
Originally Posted by
mediocrity
A few things.
First of all, I understand being physically overpowered. That being said- why didn't you initially read the customer and assess how to manage your risk?if he held you down, why didn't you yell or shout at him? Even though I'm not dancing anymore, I had an Indian customer try to hold me down and kiss me last month. I shouted at him, shoved him off of me, and asked the GM to throw him out.
My first reaction was complete and utter surprise. Second was somewhat involuntary wiggling. Third was, "hey, get the F off me, buddy!" which was when Frank walked in, watched the whole thing, and my utter surprise reaction returned, but this time toward a manager who did nothing to interrupt the scene.
How, exactly, am I supposed to accurately assess the risk level of each customer? Yeah, some of them are creepy and just icky, but perfectly respectful. The ones that I'm REALLY afraid of are the ones that are super nice and catch you by surprise.....oh, like this guy.
Secondly, if he didn't explain the rules extensively that is his bad. BUT- I wouldn't allow headstands either, or putting legs over customers shoulders. Those positions to me carry too much risk for them to get abusive or carried away. Standing on chairs, we don't allow climbing on the furniture either.
He explained the rules quite simply: customers cannot touch you, but you may touch them. No fucking, no sucking, no handjobs. Reasonable level of contact is allowed on stage. He also explained a $25 fine would be issued IF you climb into the chairs with your shoes on, which very clearly underlined "no shoes on chairs."
I don't mind that he doesn't allow him in the club; that's not my complaint. But trying to fine me or threatening to fire me is a bit ridiculous, since he never said anything about not allowing them.
As for your vag popping out, you know your anatomy best and should dress accordingly. Him ridiculing your outfits and hair though, isn't cool.
Obviously none of us were there for the puking or know your schedule so can't comment on that. I'm simply being pragmatic and a lot of these problems are avoidable.
That's honestly the first time that's ever happened to me. Could've been from wearing a different style of undies, trying a new trick, or just an "oopsie."
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