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    strange concern but I was just curious if anyone was worried about the possibility of getting stretched out after using dildos on themselves for several hours a day? And if there was a solution to this other than..not using toys or using them sparingly? Perhaps..a kegel toy? Thanks

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    Lol well, ur gonna get stretched out...I don't mind it at all, maybe because I'm single....plus, the money is coming in so hey lol...Once I stop for good, it'll go back to normal lol...but yeah, me personally, I don't really care lol





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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    Always go for the smaller toys, only have big ones for when they request them. I do not ever grab the big one right off the bat. lube it up, so you aren't constantly pulling, and some kegals will help.

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    kegals and pretend as much as possible lol
    Tell me what do you see? Thug niggas? Drug dealers? Its a trip...every nigga in this whip got a mothafuckin college degree

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    um...i haven't gotten stretched out. and i fuck myself almost daily with a 6.5 inch dildo. i don't use big toys ever. but it's still as tight down there as it's always been...only time i get really stretchy is when i get really wet and turned on, but that happened long before i started camming.

    kegel exercises and kegel toys will help but i'm still pretty tight and i don't do them...so...? no, i don't worry about it.

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    I use medium to big toys, but I never feel stretched out. I might loosen up a little bit during the day, but the next day I'm always a snug fit. I have to finger myself every day before I get on cam or the first show is like a minute of me trying to fit the damn things in. So....no. Here's a handy dandy link into this common myth

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    The vagina is pretty elastic, meaning you don't have a big wide "echo! echo!" hole after you shove a dildo up there. It can pretty much spring back into place.

    Those girls who do extreme insertion: The vagina is a muscle and you can exercise and stretch it properly over time. Those girls don't just wake up in the morning and say, "I'm going to shove this 12 inch dong up my pussy for kicks!" You work up to that point. Extreme insertion, if done correctly, is a marathon NOT a sprint.

    Raise your hand if you've had a baby. Do you have a gaping baby hole in your vag? Nope, didn't think so!

    Do you think that Duggar woman who had 20 kids so far...is her cervix falling out of her pussy? I don't think so. And her husband obviously still fucks her. So he can feel something in there I'm sure.

    But seriously girls, we push babies out of our vagina all of the time. To say a dildo, fist or even a 3 inch toy is going to DESTROY or strtch you open your pussy is ridiculous.

    Keep pounding away and do kegals.


    Did I make a sense? Does this have a point?
    What time is itt? I'm fucking tired....lol








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    ^ Any response beyond this one has a LOT to live up to. That nearly killed me!

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    as an example...

    anal


    no if you do anal you won't shit yourself when you get older. that has been the comment used to scare and shame and degrade people who like anal sex because it isn't "normal"

    how do people work up to taking a cock up the ass? anal training...beads, fingers, then various sizes of anal plugs until they're ready for a cock.

    you WILL however shit yourself if you SHOVE something up your ass that your body isn't ready for and break that sphincter ring...you tear that and you're knee deep in brown stuff for the rest of your life.


    so about the pussy. again, no as long as youre stretching it gradually it will easily spring back into place...

    to say because you're regularly sticking something in your cooch and worrying about it getting stretched you might as well quit sex and masturbation. cant stick nothing up there. lol. if its the size youre vagina can handle you have nooo problem.

    if you skip sizes and force BIG toys inside it with no proper warmup/etc. you could end up with a looser vag, yes. because you've put a big strain and torn/damaged the muscle.

    just like an athlete if you work an muscle and train and stretch, etc you can work up to bigger and better things and perform better. just because it's a pussy doesn't mean its any different. its still a muscle.

    i hope this made sense...


    NOW im going to bed. lol







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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    glass toys, least amount of friction, pulling, etc.

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    thanks ladies

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    Yeah, definitely nothing to worry about..I'm a fister and I still have guys I sleep with comment on how tight I am. I use the aforementioned giving birth example a lot..Guys really are so stupid that they think I walk around with a big gaping hole for a vagina at all times
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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    Dont worry about stretching, do your keigels (no equiptment, its free, you can do it anywhere) and youll be fine.

    Ive had a kid, and for some reason blessed with meeting guys who are always in the magnums category, plus been camming for 10yrs. I was a bit nervous when I first started escorting, but the frist time a guy told me I was tight I wanted to jump up and keep the champagne flowing. But I hear it all the time now, so Im super confident now and the one thing that concerned me all these years, turned out to be the least of my worries. Go figure.

