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    Default Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    I would really like to hear everyone's best dancing experience to date. Feel free to answer however you'd like. Tell me the year, place..was it just a good money night? or did a customer do something extra special? This isnt an attempt to see who can trump who..It is an effort to try to get us to remember the great nights that we have had in this industry...Were there several diff nights that were particularly fabulous? etc...
    I know the business is sucking right now but maybe if we can focus on something positive about the business we can gain a little perspective. I usually am" Little Miss Doom/Gloom" my own self but Ive found that isnt improving the quality of my life. SO I am choosing to try and look at the good that is going on in my life and put more energy into those things than the draining negatives.

    In my past my home bar used to be much more of a social yet still dancer based bar. People used to come in groups to see me on the weekends and I always looked forward to the groups of guys and believe it or not girls that came in and actually tipped. I work in bikini bars with a lower overall earning. One night I made nearly 1500 bc the entire runway full of customers were battling over who could tip the most..That was one of my best nights. One guy would throw down 50 then another 70 then another 600..It was great..Then more recently I have had a few wonderful customers who truly appreciate me as a person, dancer aside. And that to me is overly fulfilling. That type of customer makes the job for me. The type of customer who is a great person and who doesnt see me as an object and who knows me at my core and adores me for my heart makes this business for me. In some ways right now has been one of the best times of my career in dancing.

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    Default Re: Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    Wow...no one wants to talk of anything positive....

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    Default Re: Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    The first night I made money and thought yay **** me, I can do this! Was my most positive experience, after years of thinking I was a fat ugly bint who nobody wanted!

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    Default Re: Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    Lemme think...

    The time 1 guy spent $1500 on me in one night, he was really sweet too.

    The first time I knew for sure I was top earner that night.

    The super dead night I learnt how to invert on the pole.

    The time me and another dancer got tipsy and ended up making out in the dressing room.

    Many nights with my Melbourne hustle buddy and I stage crashing each other then getting booked for lesbian shows as a result.

    Getting booked for an hour to get a foot rub, walk around on my tip-toes and do naked pilates exercises.

    Lots of nights having laughs and dancing like a dick around the floor with great girls that have become life-long friends.

    Having a couple tip me $60 on stage because I was the only girl doing pole tricks then having them tell me I was the best pole dancer they'd ever seen in a SC.

    Dancing for a gay guy who said, and I quote "I guess I'm bisexual but I'm really more about the cock in my mouth"

    Getting black-out drunk on champagne from a reg one quiet night then having my manager text me the next day asking if I wanted the night off to recover (I still worked).

    The first night I got paid by the club to do a feature show.

    Realising one day that I had roughly what my bf at the time made in a year in cash at my house. I started going to the bank more often after that day, lol.

    Yeah, I've had a lot of positive stripping moments
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    Default Re: Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    Quote Originally Posted by Amareth View Post
    Dancing for a gay guy who said, and I quote "I guess I'm bisexual but I'm really more about the cock in my mouth"
    This is just awesome -I think it just made my night by reading it! Hahah!
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    ^ He also made hand gestures indicating shoveling cocks into his mouth while saying it. It was brilliant!
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    The first night I ever made bank. I had been dancing for a little under a year at the time and hadn't really figured out how to do it (slow learner lo), I swear I hadn't really made real money yet. I had pretty much lost all hope and told myself I was going to finish out this last week and get my pay and be done with it. That night was an EPIC snowstorm in my city and pretty much no girls showed up for work...yet it didn't stop the guys from coming in swarms.
    I did so well that night it was amazing!!! Obviously I didn't quit after that and I sure am glad I didn't.

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    ^ BOTM - glad you've found a club that's not raping you for house fees! Hopefully money at your new club will just keep getting better.

    I remembered another one; early in the night a group of guys were wasting my time doing the whole "he wants a dance" "no, it's his birthday" "no, he's the one with money" bs and I ended up getting pissed off and saying "Well if you don't buy a dance now you might not get another chance, I could be busy all night" they looked around at the 3 other guys in the club and laughed.

