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    Doc just a heads up....deleting is not good. I like you because of how real you want to be compared to the Jackass which we know is a reincarnation of one of his characters, which Hindi's believe in
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    Default Re: approaching a stripper as a man, not a customer

    After reading the last post from our resident bouncer (aka moron), I am convinced that this section is for idiots like himself.

    This will be my last post in the customer section.

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    Thank you...money refunded!

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    This will be my last post in the customer section.
    Promise?
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Is there anybody even moderating Customer Conversation anymore? Seriously, how has this section devolved to this?
    My guess would be folks paying far too much attention to way too many Trolls; especially the ones who make multiple accounts, then play the "oh that was my friend, not me" game.

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    Are you with the sandwich guy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    Are you with the sandwich guy?
    No; I don't like ham, and I don't debate math.

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    I know dude...I just playing...

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    YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME! LOL YOU CANNOT BE SERIOUS!...The nerve of this guy..#1 Stripping is a job!...Ummmmm....Trying to make money here, the last thing on any stripper's mind is to fuck a loser like you lol





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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    I know most strippers(myself included esp) don't give a fuck about management's friends. Those are the worse. They think bc they are friends with the managers, they can act/do whatever they want. Um, no.

    I don't care to hook up with anyone who has ties to the business. You already know, total player right there too. No Thx.

    Strippers are very hard to get. Don't forget we get hit on constantly. Blah. Unless you have something mega special to bring to the table, don't bother. And I agree, any girl can be boring or exciting...has nothing to do with being a stripper or not.
    All of the customers need to read this. Seriously, I don't understand this whole logic about wanting to date strippers because non strippers are boring. Really? Interesting because when stripping was a full time job I was very boring outside of the club. I'd come home and get into sweats and no make up and tie my hair back. I would do very non stripping things. As for sex, which is where I think some of these guys are going I was far more sexual before I got into stripping. Usually during stripping I was either dating one guy or not interested in anyone at all.

    Also, like Vyanka mentioned, I hated the "friends of the manager" guys. I never dated these sleazeballs. None of these guys would have been partners and I knew they only saw me if anything as sexual partners. I had no interest in any of them sexually and most of these guys were ugly inside and out. I only dated two guys in the industry: a bouncer and a DJ. The bouncer was a nice guy and we split as friends. Years later I ran into him and he introduced me to his wife. The DJ was a con artist and really messed up my mind for years and to this day I still have issues trusting men because of him. I did date a customer (which I have mentioned before many times)but never when I was dancing at a club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Seriously, I don't understand this whole logic about wanting to date strippers because non strippers are boring. Really? Interesting because when stripping was a full time job I was very boring outside of the club. I'd come home and get into sweats and no make up and tie my hair back. I would do very non stripping things. As for sex, which is where I think some of these guys are going I was far more sexual before I got into stripping.
    Guys are fascinated by the aura of the strip club and the out-front sexuality that dancers exhibit as part of the job. Most dancers don't act like that once they wash the make-up off and go home. I had lunch with my ATF the other day and, trust me, no one in that restaurant would ever guess that she was an exotic dancer. With no make-up on and wearing sweats and sneakers she looks like any woman would walking through the mall. The thing is, the reason we do things like have lunch together is because her non-stripperfied self is what I really like about her and she knows it.

    I also agree that there is some sort of mythical belief that strippers are better in bed than non strippers. This manifests itself both with guys looking for dates and with guys trying for paid OTC who say they would never think of hiring an escort. I've never quite figured out what the assumption is based on other than simply lusting after the hot naked woman who is in front of you. I'm not saying the sex won't be great, just that there is no guarantee. I can actually understand it more from the P4P guys as there is something to be said for at least meeting and chatting with a girl before you pay her for sex. The guys who want a girl friend or think that a strip club is a good place to pick up a one night stand however are just plain clueless...
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    Once again Yoda is correct. If one met me in real life no one would guess I was a stripper. I've had people think I was a teacher, a librarian and even a nun! No one would guess I was a stripper. When I wear a suit (usually for work or job interview)I look like a professional woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StripClubRegular View Post
    If you are a glutton for punishment, who am I to judge.

    http://5secondfilms.com/watch/glutton_for_punishment

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    LOL...very good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by flyguy29 View Post
    OP. Just go, spend money, and leave. Repeat this till until the magic works
    Was this post meant to be sarcastic? Because I found that this actually happened with my fav.

