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    I see girls on cam all the time who will cam with another girl or group of girls. It seems like that pulls in more tips and shows and it looks like a lot of fun. I'd be much more inclined to get on and not be so lazy if I were going to be silly with a friend.

    My thing is how do these girls find all these other girls to play along with them? I don't have a ton of friends and the ones I do have I don't think would be game for something like that. And it seems really silly to post an ad on Craigslist or something (not to mention dangerous plus risk of stds). So what?

    Theres this one group of girls on mfc, you might be familiar & if they are on this site I hope they post! But there are four of them and they will cam with each other in pairs or all together and it seems like they are having an awesome time. How does it happen that you just are so lucky to have four open and sexual friends to get it on together all the time?! Lol, insight please?!

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    OMG.
    I wish and hope that you are actually a camgirl.

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    I am. Why? I've just been trying to find the right place. Started on F4F under a studio, don't have a way to print out stuff for streamate and I signed up for LJ but after reading the stuff on here I'm not even going to log on there. I'm waiting for my MFC app to finish processing and then I'll start there but I want a cam friend!

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    LMAO Probably not a real camgirl.. probably some perv guy who just wants to prey on us thinking we will give them our private info.

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    Are you kidding me LittleBee? I come on here asking for advice and you acuse me of not being who I am. That's not very kind. Look me up Calla.Caspian of F4F. MelanieV on AW (havent finished that profile yet). I just want to know how girls find other people to perform with and gave an example. I don't feel like I should be accused of being a man (a perverted one at that) or have to prove that I cam.

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    Also, I'm not looking to get you guys info. I'm asking how to find people in my location who are interested in the same types of things. And when I said "And it seems really silly to post an ad on Craigslist or something (not to mention dangerous plus risk of stds). So what?" It's supposed to be like so, what now. Not so what.

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    a real camgirl wouldn't be offended by us keeping our guard up
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    Seeing that you're a newbie, I can see why other girls would think you're a troll or a perv. After all, it's very EASY for any guy to say they're a girl. It happens a lot while camming.



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    It's really hard to believe ur a camgirl...especially since u re-posted the question....it sounds beggar-ish....





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    How did I repost? I rephrased to make it a point/clarify that I DO NOT want anyones information. I'm just asking HOW these camgirls find other girls to cam with.

    I'm not offended by you guys keeping your guard up; that is entirely understandable. Again, I'm not asking for contact info or other personal info and if you didn't notice I didn't post mine either. I think if I were trying to get contacts to stalk people that I would say I lived in such and such state, or say pm if you live near by. I am asking how girls find others to cam together and go about my own means. But from the sounds of things that wouldn't work locally so I'm sol because I don't know anyone who would be open about camming let alone with another female.

    I'm not begging, I'm ASKING a question. This is part of the reason this site is here is it not? To help cam girls with advice, support, and to be more successful?

    Thanks guys for flaming me, over analyzing and not paying attention to the fact that I wasn't after anything but tips on this. No one helped with my first post today and then I get this. I can understand how it sounds and didn't realize it until you all started freaking out. I want to use this site for help on being better at what I do and now every time I post everyone is going to think I'm a troll or perv. I'm not sure that I should have bothered. I'm sorry for worrying everyone but it really was an innocent question; apparently a stupid one at that.

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    Default Re: How do girls find a "cam buddy"

    Quote Originally Posted by camgirl View Post
    I'm ASKING a question.
    The answer to your question is that it takes several months, if not years to develop a trusting enough relationship with any of the girls to approach any of them on teaming up. As you can see, it almost becomes a part of our job description to be somewhat skeptical because we are endlessly being subjected to men who have a regular routine they use in trying to find an easy in, a freebie or SOMETHING they are not entitled to. We are not viewed as human beings we are objects to abuse, take advantage of or otherwise take from. This goes on in our chat rooms, our e-mails our IM's and any other place you can imagine.