    Luckily one of those other guys took me for a few dances and by the time we finished there were more and I ended up doing back-to-back dances walking past the group of assholes every time as they stood right next to the lap rooms. On the last song of the night I was having a drink with a guy who'd just bought 5 consecutive dances from me when one of the guys from the asshole group comes up and asks me to dance for his mate which gave me the satisfaction of saying "sorry, I'm having a drink with this gentleman right now and it's last song anyway. I told you you should've bought a dance off me when you had the chance".
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    Default Re: Absolute Best Night Ever of Dancing

    Aw, the first time I made over $1000..made $1300 from a super sweet guy who was in VIP with me all night just talking..that was the BEST night ever.

    The one time in Vegas when I worked in my little dive, putting a dollar in the slot machine since it was dead and just picked random number on Keno and HIT and WON $400!! That was so exciting.

    Doing The Cupid Shuffle multiple times on stage. The Electric Slide multiple times on stage.

    When me and my girlfriend made a synchronized dance and did it together.

    The first time someone made it "rain" on me. I couldn't stop smiling.

    When a random guy from MYSPACE saw my Valentine's post and surprised me with a giant teddy a big box of chocolates, flowers and MONEY!

    Nights when I was just given money for being sweet/nice.

    The day when my regular brought in a bunch of clothes, jewelry and a bottle of champagne for my birthday.

    My going away party from Vegas. It was one of my best days because all my friends/regulars were there, made money, had cake, had sooo much fun. One of my best days and one of my saddest days. :*(

    So many drunken and fun nights...just laughing, screwing around on stage, taking pics. Even if we didn't make money, still had fun.

    Of course all the easy money nights.

    awww....I love dancing sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
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    awww....I love dancing sometimes.


    Point of entire post..remembering what we love about our profession (besides the obvious..money).

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    The one and only time I ever cleared 2,000 is a night I will always remember. The old wealthy Japanese man who bought me out at the beginning of the night was exhausted by 11, and wanted to go to sleep. Instead of staying out and partying by myself, which is usually what I do, I decided to go back to the club--only to get 3 VIPs, and another buyout at the end of the night--oh the memories! I doubt I'll ever make even close to that kind of money again, lol.

    The poledance showdown with two girls from Rapungi. They beat me with their unparalleled awesomeness, but that was still a blast.

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    The Saturday night I walked out with $1,300....and we have high tip out too!

    The Monday when there were only 2 customers in the entire building...and 40 girls. One of them picked me. Hells yes.

    The first time someone made it rain on me.

    My very first invert on the pole....and feeling stupid, because I was trying to "kick up" with the wrong leg.

    All of the times I made different trips to the same table and sold dances to everyone.

    Just now, because I totally just realized I've gotten over my fear of approaching groups.

    Doing the lawn mower, the sprinkler, the cabbage patch, an Irish jig, raising the roof and THE WORM on freaking stage!

    Walking in one night, looking amazing, and getting tons and tons of compliments from customers and dancers.

    My first lesbian show.

    Acting like a dick with an awesome customer and an awesome dancer.

    "Training" new girls and the moment they all pick me for a double dance.

    Getting hammered drunk, silly AND walking out with a bunch of money.

    Halloween.....Slash, baby!

    Goofing around with the bouncers, who all became my best friends; one night, I stayed after to sober up and got into an interesting conversation about squirting and my ethnicity.....yeah.

    The night when my boss pulled me into the office, handed me $100 and said "I just wanted to tell you that you come to work, do your job and go home....you don't give me any bullshit and I can't thank you enough for that."

    The night a guy walked up to the stage while we were all on there as a promotion and tried to get a bunch of girls to shake their ass like, RIGHT in his face. No one would do it, but I did, and he put $100 in my undies.
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    Oh! and just recently, me and a few other girls were practicing on a backstage pole and they were (apparently) in awe and told me how graceful, fluid and natural I look. Squee!
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    The night I had both an old man wearing wellies and a group of sharply dressed businessmen vying for my attention. The old man won in the end as he bought me 2 bottles of Cristal and a VIP room.
    It wasn't the biggest amount of money I ever made, but I felt so good that night.

