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    Angry Bitch bartender rant

    So there's a bartender at my work that told my ex (and who knows who else) that I'm a straight up prostitute. Which I am not and it's pissing me off so bad. I want to just walk up to her and punch her in the face or tell her off. My question is what do u think the best course of action is with this ? Should I let it not faze me and take the high road or beat this girl down... Fucking dramatic bitch and I've heard shit about her being a pay for play but I never said shit.

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    They are acquaintances they ran into each other around town apparently.

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    Who cares what she's telling your ex. He's your EX. His opinion = no longer matters. If you and the ex are still friendly just tell him that you heard she said shit and that it's not true. If you're not even friends with the dude anymore, who cares what he thinks? And if he really knew you that well, he'd know the bitch is lying. If he can't pick up on that, well, good thing he's an ex.

    If she's telling customers and it's affecting you being able to work, tell the manager. Otherwise, who cares who she runs her mouth to? It's like that old saying "the people who care don't matter, and the people who matter don't care." Anyone who's a true friend will know she's full of shit, anyone who doesn't realize it probably isn't an important factor in your life anyway.
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    ^^^^ is completely right, in the grand scheme of things this woman is insignificant. Although... I also understand you wanting to put her head through a wall, I am a hot blooded woman myself and often come to situations where I really do wonder if turning the other cheek and not caring is the best. There is a dancer at my work that sounds exactly the same as this bartender, she told lots of girls that my friend who is now retired was a high class prostitute, lol which was just ridiculous. The reason why this rumour was spread? pure and simple jealousy!! So I would gather that the bartender is the same and that is why what aurora says is right, just let it go because this girl is obviously inferior to you. When you see her next give her a wink and a smile that will really confuse her
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    Irritating. Ignore her. You're a Stripper at a strip club - you're what the men come for, and higher on the totem pole than she is.

    When she's talking about you while you're not around, she's making you the center of her world.

    You just keep doing you, and ignore the bitch-bartender.



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    ^^^Speaking of higher on the totem pole, has anyone else experienced bartenders who think they're managers? Example: I sat down to cool off after a stage set and ordered a bottle of water. Bartender told me to hurry up and get the hell back out on the floor.....excuse me?? And no, she has zero seniority in that building; she's just another ex dancer who retired and started slinging drinks.

    Anyway, like everyone else said. Fuck her. And next time she expects a tip, tell her, "Here's a tip: watch who you run your cock sucker about"
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    In the cities where I work bartenders always act like they're better then the dancers because it's "not as slutty" or they don't "lower them selves" to dancing. Is this anywhere else or just where I live. It's such bullshit.

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    ^^Pretty much everywhere I've ever worked. I've met a few bartenders who are sweet as pie and don't act all snobby, but very few. For the most part, it's the same attitude...every time a dancer orders a drink, they act like they're just a nuisance or even the damn bane of their existence and still expect the dancers to rain tips on them. On a few occasions, when I've been cool with the bartenders, they've sat around and tried to talk shit with me about the other girls and give the overall impression that they look down on dancers. It's annoying.

    Some of the shooter girls do it too.....in general, I try my best to help them out by putting on puppy dog eyes to get my custies to buy me a "shot," whether I want one or not, drink it and do some cute lesbian stuff with them to get em some extra tips. It's all good. But there have been a few that just really rubbed me the wrong way....always glaring at dancers and carrying themselves like they're the ones men come to see. Bitches.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes View Post
    In the cities where I work bartenders always act like they're better then the dancers because it's "not as slutty" or they don't "lower them selves" to dancing. Is this anywhere else or just where I live. It's such bullshit.
    When I first started dancing, I felt this way. As I got more experienced, I didn't notice this as much. It turned from them hating to them wishing they could do my job. But somehow I never thought about it again till I read this.

    What those girls don't realize is that there are many waitresses in regular bars and clubs who feel that way about them. They feel strip club waitresses or bartenders are low because they're around naked women and horny men or whatever.

    I did have a baaaad run-in with a female bartender once just a couple months ago. I was fairly new to the club and she was nice at first, even sending me to custies. But one night she was suuuuper drunk and a customer I was talking to, asked her something silly about what we were talking about.

