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    Love going to Gentlemans Clubs, i started going and became a regular because of the kind of business im in. I deal with a lot of Foreigners from Asia. Its funny because they never wanted to do business in my office, it was always at a restaurant, bar or gentlemans club. Go figure!

    Anyways on to the question, so I usually go once a week or every other week with colleagues or clients. I never get dances i spend about 1k-2k average when i go. Just on the stage dances. Anywho I have been deemed a "cool regular" a lot of the girls will come spend time talking to me (knowing i do not do dances, i make this clear) one in particular has been spending an odd amount of time with me every time i go in. She knows I dont do dances and I pretty much tip all the girls the same amount. Regardless of whether or not they fit my tastes. I appreciate them working hard and i would be mortified to have to go up there naked and dance for a bunch of self loathing idiots who have insecurity issues and major inferiority complexes. Anyways I digress.

    This woman, will not stop bugging me about my phone number. Every time i go in she spots me and immediately sits down with me even if im at the front row (which other dancers have told me is very rude, because it is taking attention off of them) the conversation is usually very candid and quite intriguing, we have plenty in common, i enjoy her company, i know her name and we run around in the same social circles.
    This club does a lot of extra's I know because most of my clients and colleagues partake in those activities. The girls know I dont do those things i just simply like being a gracious host and respectful customer. I genuinely like this girl and I dont want to be rude, but this is the 3rd time she has asked me. Normally I act like I did not hear her, or quickly change the subject but I'm getting tired of avoiding it. How do I let her know that I am simply there for the Fantasy and do now want to build any other kind of relationship, be that client/dancer, friends, sexual etc...
    I have been avoiding this club for a while now, and went back yesterday with some clients. They love this place because of the extra's. I dont want to soil the spot.

    Any ideas how i do this without burning bridges?

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    Default Re: Dancer Keeps Asking me for my number

    No sense in avoiding such a trivial thing, just tell her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ILikeHamSammichs View Post

    How do I let her know that I am simply there for the Fantasy and do now want to build any other kind of relationship, be that client/dancer, friends, sexual etc...
    This should work....

    Just say to her "I am simply there for the Fantasy and do now want to build any other kind of relationship, be that client/dancer, friends, sexual etc... "
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    Default Re: Dancer Keeps Asking me for my number

    I'm afraid that you guys are probably right. I just love feeding off of good energy and I'm afraid this is going to bring a dark cloud into my fun.

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    How would it create a dark cloud? What's the worst that can happen? She'll go away and stop talking to you? Another one will replace her soon enough, there is more than one interesting likeable stripper out there.

    If you are afraid of some sort of dire dramatic consequence....Do you have a Google voice phone #? Its free. Give it to her and just never answer. Or, I have an app on my iphone that gives me a fake #, a certain amount of texts, and something like 90 minutes of talk time which increases if you pay $1 for the app or download related apps.

    This is if you think it will help. But chances are, she sees you spending in the club, so she knows you have money. She is trying to separate you from that money OTC. If you straight up tell her no, she will give up.

    Believe me, if you are coming to the club frequently and spending > $1K each time, the dancers aren't going to disappear. There isn't as much comaraderie between strippers as you might think.

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    If you just explain that you enjoy seeing her at the club, but would rather not give out your number, it shouldn't be that big of a deal. As a dancer, she should be used to rejection in some form or another. IDK if this is some kind of hustle on her part (likely so), but if you just gently and honestly tell her the truth it shouldn't cause that much of a "dark cloud".
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    ^ Get a Google voice mail just for handing it out to exotic dancers. This will not break the momentum of good energy you have going with dancer(s).

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    Thanks Guys, I really like the google voicemail idea...

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    She's trying to hustle you. She thinks that by building a psudo-relationship with you via text, she can end up getting you to spend in the club. Especially if she thinks you have money. I mean, there's no way a stripper does something for nothing... especially when she's AT WORK, so she has a motive.

    Not to be rude, but I don't buy the "oh she thinks I'm a cool regular!" NO STRIPPER actually thinks that. She's there to make money & that's it. She may think you're nice, but she only thinks that when money is being spent. She is trying out a different hustle. If you don't like it, be stern and say "I will never buy dances and I will never give out my number."

    It sounds like you're trying to hide something or lead her on by you saying she continually asks. Like, you haven't been clear enough to her or something. It sounds like you enjoy the attention. Tell her no to the phone number, be honest, and its fine. Yes, girls may end up avoiding you, but you get what you pay for. But since you say you spend on stage, so you should be fine. Just say like "oh I ONLY spend on stage, thats it." Strippers appreciate honestly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Believe me, if you are coming to the club frequently and spending > $1K each time, the dancers aren't going to disappear. There isn't as much comaraderie between strippers as you might think.
    Exactly...

