I need your guy’s advice, or help in regards to my gf. At the club my gf works they started to let the girls give out there phone nr to customers if they want, which I think is a good thing, as this way they can stay in touch with the customer and ask if they want to come and so on. When she told me this I told her that is good, and that this way she can make them feel special and want to come back. My gf is doing this, and she not hiding it from me as she leaves her phone out, and tells me what she writes if I ask, she does this so that I know she not hiding anything. And I know that she write them thinks like “ miss you, and hope to see you soon”, “ I have been thinking about you too”, and so on. And off course this will make the customers want to come back and spend more time with her. My only concern was that she also calls them “baby” which is what she always calls me! And she told me once that this was very special to her and that it has special meaning to her, So when I saw that she called her customer “baby” I felt a bit hurt, I have not said anything to her about this as I feel that she would feel that I don’t trust her or that I am spying on her, and I don’t want that.
So should I confront her or should I just let it be, I know that I am her only true “baby”☺. but still, I mean should I sit down with her and have a talk with her in regards to what she should not txt customers about and thinks like this, but I feel that would be more SOOO wrong and this would make her realy feel that I am trying to control her which is the last thing I want. So what do you think!, should I just leave it? Or should I say something?
PLEASSSS don’t over analyze this, like some of you have don in the past on some my post!! It is a simple question
Thanks for your help



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I will just forget about it. as she is beeing very open with me about everything
Seems like something that is pretty obvious. And the answer is no, I have not. I had a couple of opportunities when I was much younger, but I bailed out. Why? Because I already knew that I couldn't handle their jobs if things got serious, so the least I could do is not to waste their time or become a problem for them.

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