You are wanted in the verified group and have been greatly missed!![]()





You are wanted in the verified group and have been greatly missed!![]()

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Message Hottie. You know you are in. We were just talking about you. Glad to see you back!

okay i will send her a message thanks LUV!
Seriously? Nothing she said warranted being banned. I usually keep my mouth shut but this is god damn ridiculous.
lol wut?





She was banned because she is CamWhore. CamWhore's account was banned for 12 months. You can't have another account if your previous one is banned. I was willing to overlook her posts in "Streammate Ban" but she was starting drama via PM's and Verified Cam Girls Section. And yes I do check that section. I would like to suggest the trash talking stop in there or I will go to Pryce and ask that the whole thing be shut down. That is a place to share info that you don't want customers/trolls/etc to read. Not to trash talk other members and mods.
I dont see trashtalking of members or mods, I do see a critique of mods and I see a wtf at a member who posts intentionally to provoke. Asides from that, no. But Id rather not speak too much on what is there privately publicly though... since that's part of the function of the group.
But we do know you check - PMs are visible to mods as well for people who dont know.
Ban circumvention is bannable, that I understand. Im not debating that. I also concede that camming connection cannot be fun to moderate... but that's not why Im posting:
Threatening a group that took a very long time to gain credibility, shield models from trolls and customers who want to troll their rooms (ie so ppl can post their model names), and is the sanctity of many due to the actions of a few is rather unfortunate. Itd be better to deal with it on a case by case basis then threaten the group at large. It creates an unnecessary amount of panic for a space that is fairly important to us - Id say in a way you cannot understand since you dont cam. For fulltime cam models having a space separately to speak is important. Shutting it down or creating unnecessary fear via threats will probably result in an exodus of models to another site, possibly "the other site". Given the popularity of camming connection and how vital of a resource it is in both the public (here) and private (there) space, I think thatd be really unfortunate.
So, I just want to say if it is possible to deal with posters who you perceive to be breaking the rules on a one-on-one basis is far more ideal than creating a climate of unnecessary panic among the 90+ members in an important group. The generally passive behavior of the majority shouldnt be punished for a minority.
Not speaking personally but internet predators are a very real thing for cammers and shutting a down a private(ish) group because a few members (or even threatening to do so) isnt really corrective action.
Popular members will be banned, always, of course. That is a given. But the group is way more valuable and important than the possible impact of directly addressing / banning people out of line.
So, does 'drama' mean we're not allowed to have an opinion now? Because this is what I'm seeing happen as of lately.





I do deal with members one and one. Then people make threads and want to know why, wtf, what the hell??! Or they go into the Verified section and make threads "critiquing" the mods or should I say mod (me). I was chosen as a mod because I wasn't a camgirl. I wouldn't be biased. Instead of me changing my ways, perhaps many of you could change yours. In the way you post and reply to threads. I understand ranting and venting but I don't understand the reasoning behind being outright mean and insulting in answering some posts.





Having an opinion and just being a bitch is 2 different things. I've said before, I only get involved when the posts are reported. If you have more than 2 reported posts in a 24hr period then you're going to get an infraction. It's unneccessary to keep going on and on and on. Instead, report the other person's posts if you feel it was rude/offensive.





I'm not trying to be rude, but why can't h0ttie be the mod of the verified section? There has been NO drama what-so-ever in the verified section. NONE. The verified section is the biggest blessing to have ever come out of SW in my opinion. There is so much love and respect in there it is insane. Coming from someone who is used to club dressing rooms and the drama of SW, it really shocks me how peaceful, supportive, and awesome it is.
With that being said, why can't h0ttie mod that area? What is or isn't being said in there shouldn't really concern you since you don't cam. I'm not trying to be disrespectful---but you are treating us like children by moderating something that has nothing to do with you and than telling us that you are going to have it taken away. Thanks, Kaia. That is awesome.
Can someone PM me the chatzy link before she bans me, too?





Thanks for letting us know that the issue was that the previous account was banned , there was some confusion since it never showed on her profile. I dont think there were any bad intentions to anyone from the verified section , everyone was just taken by suprise . Camwhore may have her ways that put people off but, she also has been an asset to many ladies here, old and new alike. I think everyone just got caught up in the moment.
edited - there were no post before i started typing this -now there are 5 i hope this can be resolved peacefully
I understand that threads get out of hand but come on... I am really pissed about you threatening to shut the verified section down and I feel that was bitchy so can I flag you for that?! Im Offended by that and think thats going to far IMO...





