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    Default Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    From the customers' point of view, the enjoyment is obvious. I wonder though, do strippers sometimes like giving lap dances?

    I realize that many times, the customers look/smell/act in a way that's unpleasant. But are there times when you enjoy it?

    If so, what is it about it that you enjoy?

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    Yes, I do -when he or she is handing me large sums of money
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brandi_Lynn View Post
    Yes, I do -when he or she is handing me large sums of money
    I like your focused approach.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    there is a thread titled we're there to make money. i believe that would be appropriate here.

    you idiots act like this shit is rocket science.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    you idiots act like this shit is rocket science.
    LOL, this is what kills me. It's so f'n simple that it's scary. Yet some guys just can't accept that a woman can take her clothes off for you, dance for you, maybe even rub up against you but not care about you in the least. I don't know why, but they just can't...
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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    There is a BIG difference between dancing for someone in a club or a party and having sex with them. The sex is a reality the dance is fantasy. Good dancers figure this out right away.

    Btw, if I made money I enjoyed dancing. Otherwise, not really. Oh sure I do actually like to dance but if I am not making money I'd rather be at home.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    When the guy is polite and doesn't try to touch me then yes, I do genuinely enjoy giving lap dances. Just not in a sexual way. I'm an energetic person and love dancing and money so I'd rather be giving a lap dance than sitting down talking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    It's swapping the psychological roles like a proverbial mind fuck! Men are suppose to be the ones who can have sex without feelings, yet some us get caught like a little girl getting all emotional over the dancer that doesn't want us while they seem to get into it too, then stop.
    There is hope for you yet Doc...

    What men, or many men at least, don't understand is that a woman can give you her body for a price while at the same time holding back the most precious thing she has to give-her heart. Without her heart you have nothing.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    Sure, yes, I like the dancing when I don't feel like I'm trying to dodge a drunken octopus. When I have a guy that just settles in and appreciates the show I can relax and enjoy myself. I *like* feeling sexy and intimate...it's the guys that can't let it go at that that make the job only about the money for me.

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    No. Never

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    I get a little bored, though I try to hide it. Plus, I'm lazy as hell, so my legs start to hurt quickly.

    I wouldn't really say I like it, ultimately. But most of that has to do with the fact that I work in a high contact area and many men don't respect my boundaries. For example, dancing for a guy who likes legs is usually fine for me. I'm not a big fan of being touched in general (even outside of work), but I can accept someone touching my legs. However, a guy who persists in trying to play with/stroke my nipples ruins my night. I think the only time I "like" giving dances is when the customer is enjoying him/herself and showing his/her appreciation with tips.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brandi_Lynn View Post
    Yes, I do -when he or she is handing me large sums of money
    What she says. On top of that, they have to let ME be in control and they have to be well behaved.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    Flip the switch. If you danced for a parade of horny, drunk, grabby women, most of whom are MUCH older, pudgey and not good looking, would you do it because you enjoyed it or because you got paid?

    Sure, the random, sober, respectful hottie who you actually had a connection with MIGHT happen once in a blue moon, but otherwise, it's all about the money. Someone once posted the following (my apologies, can't remember who and I'm paraphrasing): when customers come in here asking if the dancer really is in love with them, the answer is always a knee-jerk "no" - because 99.99999% of the time, it's all hustle to get you to come back.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    ^ I said this most recently when I posted the 10 Laws.

    However, every one of the experienced customers on SW has stated it at one time or another.

    More succinctly: "If you have to ask, the answer is no."

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    If the customer was well behaved, I never really felt much of anything towards it. If the customer was touchy feely and/or rude, I loathed giving dances.

    I always much preferred VIP over dances. More control for me and I find the quality of VIP customers was/is higher. There were a few VIP guys I genuinely enjoyed hanging out with.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    what is it about it that you enjoy?
    The gettin' paid part.




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    Sure, i like to dance and flirt and get a workout. But the moment the customer is touchy then my guard is up 100% and all I'm doing is dancing defensively and anticipating the next mini assault.

    Does it sexually excite me? Sure, as foreplay with a lover in private, not as a job though, no matter how handsome the customer is.

    Now, there have been a few isolated incidents of the right combination of the elements of attraction, but its so statistically insignificant that's its not worth mentioning.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    People shouldn't come on this forum hoping to have the fantasy confirmed

    I don't really feel much about dances, as long as the guy isn't touchy/demanding. I do enjoy dancing for the really young SC virgins who have probably barely kissed a girl IRL; the look of amazement on their faces is brilliant and they're usually very sweet. It's cool to enighten them on the woman lol. Also had fun with the odd enthusiastic guy, clapping and making silly comments but clearly having so much fun haha.

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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    Yesterday I spent about five hours with a favorite dancer who I also spend a fair amount of OTC time with (friends, not P4P). We were doing dances, enjoying the clubs holiday buffet and chatting it up-something we both love to do. As with all of our visits there is a fair amount of time talking about her club, the girls and the customers. She vents to me because she can do it without having to worry about any of it getting back to other dancers or her regs.

    The reason for this long setup is this...

    Guys, you are a wallet. If you are a nice guy, a bad guy, a handsome guy or an ugly guy you are still a wallet. ITC you represent income to a dancer and not much more. Any personality trait that you have-positive or negative-is weighed against how much money you spend. I see this particular lady OTC more than I do ITC and have for a few years now. Still, when I show up at the club I show up with money to spend (not $60 btw). To do otherwise would be an insult to her.

    I know what you're thinking but the money I spend has nothing to do with the OTC part of our friendship. We just hit it off and I got lucky. She has regs who come in more often and spend way more money than I do. Last year she actually lost one for a while when he asked her out on a date and she refused. If you sat with her for a few hours, or with any dancer who trusted you, you would hear stories about all the wacky guys. The pervs, the fetish guys, the guys that are so boring you can't even find a way to start a conversation, the guys who want you to kick them in the balls, the guys who want you to piss into a glass for them, the guys who insist that you put up with their inane banter for an hour before they do VIP (ok, that could be me, lol) the guys who want you to dominate them and of course the never ending slew of guys who want you to blow them, fuck them or give them a hand job in the dance booth. After that, the guy who "doesn't do dances" but wants your phone number shows up...

    Guys, get over it. You are, above all else, a wallet when you step into a strip club. You are either a customer or furniture, there is no in between.

    Yesterday my fav pointed out this one guy who drives all the girls in the club nuts with his antics and spends very little money. "Origami guy" they call him since he spends hours in the club, doing origami with money and napkins etc. She knows she can get $40 out of him but she'd rather work the floor and get every "just one dance" guy before she goes over to sit with him. Well, I finished my drink, we did our final round of dances and I left. I talked to her last night and I asked her if she got her $40 from origami guy before her shift ended. She did.

    A good dancer never lets emotion get in the way of money. The quicker the "does she like me" guys or the "do you enjoy doing lap dances" guys or the dreaded "besides the money what do you enjoy about dancing naked for strange men" guys figure this out the faster they will actually start having FUN in strip clubs...
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    Default Re: Do you sometimes like giving lap dances?

    This is kind of like asking do mechanics like getting their hands dirty. It's a necessary "evil" in order to make money.

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