    Suddenly this woman just flipped. She was all, "I'm not gonna pretend that in fucking Uganda you don't have sun you stupid fucking bitch, you stupid fucking bitch!!" and she just kept repeating it till I took custie away. She called it a night and left.

    This lady is an old bird (been with the club 10+) so I knew I couldn't complain to management and get anything seriously done.

    What I did instead was simple. I don't let my customers or myself generate money for her. I make custies order a lot of fake drinks (approx more than 20/ hour). This means that waitresses/bartenders make LOTS of tips from me. I even get drinks from men who I don't end up dancing for. I throw away drinks as soon as I can. I tip them over in dances so that I can get a new one each dance. I throw them away when the custie isn't looking. When I walk away from a sale I didn't close. Into the ice box (we can get our own water/sodas). Into their drinks. I give them away to other girls. I'm a big cash cow for the wait staff.

    I can be sitting with a custie at the bar and turn her down, and make him turn her down as well. The NEXT bartender I order us drinks. When she comes around, I reject her and make custie reject her too. The next bartender will get tipped well too from custie's wallet. I like dayshifts generally better than nights (which she doesn't work anyway) so this really got to her in a uncomfortable, vulnerable way. Now when she sees me she more or less runs away to the other side of the bar to try and hustle before I get to that side.

    Don't let these bitches get to you. We are the reason custies come here. If you have to remind a chick of that, remember that there are MANY MANY ways of killing a cat. You don't have to lose sleep, catch high blood pressure, have drama with management, fight, etc... just sit and think for a bit. When it first happened I was angry but after venting to my GF, I sat down and thought. It's worked like a charm, it's legal, and now she wishes she would have kept that drunk mouth shut.
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    Quote Originally Posted by magicin1969 View Post
    When I first started dancing, I felt this way. As I got more experienced, I didn't notice this as much. It turned from them hating to them wishing they could do my job. But somehow I never thought about it again till I read this.

    What those girls don't realize is that there are many waitresses in regular bars and clubs who feel that way about them. They feel strip club waitresses or bartenders are low because they're around naked women and horny men or whatever.

    I did have a baaaad run-in with a female bartender once just a couple months ago. I was fairly new to the club and she was nice at first, even sending me to custies. But one night she was suuuuper drunk and a customer I was talking to, asked her something silly about what we were talking about.

    Suddenly this woman just flipped. She was all, "I'm not gonna pretend that in fucking Uganda you don't have sun you stupid fucking bitch, you stupid fucking bitch!!" and she just kept repeating it till I took custie away. She called it a night and left.

    This lady is an old bird (been with the club 10+) so I knew I couldn't complain to management and get anything seriously done.

    What I did instead was simple. I don't let my customers or myself generate money for her. I make custies order a lot of fake drinks (approx more than 20/ hour). This means that waitresses/bartenders make LOTS of tips from me. I even get drinks from men who I don't end up dancing for. I throw away drinks as soon as I can. I tip them over in dances so that I can get a new one each dance. I throw them away when the custie isn't looking. When I walk away from a sale I didn't close. Into the ice box (we can get our own water/sodas). Into their drinks. I give them away to other girls. I'm a big cash cow for the wait staff.

    I can be sitting with a custie at the bar and turn her down, and make him turn her down as well. The NEXT bartender I order us drinks. When she comes around, I reject her and make custie reject her too. The next bartender will get tipped well too from custie's wallet. I like dayshifts generally better than nights (which she doesn't work anyway) so this really got to her in a uncomfortable, vulnerable way. Now when she sees me she more or less runs away to the other side of the bar to try and hustle before I get to that side.

    Don't let these bitches get to you. We are the reason custies come here. If you have to remind a chick of that, remember that there are MANY MANY ways of killing a cat. You don't have to lose sleep, catch high blood pressure, have drama with management, fight, etc... just sit and think for a bit. When it first happened I was angry but after venting to my GF, I sat down and thought. It's worked like a charm, it's legal, and now she wishes she would have kept that drunk mouth shut.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    ^^^Speaking of higher on the totem pole, has anyone else experienced bartenders who think they're managers? Example: I sat down to cool off after a stage set and ordered a bottle of water. Bartender told me to hurry up and get the hell back out on the floor.....excuse me?? And no, she has zero seniority in that building; she's just another ex dancer who retired and started slinging drinks.
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