I agree that it's much better to be found by a SD in real life, no doubt. But if you *are* going to be a on site, I think the best thing you can do is to at least wait to be approached first. These guys (even the hideous ones), get a million emails a day from women. It's like they're finally getting their revenge for the regular sites like match and eharmony where they feel like they always have to be the ones to email first. They send out a million emails to women, and hardly get a reply. On this site, they get to kick back and wait for the messages to roll in. Blech. At least if they approach you first, on the off chance they *are* for real, they've approached YOU first, increasing the probability of their interest level.



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I'm sure the sum of "Why Men Love Bitches" basically boils down to not being the pursuer. If you behave as if you need someone, you give them too much power.
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