    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    ^ Get a Google voice mail just for handing it out to exotic dancers. This will not break the momentum of good energy you have going with dancer(s).
    Momentum? What happens when you actually have to talk to this girl after she blows up your VM with "when are you coming to see me" messages.

    Quote Originally Posted by ILikeHamSammichs View Post
    Thanks Guys, I really like the google voicemail idea...
    How about if you just grow a pair and tell her, very politely, that you are not interested...

    If you are showing up on a regular basis and spreading cash around you have nothing to worry about in regards to your standing with the other dancers. You do need to get over that "cool regular" notion. You're just a guy with a fat wallet. Nothing more.
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    Why do guys have such a hard time just growing a pair and telling the bitch no??!!!
    this thread is stupid.
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    Yoda,

    You are fucking infant. Yesterday, you agreed with me and thanked me on Google voice mail idea. Today, you are giving yourself a wedgie over it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    Yoda,

    You are fucking infant. Yesterday, you agreed with me and thanked me on Google voice mail idea. Today, you are giving yourself a wedgie over it.
    That was a mistake Jackal. I clicked the wrong button and then got distracted by something IRL that actually matters to me. Sorry if I got you all worked up thinking that I might have actually agreed with you...
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    ^ I do not believe that, because you respond within five minutes of any new post that you want to respond to. I doubt you have anything more important than SW, which is not really that bad; this is quite a fun place.

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    Fortunately I don't live or die by what you believe or don't believe.

    If you truly think that people don't have more important things to worry about in life than a message board on the internet then I guess you are not only arrogant but pathetic as well...
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    ^ Of course people have more important things to do. But we were not talking about the people. We were talking about you. You do not have anything more important than harassing the new comer.

    Anyhow, here is the information that may help you:
    Butler Hospital (Psychiatric Ward)
    345 Blackstone Boulevard Providence, RI 02906-4829
    (401) 455-6200

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    ^ Of course people have more important things to do. But we were not talking about the people. We were talking about you. You do not have anything more important than harassing the new comer.

    Anyhow, here is the information that may help you:
    Butler Hospital (Psychiatric Ward)
    345 Blackstone Boulevard Providence, RI 02906-4829
    (401) 455-6200

    Enough already.
    Give it up.
    Yoda is a long time and very well respected poster here. If you don't like what he posts then DON'T READ IT. You are not making any friends here by posturing and trying to be clever. Don't even try to have a battle of wits with yoda. You're failing miserably and making yourself look very bad.
    Please do the rest of us (and yourself) a favor and go find something else to talk about.

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    ^ Was that a recommendation letter for Yoda?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    ^ Of course people have more important things to do. But we were not talking about the people. We were talking about you. You do not have anything more important than harassing the new comer.

    Anyhow, here is the information that may help you:
    Butler Hospital (Psychiatric Ward)
    345 Blackstone Boulevard Providence, RI 02906-4829
    (401) 455-6200
    Actually I live about five minutes from McLean Hospital in the Boston area. It's a much better known and much nicer place.

    As usual your presumptive logic has come back to bite your in the ass...
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    Jackal has been outed in another thread as Cyril so no use arguing with him.

    OP I suspect the dancer is trying for OTC activity. Let her known you don't do that and tell her it will not change.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Actually I live about five minutes from McLean Hospital in the Boston area. It's a much better known and much nicer place.

    As usual your presumptive logic has come back to bite your in the ass...
    In that case, why are you not taking advantage of this nice facility? Just curious.

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    What exactly would you think I need help with? Refusing to let an arrogant punk like you go around insulting people all the time is not a mental disorder...
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    ^ I think you are being harsh on yourself by trying to do things that are too complex. You should try baby steps first. Your first task should be to try to parse a post accurately. Let us see if you could do that without calling names. Don't disappoint me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Jackal View Post
    ^ I think you are being harsh on yourself by trying to do things that are too complex. You should try baby steps first. Your first task should be to try to parse a post accurately. Let us see if you could do that without calling names. Don't disappoint me.
    You're a pompous moron...oops! Sorry to disappoint you....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Jackal has been outed in another thread as Cyril so no use arguing with him.
    Have you also noticed how Cyril's writing has become so much simpler?

    He's writing simple sentences like this one. There are no nested clauses, participial phrases or idiom. There are no complex grammatical structures of any kind. The sentences consist of a subject, a verb, a direct object, and an indirect object.

    The reason is this. He is using the Microsoft spell-check and grammar-check tools. He is using these tools to make sure he does not omit articles or do other Cyril-like things.

    What he does not know is this. The Microsoft algorithm has footprints, too. It makes you sound like a robotic twit. Like this. So he sounds like a robotic Cyril twit now.

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