There's a new one in lately: The guys who say they want a dance, but only after they "win us some money at the video poker machines". Double asshole points if they try to get you to sit with them while they do it to be their good luck charm.


There's a new one in lately: The guys who say they want a dance, but only after they "win us some money at the video poker machines". Double asshole points if they try to get you to sit with them while they do it to be their good luck charm.
"What, it's an extra 10% to pay with my card? 10%?!" I know they're going to be a pain in the arse as soon as I hear that.
if i can guess their nationality. me having only three chances. i played this game and i always lost. waste of time. either they want you or not. live and learn
"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning how to dance in the rain."
"Everyone wants happiness. Nobody wants pain. But you can't have a rainbow without a little rain.
















I have done that before but guys get annoyed and angry because they don't think that we are being honest and end up feeling ripped off. I have found that when I do that, it's confusing for me but also makes it hard for the guys to keep wanting to spend. There are some clubs that are completely one or two dance clubs and I could see it working in those clubs but at mine I like to try for long strings of dances.
I actually had a guy get to the back with me on Tuesday and we walked into the booth RIGHT as the song was starting. I will always start if the song is like, 10 seconds in or less without asking, suggest that we start then if it's after about 10-15 "let's start now since the song JUST started", and will ask if they want to wait for the next if it's after that. It sucks waiting the song out sometimes but honestly, I feel that it's better. This guy saw my tattoo and was like "oh, let me show you mine!" He then showed me his for a few more seconds and then got pissed when I put down my towel and started dancing. "you're counting this one?!" "yeah, we got back here before this one started... you started taking off your shirt and the song isn't even halfway through yet anyway!"
loser.
after that dance he called me over to "help him pick the next girl" and didn't understand why I told him to fuck off. He stuck around all night and went with most of the girls.... for one song.





^Oh, I've seen lots of these!



"What does your man think about what you do?""Your man let's you do this for a living?""If were your man I would get you out of here and take care of you."
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I love when they use either of those. I knew this retired army guy who insisted that he'll take care of me, and to see how honest he was about it, I asked him:
"So, since you'll say you will take care of me, would you pay for: my car, the insurance for the car, my credit card, pieces for my computers, my internet, my computer tools, a new server, more video games, my netflix account, my groceries, etc." He look at me with a blank stare. It was obvious that he wasn't serious. I had one who had the audacity to say that he all he meant was paying for my manicures (which I rarely do, I just cut my nails very short), and for expensive brand clothes (which I do not use). That guy was a true time waster; I try to avoid when possible.
How to answer the first question?
"Oh, my man is a disabled vet and the only income he has is the VA pension and SSI and that's why I'm dancing. You want me to tell you how he became a disabled vet? Well, it all started..." I love using this line (it is mostly true, actually, despite that sounds very unbelievable because most people would assume a disabled vet is one of those Vietnam vets who are crazy, and not a 25 y/o good looking ex navy guy), it really piss them off and they either; accept the dance offer or they just leave and never come back (is very 50-50).



Great post guys. Here are mines:
1. When you greet them, they barely speak and don't look excited. Chances are they are not interested in you. Even the shy/depressed guys who came for a good time will show you a positive sign of interest when you approach them.
2. People who sit at the bar/table all night and don't tip any girls. They're just there for a free show and/or to get drunk.
3. Guys who say "I just got here", "maybe later", or something along those lines when you ask them about lapdances, privates, or VIPs. Very rarely do these guys actually buy dances (at least from the girl he told that to).
4. Guys who say "I didn't bring much money" or "I just came for a beer".
Those are some of the main ones I've observed as my time as a dancer. Some girls sit with a customer for about a half hour, I for about 10 mins before asking about dances. I don't have time to waste, and would be pissed if I sat there for that long and not get a tip or dance. Fortunately, I've been doing this long enough to read people.



I love these. Some people think we are stuck up when we don't talk to these losers, but we are here to MAKE MONEY. It is offensive when guys don't spend $. I take my job seriously.



What is up with the "I just got here"?????3. Guys who say "I just got here", "maybe later", or something along those lines when you ask them about lapdances, privates, or VIPs. Very rarely do these guys actually buy dances (at least from the girl he told that to).
i always want to laugh in there face, like, um, oooookay. i didn't ask when you got here.
I pretty new to dancing. Do you girls consider a guy who buys only one dance to be a time waster?
It really depends on the club and kind of night it is, and the kind of dancer you are. And how much your dances pay... So no, not necessarily. I've had nights where I've had a queue of guys and I'm just flitting from one to the next (although it's unusual if I can't get extra dances out of at least a few).Originally Posted by Holly_V
It all adds up.


No... of course I like to sell more than one, and oftentimes I do, but I do a lot of dances and some nights I dance all night and some of them are just one. Some of our customers make $500-$700 a week! They don't really have an entertainment budget. I don't mind doing one dance as long as...either I ask or he asks, I dance for him, he pays me, thanks so much, catch you next time. I can't sit and talk with someone to sell each single dance.




If guys are disrespectful (touching me inappropriately, etc) I will not waste my time. If a guy asks me if I do extras I immediately go find someone else to make money of off. If a guy doesn't seem to be very interested in me or isn't paying attention I'll soon be leaving him. If he already hints that he's just there to "relax, have a beer, and watch the game" then I may sit with them for a couple minutes to see if they get interested me; it's happened plenty of times that I can talk a guy into a dance when he wasn't planning on getting any dances. But typically, if he doesn't show interested after a couple minutes, I'm gone.
I don't mind at all when guys ask me if I go to school or where I live. I'm a pre-law student and I live in my own apartment in Detroit so those are conversation starters. A lot of guys who ask me questions like that end up spending money.
Guy who ask what my ethnicity is aren't necessarily a waste of time. A lot of them spend money.





SUPER old...but good info.
"If you are lonely whenever you are alone,you are in bad company."
There's this one guy who comes in, pulls out a seat for me to sit in, talks my ear off, and then doesn't tip or buy a dance. He used to buy dances, but the last 2 times he's pulled this crap. Next time I see him, rather than join him, I'm just going to tell him that I only have time to do a quick dance, as I have a regular coming in to see me in a little bit. He'd better take the hint that he is not to take advantage of me.
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