I agree that is must be a blessing for you girls. I had no problem with it until I had seen my name and other members brought up in it. CW made 2 separate threads in there (one being today) that was nothing but trash talking and drama. Hence, one of the reasons she was banned. Now none of this has NOTHING to do with any of you and yet you're jumping down my throat. CC has been just fine without her around. CW being banned is none of your concerns. I understand you feel she contributes and is a big part of the community, but until she learns to control her temper in her posts and the drama she stirs, then she isn't welcome here.





I wanted to join the verified group today! Hopefully it will still be around...brb verifying





Kaia- I was kind of a bitch to you and I apologize. I just got upset when you threatened to take the verified section away.
Nobody in real life knows that I cam. The verified group is my sanctuary and I would truly be lost without it.





No problem
I have nothing against any of you. I didn't even know it was CW until I pointed her and she wrote back a somewhat snotty PM. Then I had some suspicions. So I happened to look in the verified section and lo and behold she went all out. She is not welcome on this forum until she gets her attitude in check. So please ladies, I know you're dissapointed but don't get yourselves banned. It's not worth it. I know how much SW means to many of you....
Um, hi. I am new here and I have no idea what is currently going on but I am confused about something you have said -- so I was just hoping I could ask you a clarification question of SW policy. If someone dislikes you and flags a bunch of posts that you have made, do you automatically get an infraction or is it on a case by case basis?
I just ask because it slightly scares me that if someone dislikes you personally that all they would have to do is flag your posts to get rid of you on SW.
I am sure I am just missing something though. As I said, I am really new so I am just learning how stuff works here.





Good question
The mods are the ones who ultimately decide whether to warn, point or ban someone. There have been many instances where posts were flagged and I didn't point or warn anyone because the post didn't break any of SW's rules. When I see a reported post I read it, go to the thread it came from then go to the rules and determine if the post crossed any lines.
In the case of FreakySnob, 2 of her posts were flagged in one thread long before anyone even knew who she was. The posts broke SW's rules of conduct so I pointed her. After receiving a rude PM, I put 2 and 2 together and figured out she was a banned member. As a banned member you cannot make another acct and participate on SW...especially in such a rude demeanor. I hope that answered your questions. Feel free to PM any time with any questions or concerns![]()



So i guess we need to post with sugarplums and lollipops. Ignore the fact this is OUR GIG. When someone posts something outrageously stupid such as "I have been banned for selling skype through a site ..please feel sorry for me..OR i was masturbating in free chat and now Im perm banned ..do I get my paycheck?"
WE DONT GIVE A SHIT THE "MODEL" KNOWS THE RULES.
I get pissed and usually igg those threads..such as one with Skype and SM..I agree 100% with her comments. I hate to see a valued member lost. I hate to see that people do not know the real deal with camming and the BS we have to put up with.
The verified Group takes away all that drama..Whenever I post out here i regret it. Most things posted in CC are things that have already been ...Im done





^Shywebcamgirl I think if it is flagged it gets the mod's attention faster but it is still filtered through SW site rules or "put out the fire now" prevention. So someone being out of control in a thread that doesnt get many views and is quickly buried and is never flagged may not get as much attention as a thread that goes on for aaaages that a bunch of people flag. My guess is once mods log in they get notices of what is flagged already -- review it, sift it through site rules, figure out what to do, then proceed using the site as a regular user... but if they see something pointworthy or bannable on their own itll also get addressed.
It is the difference between "something may have happened in x thread" to "SOMETHING HAPPENED IN X THREAD ZOMGz!!!111!!"
I think ppl in CC tend to flag some posts en masse so mods may get buried with flag reports. For example, Im pretty sure Ive said things that deserved a point in "Jobs" but no one goes there since it is just studio ads so it presumably wasnt flagged so it may have fallen under the radar. But if I was like "fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck you gtfo I kill you motherfuckers" here itd probably get flagged since there is so much foot traffic.
Also IP logs are recorded - so when someone is banned an they create a new name, mods see it. Circumventing a ban is bannable behavior since youre banned in the first place. In CW's case people werent aware she was banned, but are aware now
uh idk why Im answering your question haha this is all conjecture - kaia will probably answer
Whew! I was scared there for a second. I thought just anyone would just flag your posts and get you'd get voted off the island.
I guess I was just a little surprised since I've never really found anyone in Camming Connection ever rude or mean to me at all even though I ask a lot of dumb questions as a newbie. I mean, there is some tough love going on in the forum sometimes -- but I really be lost without their amazing advice.![]()
...so most of y'all are going to act like you can't see the difference in disagreeing with a poster and being a bully?
Kaia is just doing her job. You can be critical without being combative and you can provide counsel without condescension. The rules are outlined in a sticky at the top of this forum and they're not gray. Don't launch personal attacks and you don't have to worry about being banned.
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