    I don't recommend using craigslist or any other list/site to try to locate a partner, and not for the potential for STD's but for safety and well being.

    Good luck to you!

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    Thank you so much cammingsince97. What are the chances even that you bond with other models and they live near you. It seems kind of silly to travel just to team up. It's understandable but sucks at the same time. I need more RL friends, lol.

    In the short time that I have worked I know that there are men trying to be clever enough to trick girls. And I'm really am sorry for worrying or pissing off all of you guys.

    Again thank you for answering me; I appreciate it. If you have time I'd love PM with some tips and exp. after camming for over 10 years I'm sure you are full of camming info!
    Last edited by camgirl; 12-30-2011 at 12:40 AM. Reason: typo

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    Quote Originally Posted by camgirl View Post
    What are the chances even that you bond with other models and they live near you.
    Zero to none.

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    Thank you Laken. I was mostly joking about CL, I don't even like to sell things off there bc I don't want people coming to my house. But that is very good advice and thorough.

    How do you guys get the verified camgirls thing in the signature?

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    Like you, I wanted a cam buddy. After thinking it through very thoroughly, those feelings passed lol. Just because a lot of girls do this doesn't mean they've gone about it in a smart way. If you're going to do this with a stranger, I don't think it's really wise to do so without a contract, STD testing, background check even. The problem with that is, realistically, a lot of girls (understandably so) would not be willing to go through that much screening because you are equally as strange to them as they are to you.

    Having a cam buddy means you are allowing them into your space or entering theirs and splitting funds. That is not to be taken lightly! ln short, I don't really recommend this to anyone unless you do it with a real life friend. Just my 2cents.
    Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.

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    Sometimes I want a cam buddy to then I realize that there are more hassles than benefits.
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    I don't think I will never not want one; I love girls, prefer men but it has been a while (with a girl). It would be fun and rake in the money but I agree; it is best with a friend. I thought through the whole screening sequence only to realize that I would also have to provide std test results and what not and I have $2 to my name.

    I guess the real question is how to connect with real life people when I have a family and am constantly trying to make ends meet. Which just isn't in my cards right now. I'm not very outgoing in person and not looking for friends. It's shallow to want a friend just to cam with IMO.

    I'll just cross my fingers and hope the day comes. Lol, it's like my mom said; the right person comes along when you are not looking.

    Thanks for the response. I like talking a lot more than a debate over who I am.

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    Default Re: How do girls find a "cam buddy"

    Those groups of girls on MFC are usually not "buddies"...they're either girls who work for a studio with a physical location or are all managed by the same promotional team who pretend they're best friends to make it more realistic.

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    Default Re: How do girls find a "cam buddy"

    Quote Originally Posted by camgirl View Post
    I see girls on cam all the time who will cam with another girl or group of girls. It seems like that pulls in more tips and shows and1.) it looks like a lot of fun. I'd be much more inclined to get on and not be so lazy if I were going to be silly with a friend.

    My thing is how do these girls find all these other girls to play along with them? I don't have a ton of friends and the ones I do have I don't think would be game for something like that. And it seems really silly to post an2.) ad on Craigslist or something (not to mention dangerous plus risk of stds). So what?

    Theres this one group of girls on mfc, you might be familiar & if they are on this site I hope they post! But there are four of them and they will cam with each other in pairs or all together and it seems like they are having an awesome time. How does it happen that you just are so lucky to have four open and 3.) sexual friends to get it on together all the time?! Lol, insight please?!
    You have 3 typos in your post..

    1.This is WORK!
    2. Craigslist is..... a very dangerous place. Any person in their right mind should know this by now. they are in the news and there was even a movie made called " the craigslist killer"
    3. They are not sexual friends, they are co-workers.

    So sorry to blow our fantasy bubble...

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    Happy New Year
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    You have 3 typos in your post..