    Anyway, the muscles there are incredibly strong, and like someone mentioned, we can give birth and contract back down, so a dildo isnt going to do anything to change your shape or tightness. Besides, when sexually aroused, the muscles relax to allow a guy to fit inside of you... so from one experience to the next, one guy to the next, depending on how relaxed your muscles get is how tight you will feel.
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    I second the glass toys!
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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    yes..... glass toys all the way to the bank!!

    a few years ago when I bought my first glass toy, a.. kind of female friend stoped by... it was a party night that night.. we were all tipsy so anyway I took my glass toy out and bragging about how cool it is and I LOVE it so much... well she thought I was hitting on her and after a few minutes asked me if Iwant her to use it on me...
    er.... NO!

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    Quote Originally Posted by fridays View Post
    yes..... Glass toys all the way to the bank!! :d

    a few years ago when i bought my first glass toy, a.. Kind of female friend stoped by... It was a party night that night.. We were all tipsy so anyway i took my glass toy out and bragging about how cool it is and i love it so much... Well she thought i was hitting on her and after a few minutes asked me if iwant her to use it on me...
    Er.... No!
    ahhahaha

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    ^^ LOLOL. .sometimes I talk about camming when I'm drunk too and there's always some freaky offer involved!

    But no, I actually posted a thread in the verified section about extreme insertion because I was naive about it. I started using it in some of my shows, slowly getting up the point within the past 2 months or so. I always stay lubed up, and I had the same sexual partner who does not see a difference when we have intercourse or anything. If I do get really paranoid then I just walk around with benwa balls in while I'm doing errands for the day or what not. You will be fine as long as you don't force things in there at the wrong time or don't stay lubed. Any other time I use glass toys with coconut oil or my fingers.

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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    Im here to slamdunk what most said, so tinydancer and Hayden

    Quote Originally Posted by Brilynne View Post
    Yeah, definitely nothing to worry about..I'm a fister and I still have guys I sleep with comment on how tight I am. I use the aforementioned giving birth example a lot..Guys really are so stupid that they think I walk around with a big gaping hole for a vagina at all times
    I cant self-fist but I can do large insertions and it is no issue. Like tiny said - uh if youre not aroused, youre tight. So often my insertions look like Im super tight at first but eventually itll swallow it up. My vagina itself "at rest" eternally looks smaller than average. Just go easy - dont slam yourself like some customers request. Prolapse is a very very small risk esp if you have no preexisting trauma to that area and esp if youre using most mainstream toys (even the monster realistic ones) but why bother risking it by fast hard insertion of like a coke bottle with no lube.

    I kegel all the time as well to increase my own orgasms. Ive used the balls but asides from giving yourself stealthy pleasure while youre out in public, I think they re somewhat counterproductive.

    No issues at all. I suspect if I didnt kegel Id still be fine though.

    Like Ive never sneezed or laughed a ton and accidentally dribbled pee or anything. Never had an menstrual cup casually fall out.

    Go wild.





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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    I honestly think this whole myth about large toys causing the vagina to somehow "stretch out" came from men who are sooo sure their huge penises are going to wreck women's vaginas, when women give birth to babies many times larger than their tiny penises, every day, all over the world.

    Same with these guys who think if a woman has slept with a man with a large dick it's going to permanently change the vagina. Honey, unless you're packing a dick the size of your leg, don't think so! Funny how they can totally ignore the fact that women give birth from those same vaginas!


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    Quote Originally Posted by ImpossiblePrincess View Post
    Having sex with guys with big dicks helps to train you too. My man is 8.5" and pretty thick and for the first two years we were dating, we had sex every single day. My vagina is good and elastic now - he still tells me I'm tight, but - surprise surprise! - when I'm relaxed and turned on, I can fist.
    THIS.
    For nearly 3 years I was with a guy with a MASSIVE cock. When we first started having sex it would be so uncomfortable and Id be sooo sore, but after having sex nearly everyday for so long my vagina got used to it. It was with him that I learned to fist.

    I'm still tight, but now my vag can handle anything when I'm relaxed
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    Default Re: getting stretched out

    I just stick to my 8 inch dildos lol that's the biggest I'll go, I'm scared of anything bigger lol





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