Love going to Gentlemans Clubs, i started going and became a regular because of the kind of business im in. I deal with a lot of Foreigners from Asia. Its funny because they never wanted to do business in my office, it was always at a restaurant, bar or gentlemans club. Go figure!
Anyways on to the question, so I usually go once a week or every other week with colleagues or clients. I never get dances i spend about 1k-2k average when i go. Just on the stage dances. Anywho I have been deemed a "cool regular" a lot of the girls will come spend time talking to me (knowing i do not do dances, i make this clear) one in particular has been spending an odd amount of time with me every time i go in. She knows I dont do dances and I pretty much tip all the girls the same amount. Regardless of whether or not they fit my tastes. I appreciate them working hard and i would be mortified to have to go up there naked and dance for a bunch of self loathing idiots who have insecurity issues and major inferiority complexes. Anyways I digress.
This woman, will not stop bugging me about my phone number. Every time i go in she spots me and immediately sits down with me even if im at the front row (which other dancers have told me is very rude, because it is taking attention off of them) the conversation is usually very candid and quite intriguing, we have plenty in common, i enjoy her company, i know her name and we run around in the same social circles.
This club does a lot of extra's I know because most of my clients and colleagues partake in those activities. The girls know I dont do those things i just simply like being a gracious host and respectful customer. I genuinely like this girl and I dont want to be rude, but this is the 3rd time she has asked me. Normally I act like I did not hear her, or quickly change the subject but I'm getting tired of avoiding it. How do I let her know that I am simply there for the Fantasy and do now want to build any other kind of relationship, be that client/dancer, friends, sexual etc...
I have been avoiding this club for a while now, and went back yesterday with some clients. They love this place because of the extra's. I dont want to soil the spot.
Any ideas how i do this without burning bridges?
Thanks


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