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    Ok here it goes!!!)

    I have asked a question in regards to my gf who is stripper, and some of you have read way to much into my past post☺ but anyway here is what I want to say to the guys and girls here in regards to dating or have gf as a stripper

    Dating a stripper is no different then dating any other kind of girl, it is all the same! she is a women!!! And should be treated like one. She will have her mod swings, PMS, ask you to take out the Garbage ask you ten times to change light bole, etc. What most of you guys seem to keep forgetting is that at the SC her job is to make you feel good and special and make u feel like the wonderful man, no matter what, and keep you company, take her cloth of for u etc, this is what you are paying her for!! You are buying a “fantasy”.

    Trying to pick up a stripper at SC is next to impossible. The only way that is going to happened is SHE picking you up!! If a stripper truly likes and really wants to be with you, she will tell you she wants to met you outside the club, she will call the shots. There is no secret way to pick up a stripper at a strip club or outside of the club, you just have sit back and wait for her to come to you. And how do I know this!! Because it happened to me! and this how I found my GF who I love with all my hart ☺!!!! Ohh and just because she is a stripper does not mean she is any more wild in bed then a devoted true catholic women

    Ps. My reason for asking my other questions in the past has been to get opinion form other people in the industry, and what is norm and not even though my gf works in SC does not make me any less curious about it, and I like to know what other people who are stippers or have gf in the industry thinks, I don’t see anything wrong with this

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    ^ While I agree with pretty much everything you just posted I think you need to understand why your other posts got some of the reactions that they did...

    Your questions don't exist in a vacuum. Guys show up here on practically a daily basis who either want to know the magic formula for dating dancers or who are dating a dancer and don't think they can trust her. Oddly enough, even the guys who are dating dancers can be judgmental idiots sometimes. Your questions may be based on simple curiosity but the members here have seen it all and heard it all. To be honest, some of us, including myself, are pretty skeptical when a newb shows up asking questions like yours. Our "oh no, not another one" radar goes up and we respond accordingly. I think most folks here have accepted your questions here but there are always going to be a broad range of responses when you show up on any open forum...
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    ^ While I agree with pretty much everything you just posted I think you need to understand why your other posts got some of the reactions that they did...

    Your questions don't exist in a vacuum. Guys show up here on practically a daily basis who either want to know the magic formula for dating dancers or who are dating a dancer and don't think they can trust her. Oddly enough, even the guys who are dating dancers can be judgmental idiots sometimes. Your questions may be based on simple curiosity but the members here have seen it all and heard it all. To be honest, some of us, including myself, are pretty skeptical when a newb shows up asking questions like yours. Our "oh no, not another one" radar goes up and we respond accordingly. I think most folks here have accepted your questions here but there are always going to be a broad range of responses when you show up on any open forum...
    Thank you Yoda, and i Understand you guys very well. and majority of you have answered in non judgmental way. I am for Real and I don´t pretend or live in fantasy world) I Appreciate what you are saying and look forward to be "accept" by you as equal as time goes buy. Happy New Year

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    Default Re: Truth about Dating a Stripper

    I gotta be honest, when I saw the title, my first thought: "Again, w/this">


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    ^^ditto.

    But it turned out to be not so bad.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Guys show up here on practically a daily basis ...
    That is the basic problem IMHO. They want to date the dancers. But the said dancer exists only inside the club, for 5-6 hours, 3-4 days a week. At any other time, she is not the dancer these guys want to date. She is someone else and they know nothing about that person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimba71 View Post
    Ok here it goes!!!)

    ......She will have her mod swings, PMS, ask you to take out the Garbage ask you ten times to change light bole, etc.

    Oh gee willikers - is that what I'm supposed to do?
    I'd better get right on that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimba71 View Post
    Thank you Yoda, and i Understand you guys very well. and majority of you have answered in non judgmental way. I am for Real and I don´t pretend or live in fantasy world) I Appreciate what you are saying and look forward to be "accept" by you as equal as time goes buy. Happy New Year
    No need to be accepted by hanging with a stripper....just be yourself & hope she doesn't use baby with me

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    Quote Originally Posted by just4you View Post
    That is the basic problem IMHO. They want to date the dancers. But the said dancer exists only inside the club, for 5-6 hours, 3-4 days a week. At any other time, she is not the dancer these guys want to date. She is someone else and they know nothing about that person.
    That's all very true and the ladies know that. It's one of the reasons that guys who think they can just go in and act like it's a singles bar crash n' burn. I've been fortunate to meet some great ladies in clubs but in all cases it was a connection that developed over time. Guys who go in looking for a one night stand are laughed at!
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    ^^^very true especially if she is good...because that is what is looked for!

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    Thanky u and happy New Year everyone, may all goos things happend to u all see u all in 2012....heheheheh

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