    Disclaimer: I was happy just being a customer and not expecting any "magic" to work but the "magic" did happen much to my surprise ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Guys are fascinated by the aura of the strip club and the out-front sexuality that dancers exhibit as part of the job.
    Yup. There's a quote from "The Godfather" (I think) where Don Corleone makes the point that there's money in prostitution because men are simply buying things that are denied them by the Church (i.e., no-strings-attached sex with a woman of their choosing). I think that this logic sort of applies to the appeal of strip clubs. Men go to strip clubs to experience an environment where they are surrounded by beautiful women acting their most sexual. This contrasts with normal, everyday life, where society's norms prevent such outward and assertive displays of sexuality, especially by women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stawj View Post
    Was this post meant to be sarcastic? Because I found that this actually happened with my fav.

    Disclaimer: I was happy just being a customer and not expecting any "magic" to work but the "magic" did happen much to my surprise ...
    I doubt he was being sarcastic. That is pretty much how it works in a strip club- you keep spending, she'll keep giving you attention. It probably won't get him a girlfriend, or even sex, because it's a fucking STRIP CLUB. Why do so many men seem to think we go to work every night because we have trouble meeting men on our own? It's not a goddamn singles club, for Christ's sake. I mean, he might be able to buy some "extras" services, because we all know that happens in most clubs from time to time. But OP, if you're even still here and weren't trolling to begin with (that's a BIG "if"), you're not going to get a stripper to date you by acting like some jackass PUA at her work place. You're just not.

    So take flyguy's (presumably) non-sarcastic advice, and go spend lots of money and have a good time. There's nothing wrong with being a customer - we LIKE customers. Waaaaaaaaay more than we like pathetic time-wasting wannabe PUAs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KeithDoxen View Post
    Yup. There's a quote from "The Godfather" (I think) where Don Corleone makes the point that there's money in prostitution because men are simply buying things that are denied them by the Church (i.e., no-strings-attached sex with a woman of their choosing). I think that this logic sort of applies to the appeal of strip clubs. Men go to strip clubs to experience an environment where they are surrounded by beautiful women acting their most sexual. This contrasts with normal, everyday life, where society's norms prevent such outward and assertive displays of sexuality, especially by women.
    Men may start going to SC's initially for these reasons but in the end they will return because they're either married or lonely. It's not insulting when dancers say this it's simply the truth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stawj View Post
    Was this post meant to be sarcastic? Because I found that this actually happened with my fav.

    Disclaimer: I was happy just being a customer and not expecting any "magic" to work but the "magic" did happen much to my surprise ...
    Sarcastic? Maybe a little but there is generally some truth in sarcasm. If you hit it off with a dancer that's great. No one is saying it never happens...well, at least I'm not. The OP was talking about setting out to visit clubs with the sole intention of finding dating material and not spending any money on dancers at their place of employment. What happened to you is luck.

    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post
    But OP, if you're even still here and weren't trolling to begin with (that's a BIG "if"), you're not going to get a stripper to date you by acting like some jackass PUA at her work place. You're just not.
    LOL, the loser was banned...what a shame!
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    Quote Originally Posted by bucket2 View Post
    Men may start going to SC's initially for these reasons but in the end they will return because they're either married or lonely.
    Or both...
    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Did... did Doc Holiday run screaming from SW once unbeleav and yoda were appointed mods? Havent seen him since. Maybe his new years resolution was to embrace honesty so it is ok. Unless he is like BeetleJuice and Im 1/3 of the way there of summoning him from the depths.





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    I told him to Google coconut oil and that was the last we've heard from him...
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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    Did... did Doc Holiday run screaming from SW once unbeleav and yoda were appointed mods? Havent seen him since. Maybe his new years resolution was to embrace honesty so it is ok. Unless he is like BeetleJuice and Im 1/3 of the way there of summoning him from the depths.
    LOL..I'm sure he is around.

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