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    Default how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    since coming back from asia 2 months ago, i have only stayed in 3 times. well 4 times if you count one night wiht my friend where we stayed in sober watching movies together after we spent 3 days partying way to hard.

    on nights when i dont feel like getting dolled up, i go to the local bar a block from my house wehre i know everyone. i kind of consider it my extended living room, but sometimes it leads to wild nights. id say usually during a week there are 2 nights where i will go to that bar only, 2 nights when i work, and 3 nights when i go on whatever adventure around new orleans. so yea, its very rare that i just stay home by myself.

    was wondering how many nights you guys spend alone stayig to yourself or working or going out partying?
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    Ugh. If I'm not working, I'm relaxing and catching up on errands. I need a serious vacation, baaaaad! I'm always too exhausted to do anything fun.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    me too ^^^^^^

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    I live with mommy now so home is comfy and I only hit the bars maybe once a week.
    The apartment im moving into next week is unfurnished and horribly small with no t.v.
    Chances are I'll be gone more often rather than staying in my $1500 a month jail cell :-/
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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    i never go out anymore.
    i dance or spend one on one time with friends...to me fun now is writing, decorating my warehouse, hitting yoga class, scheming, reading.

    dancing has totally warped my view on going out, it's just not exciting anymore.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    Quote Originally Posted by glitzy View Post

    dancing has totally warped my view on going out, it's just not exciting anymore.
    Word. The last time I was in a large, crowded bar waiting on some friends to arrive, my only thoughts were "crowded, loud, annoying drunk people... if I wanted to experience this, I would've gone to work and made money instead of coming here to spend it." I enjoy time with my friends and I usually enjoy the one small, quiet bar on the opposite side of town from all the big college bars. But I really don't enjoy going out. I've never been that social to begin with. Plus, lately I've been trying to cut down on my drinking, and when you do that, you start to realize that the only reason bars or parties are fun is because you're drunk.... when you're sober, not only are they boring, but you have everyone else telling you how bored you look and pestering you about how you "need to drink" to start having fun like them.

    Just... yeah... not a fan of going out. My friends must think I hate them cuz I always turn them down, but really, if they ever invited me to do anything besides go drink, I'd be down...
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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    i wish sydney had a nightlife like that.
    ive been going out way more now that im single. feel like ive been missing out.
    its silly season though might go out once or twice a week [for me thats plenty] work 3 and stay in the rest
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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    I try to go out as much as I can.. right now I only go maybe once or twice a year out for fun.. but mostly for work.. I think in the new year I need to make more fun time for me..

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    I feel bad for my friends bc they ask me to go out all the time, but I just don't have the energy. I'm going to make an effort too, after the new year. Plus, I need to put myself out there. I just don't have the patience for young drunken crowds. Ugh. Went to AC a few days ago for a friend's bday, and it was all annoying as fuck, younger early 20 somethings acting worse than customers. Uuuuggghhhh. No thanks.

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    I barely ever go out anymore, it's a shame. I don't like dressing up and wearing heels, so when I do venture out with friends we like to go to dive bars where it's ok to wear jeans and flip flops. I hate wearing a lot of makeup when I'm not at work, so a typical day look for me would be mineral powder, mascara, and wearing leggings with a tank top. Soooo boring.

    When I am not working I am usually: watching netflix, working out, or running errands. Alone. I needs more friends so I can have a life!

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    I stay in a lot. There's a lot to do in the day/evening here that I could do before work, but still I usually opt to stay in.
    I work 5 nights so I usually have 1 night out to maintain my social circle, and stay in to chill for one night.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    I saty in most of the time now. I was getting sick of nights out to clubs anyway, too many annoying drunk people. I'll need to find a club populated by nicer people to enjoy it more (members clubs perhaps?) probably in a snazzier city.

    Even though the club is like a party i still sometimes crave a night out where i can drink more, but i alllways regret it the next day, i'm so done with hangovers! Moderate drinking from now on

    I still love to meet up with people for a few drinks/coffee though. I enjoy catching up and just having a good chat much more now.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    well, it's 30 degrees outside, so i have to trick myself into going to the grocery store let alone to work and other places. i shall trick myself into going to the library sometime this week to pick up reserves.

    but honestly, i have so much shit to do that my free time is so incredibly valuable that i can only go out if it's brief and i'm going to be in vip or away from all the commotion. and i need to be drinking for free. if it meets those conditions, i will see you there. otherwise, i have to vacuum.

    regarding seeing friends, since this month is so slow, i just tell them to meet me at work and we dick around there. two birds, one stone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Ugh. If I'm not working, I'm relaxing and catching up on errands. I need a serious vacation, baaaaad! I'm always too exhausted to do anything fun.
    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post
    I live with mommy now so home is comfy and I only hit the bars maybe once a week.
    The apartment im moving into next week is unfurnished and horribly small with no t.v.
    Chances are I'll be gone more often rather than staying in my $1500 a month jail cell :-/
    Quote Originally Posted by *Jade*Love View Post
    I barely ever go out anymore, it's a shame. I don't like dressing up and wearing heels, so when I do venture out with friends we like to go to dive bars where it's ok to wear jeans and flip flops. I hate wearing a lot of makeup when I'm not at work, so a typical day look for me would be mineral powder, mascara, and wearing leggings with a tank top. Soooo boring.