    1.This is WORK!
    2. Craigslist is..... a very dangerous place. Any person in their right mind should know this by now. they are in the news and there was even a movie made called " the craigslist killer"
    3. They are not sexual friends, they are co-workers.

    So sorry to blow our fantasy bubble...
    Very cute.

    1. I find this fun. Yes it is work, I make money from it; but for the most part it is enjoyable to me. Call me a newbie but that is my mind set right now and you are wrong to correct me for my opinion.

    2. I've already said that I wasn't serious about Craigslist, twice. So that's irrelevant.
    And it seems really silly to post an ad on Craigslist or something (not to mention dangerous plus risk of stds).
    I was mostly joking about CL, I don't even like to sell things off there bc I don't want people coming to my house.
    3. I was asking about how to have aforementioned. Which has been answered.

    4. I think you meant "your" bubble, not "our" bubble. Just thought I should point that out since we are apparently checking each other for typos now.

    I'm not really sure why there is some sort of argument in just about every post on this forum. I don't know if it is to relieve tension from stress, that just about everyone here are women or if some of the girls on here are really just that catty. I think it is a little ridiculous that some girls on here are acting kind of nasty when someone makes a comment or asks a question and it's not just in my topic. It would be nice if this weren't the case. I'm not trying to start making enemies on my second topic but I don't really get why there is so much of that behavior.

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    Default Re: How do girls find a "cam buddy"

    @camgirl..
    Yes I mean.." your bubble"... I had a typo too LOL

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    Im not trying to be catty with you, whoever you are.
    If you think this is fun, thats awesome.
    I wonder how old are you? what are your plans for the future...
    Its ALL great fun until your " fun " videos are sold on the internet for free and they might... just might... ruin your chance at a real world job.
    but then again your new and u dont care or understand these things..
    u will learn in time...

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    I /am/ pretty young and I do worry about being posted online; my children, fiance and my families finding out, etc. As far as a real world job, I have always worked from home since I got layed off from a pretty good job. I intend on making money for myself forever. I write for clients but am too much a procrastinator to meet deadlines. I have always been an extremely sexual person and it seems to really fit what I want work-wise right now. I have only had a handful of show (10-15) throughout my "test" of working in the adult field. I do enjoy it I'm just trying to find something and someplace that works best.

    I'm terrified of others finding out; I don't know if that is something that goes away for others or becomes something that a cam girl just accepts. So as far as career plans. I simply intend on making as much money as possible in a legal manner and save up. Doesn't really matter what I'm doing as long as I can be at home, it pays well and won't put me in prison. Hence the reason for asking this - adds excitement and money to shows.

    I'm sorry if I was rude to you, Fridays; actually, I know I was and I didn't mean to be. I think I've been taking everything on here a little too personally; especially after how everything started. I do understand why it was such a controversy but it put me on edge a little.

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    Me and my sister work together on MFC .She actually introduced me to the camming life.We dont do anything sexual together.We just dance to songs togerther ,we have the same fan base so they will be in both of our rooms at the same time .What we do is we both have our computers side by side and we just make sure the guys can see us on both of our webcams.But anyways.It gets annoying because i have a lot of guys asking for us to kiss and engage in sexual activities togerther but i guess its because they dont know were sister.Even when i tell them were sister they will still ask . The only kind of pvts shows will do togerther is penis humiliation.(Thats when the guys want u to tell them over and over again how small their dick is.)I also work wih my best friend who i introduce to camming but she doesnt work a lot because shes in Nursing school.I also dont do anything sexual with her because i'm strictly dickly But overall I love working with my friend and my sister because i make my goal way faster .Plus i have a lot of fun doing it .If u want a camming buddy just ask your close friends if they would like camming and if they do just partner up with them on some days.Camming with a buddy has its good and bad side.But it has more good than bad.One of the bad side is if one of you is making more money than the other . as you know MFC is mostly tip base.Unless your doing pvt or group shows.
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    A lot of the girls on MFC that cam together have the same manager.

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