental to anyone other than yourself. Be the better Woman.

    Hang in there Girl, and make that $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

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    ^ Well as harsh as this may sound I can completely relate to the OP. The girls at my secondary bar are a bunch of catty bitches so I am def holding my head high and bc of that I am considered a stuck up bitch..And u know what? Thats freakin fine witih me!! I have found that everywhere I go girls hate on me...All I have to do is stand in teh dressing room and I have been asked the most time wasting questions...The most hillaarriiouss comment came a few months ago when I dropped in briefly at an old club and some new girl asked me if I was a princess or royalty..I laughed at her and said "haha..nooo Im not ur funny."..
    My boobs rnt new but when I move around to diff clubs girls always ask about them or talk shit. Ive grown to expect shit talkers everywhere I go and therefore I dont associate very much with the girls I work with. Ill talk on the surface bs with most of them. But I dont reveal much about my life. Too many backstabbers in the game. I believe u should try to be nice to those who r nice to u but some people r better left ignored bc they dont deserve recognition. Stay weary of the people u work with..Thats key.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblebutt8o8 View Post

    all of the other girls sit around and chit chat amongst each other. i don't feel comfortable. i don't trust them. so i just keep to myself. i think i talk to only one of the girls out of all of them. all they do sit around and take me apart piece by piece and i'm like seriously. they all hang out in one way or another outside of work and i've been invited a few times but i just make up some type of excuse why i can't go. am i handling this situation in a wrong manner or should i try to be more welcoming towards them?
    I understand how you feel and it's horrible to work in an environment like that. I am actually going through a similar situation at work and it gets me down. When i came back to work some girls that used to talk to me wouldn't and I didnt understand what I had done wrong I hate this advice but I believe it to be the only way and that is to hold your head up high, smile and keep going.
    I keep to myself at work as well, its the only way to stay on track and concentrate on making money. But I do know that it is a horrible feeling when girls make it obvious that they are bitching behind your back. I have great rapport with management and they are fully aware of which girls are making trouble so that helps me to just get over it but some girls really remind me of when i went to high school... really really catty, lol.
    There are always some girls like that, anyway just enjoy your boobs they must look great

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    Default Re: overly catty co-workers

    headphones and a lollpop can be your best friends in the dressing room as they render you unable to talk( mouth is full) or hear( instead of them running their mouths, you just hear music!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by pink_bunny View Post
    headphones and a lollpop can be your best friends in the dressing room as they render you unable to talk( mouth is full) or hear( instead of them running their mouths, you just hear music!)
    lol, headhones and a lolipop ... i like it! simple yet effective
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicc View Post
    And I wouldn't necessarily blame it all on the fact that you work in a dive bar. You WILL find that in even the upscale clubs.
    O man, sometimes WAY WORSE... because of the ritzier clients.

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    not only dives- When I started at Spearmint Rhinos 6 years ago as a total newbie I had three girl back me into a corner and yell at me for using another girls rug on stage (after being told by another girl to use it on stage)- setup or not it was nasty and you see stuff like that in this industry all the time.
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    Default Re: overly catty co-workers

    dancers on the other hand have become so damn catty towards me its not even funny
    Are you sure it's not the other way around? Strippers are catty and it has nothing to do with boobs. Maybe you're doing something other than having a new set of tits that they don't like.

    Not saying you're this way, but in my experience some dancers get boob jobs, then act high and mighty like they own all the customers. (Including trying to cock block and steal custys, thinking they have a shot now!)

    Also if you want to get a business started you don't need money.




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