    When I am not working I am usually: watching netflix, working out, or running errands. Alone. I needs more friends so I can have a life!
    Quote Originally Posted by smeca View Post
    I saty in most of the time now. I was getting sick of nights out to clubs anyway, too many annoying drunk people. I'll need to find a club populated by nicer people to enjoy it more (members clubs perhaps?) probably in a snazzier city.

    Even though the club is like a party i still sometimes crave a night out where i can drink more, but i alllways regret it the next day, i'm so done with hangovers! Moderate drinking from now on

    I still love to meet up with people for a few drinks/coffee though. I enjoy catching up and just having a good chat much more now.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    well, it's 30 degrees outside, so i have to trick myself into going to the grocery store let alone to work and other places. i shall trick myself into going to the library sometime this week to pick up reserves.

    but honestly, i have so much shit to do that my free time is so incredibly valuable that i can only go out if it's brief and i'm going to be in vip or away from all the commotion. and i need to be drinking for free. if it meets those conditions, i will see you there. otherwise, i have to vacuum.

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    Wow, I can so relate to all! I keep saying/trying to get out (other than for grocery/errands/etc.) But, it's always something..trying to make up for lost work time this month..I'm not a drinker, I do like bands/dj sometimes.
    Anyway I've been inside a lot..gotta get out


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    I'm a hermit. When I don't work I shuffle around, do laundry, cook, try to clean, and SLEEP!

    When my friends ask me to go out I groan and moan a lot and then begrudgingly oblige.

    I'm a zombie on my days off.
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    I changed my sleep schedule and I go to bed at 8pm now and get up at 4am and work until 10 am. (I cam). I give myself two nights off a week where I go out with friends. Other than that, I pretty much stay at home and maybe meet a friend or two for lunch like an old person.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    I'm a homebody too, I only ever go out if my boyfriend wants to and even then, we just go to dinner and then maybe a quiet bar for a few drinks, if we're feeling crazy. I'd like to go out more, I miss clubbing, but honestly I have no-one to go with. I moved to a new state about a year ago and immediately started a new day job and dancing at a new club, and it never left me time to make friends


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    I do not go out clubbing or drinking in bars but I do go out with my wife for dinner, movies and dancing. I also enjoy mountain activities but my wife is not into it so from time to time I go on mountains alone or with another fellow nature enthusiast. I am planning on hitting the mountains this weekend; I have to tell you, it is very addicting.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    I don't go out hardly at all anymore. My daughter keeps me pretty house-bound in the evenings. Plus, I love just being at home with my husband, playing video games or watching movies or reading. Since I'm attached, there's not much point unless I want to go dancing with him.

    If I had friends who want to go out, I would. But most of my friends aren't friends anymore or have moved away.

    So, maybe a couple times a month. But like most of the girls who've answered, I like to get PAID if I'm gonna be around a bunch of drunk men.
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    i rarely go out anymore, the whole bar/club/nightlife scene lost its appeal to me years ago. i've had a lot of jobs working at all 3, going as a patron isnt as fun when you've gotten accustomed to getting paid to be there

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    I....don't go out to drink. Like. Ever. In fact, I rarely ever drink at all - and when I do, I'm almost always at home, posting obnoxiously on SW about it. I'm a HUGE homebody.

    Your life sounds super exciting though Athena!



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    The only places I like to go out to at night are nice restaurants, with a nice atmosphere. Posh hotel bars. Most of my friends like the opposite, and that's where all the guidos hang out. Mmm, NO Thx. Lol.

    I do want to do more outdoor activities. I may look into skiing after the new year.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Your life sounds super exciting though Athena!
    It sounds exhausting. I've partied with her before. After that I think I slept like two days straight!
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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    Party - 1
    Work - 3-4
    Stay home - 2-3
    Go out but do something quiet - 1-2

    I think I have a pretty good balance.

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    Default Re: how often do you stay in vs. going out vs. working?

    jessie, your life does seem pretty balanced.

    my lifestyle would def be exhausting to most ppl... for some reason i am like the energiser bunny and can party for days, with or without the help of stimulants. maybe in a few years ill start slowing down.

    to a lot of you-- it sounds like yall need a hermit intervention. i wish dancing didnt take so much out of us. but yea i can totally realte to the sentiment of not wanting to deal with men hitting on me unless i get paid. i generally get left alone at the dive bars i frequent, and if a douchebag starts bothering me there are usually enough of my scary looking friends within a close proximity to scare them off. the upside to dirty dive bars is they usually repel the popped collar pussy trolls.
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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