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    I had a guy tip me a $100 bill on each stage. Then when I was done with stage, I went over to the bar and met him. He asked me to do an air dance for him as he stood at the bar. So I danced around for a song not even touching him, all standing up. He paid me $100 for each song. $2500 later..... I thought I was dreaming.
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    ^^So many good memories..Running into customers who really appreciate us...Thats what its all about. The good feelings thats what we got to focus on right now as stupid as that may sound. If we all try a little harder to remember the good times maybe on those nights where no one is tipping we can renergize some. Thats what I did. I had a string of crappy months. The nights avgs were under 100 which was highly, highly depressing but I kept trying...One night I smiled and talked to a few really nice generous customers and bc I had at the time tried to improve my outlook and even fake happiness a little I now have a few more people who look out for me at work. And they r great customers and people..The kind that show no disrespect just appreciation, support, and money.

    In this post I tried to get some of u to resurrect some of ur old zest and desire for the business so as to improve ur motivation at work. I had to kick my own ass into doing that and its helped immensely. Im not saying this post is going to vastly improve everyone's outlook on our profession or bring loads of new customers but it really doesnt hurt either.

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    the third shift at my new club where we had a theme night (Rocky Horror Picture Show) and i signed up to be brad...improvising the whole show looking like a weirdo in a men's suit with a bunch of confused custies not knowing what to do until the stripper dr frankunfurter started undressing us all and we had an orgy onstage. just so funny and a great way to get to know and bond with the awesome girls that run sunday theme night who have become friends.

    my first shift at an all nude club where i made $600 off one guy giving my first dance(s).

    christmas eve at a bikini bar where noone ever made over $500 and i made like $150 a shift but walked with $900 off of $20 dances because no girls showed up and the bar was jampacked with depressed guys with nowhere to go!

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    Best night ever I made $500 off of a young law student, and instead of dancing I mostly just sat and chatted with him while he played with my hair. Then I made $300 off of a different law student who was a big cuddly Southern gentleman, who would say "ma'am" and all those other little cute niceties. Stage tips were baller and I sold assorted dances to polite guys and walked out with a thousand, feeling like a princess!

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    Overcoming my natural shyness to approach a large group of men that no one had been talking to all night, and making $400 off them alone. They were all sweet and appreciative, and I felt rewarded for finally being brave.

    The night an old man came in and tipped me for my time all night, talking about the music scene in the '60's...He was actually great to talk to, and gave me gobs of money. I hope he comes in again someday.

    Dancing to "Amado Mio" on a slow night, and having 3 guys come up, tip, and tell me that was the most sensual dance they'd ever seen. I had always wanted to dance to that song, but it's slow and long so I don't usually play it. Felt great.

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    When I go home with a 4 digit earn $$ they are the best nights for me.... ching ching
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    I still haven't hit the 1000 dollar mark yet. I've been so close a few times. I'm still waiting. For now, I'll just have to say the first time I got rained on. I live for guys who come in to make it rain! It's SUCH AN AMAZING FEELING!

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    prob the first time i hit a grand..i realised i was able to do it and havent looked back since


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    the nights when customers just seem to line up for shows and everyone wants you at the same time

    when i order a glass of champagne and a custy buys me the bottle

    closing really weird guys with a really weird hustle and getting paid to sit around and sing south park theme songs for 3 hours

    wearing trackpants with a fluro thong on top for the stage as a joke on a DEAD night and make the first bit of money in 5 hours

    easy custys that keep extending

    the first 1G

    being able to walk into the chanel store and ed hardy the next day and buy all the things i wanted for years and pay with cash
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    When I had just started dancing at 18, I had absolutely NO real social skills, let alone hustling skills...and somehow managed to make 1000 off of one guy. He was so polite and sweet and didn't even want me to take my clothes off or dance much. I was shocked!

    Also around the same time I had a custy buy me a purse worth about 9 or 800, and then buy about 300 worth of dances. It was amazing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by neliana View Post
    When I had just started dancing at 18, I had absolutely NO real social skills, let alone hustling skills...and somehow managed to make 1000 off of one guy. He was so polite and sweet and didn't even want me to take my clothes off or dance much. I was shocked!

    Also around the same time I had a custy buy me a purse worth about 9 or 800, and then buy about 300 worth of dances. It was amazing!

    Im not ashamed to admit this but when I was 18 that was the first and worst year of my earnings. No wayy did I earn 1000 at 18. So good for u. I had to learn the business for a year or so before I started banking.

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