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    Okay so this wild idea popped into my head about a week ago about possibly hiring a male escort just to pleasure me. Some of you are wondering why I would do this well I guess Iam tired of all these selfish a-holes who have no idea of how to satisfy a woman, and plus I guess the whole discretion thing is a plus. Well I know if someone responds they will tell me it is a stupid and dangerous idea. If one of you has done it let me know how the experience was. I mean men do it so why can't women do it as well.....

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    Default Re: Has anybody hired a male escort? If so do tell

    Men do it because women generally don't run around looking to fuck men. If so this site wouldn't exist and none of us would have jobs.

    So to answer your question: No I haven't
    Many men are selfish assholes so my advice would be to invest in some toys and get off yourself. It's truly the gift that keeps on giving.

    Now don't get me wrong, I've watched "Hung" so the thought did cross my mind. However did anyone remember that episode where that girl just couldn't get off? He has a big c*** but he still had to figure out what would work for each individual woman. Even in that hour you pay , you may still leave unsatisfied and lighter in the purse.

    I don't know I think it would be better to find a man that you find attractive, has a nice c*** and tell him you want to f*** alot but he needs to be patient. You want to try some fun new things but you need a man that can be patient enough to learn what you need. Since you're not looking for a relationship you may want to join a site where you're ok with being open about that.

    Then again she can just randomly sleep with many men to find one that puts in the work. She may learn more for free along the journey than 1 hour with Duke could provide. Who knows.

    Use lube when necessary.

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    Good point. I was going to say I have a friend who is a bonified sugar baby. But, I believe he gets 'taken care of' more for his ability to be a pleasing accessory in public, than how he can please in bed.
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    Doc is this the movie again?

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    I don't think anyone here will tell you its a stupid idea. Just play safe and have fun. I like the idea of it too, but not sure if I'd ever do it.

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    Well cherry I have thought about your valid points that you make that of course Iam risking the idea of not being pleased and leaving with a lighter purse. But here in L.A. guys here are a-holes and jerks, what can i say I am a loser and jerk magnet for some reason I guess I have bad luck with the fellas. Eventhough you advise me against doing it, believe me with previous partners I have communicated with them what I like in bed and what I dont like and it seems to make them more selfish in fulfilling their own needs instead of my own hence my status as being single and not dating at the moment, I just not rather put up with guys like that and just be single. It takes communication and maturity to fulfill each others needs I think.

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    Well toys I am not too fond of toys I prefer the real thing eventhough toys will eventually get the job done.

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    What can I say I am a woman and this woman needs a MAN not a boy. I think it would hard though to find a handsome man witha great body and c*** to have sex on a consistent basis but then again men here in L.A. are very pretentious and picky I think about thier partners or future girlfriends. I think though men dont respond well to me is because I am a nice but assertive female who will not put up with their b.s., games and drama. Don't get me wrong guys tell me I am cute we talk and exchange numbers they call once have a conversation they get to know me and never call back which is funny but eventually I forget and move on. Although cherry like you said look for a handsome guy and get it for free eventually telling that I want to f*** alot seems possible but impossible. I guess what I am saying that I want a beef cake hunky guy who can handle this thick curvy brunette who can give me physical exhausting sex that will leave me with a big smile on my face and his.

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    Trust.... Doc Holliday eventhough you might think I am a fool for paying for sex when I can get it for free I am not that foolish enough to support him by taking him on dates and trips and paying his bills. But it is hard finding good quality men to satisfy me in bed. I think it is just better just to pay him for sex and he could leave without hearing his drama, and b.s.

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    No, no, no! I wasn't implying you were a fool at all. There is no shame in paying to get what you want. Cherry's post just made me realize my gigolo friend probably isn't too good in bed and is more a pretty face to have around.
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    I was just thinking it may be more beneficial to seek out one of those Tantric Workshops. Seems like men go to these looking for women that may be open to long hours of sex. Or maybe you can be an escort and tell the guy when he gets there that you'll sleep with him for free as long as he does you good. There are men that would be ooh so happy for free sex especially if they expected to pay for it. Even being a sugar baby and hooking up with fake sugar daddies could prove to be beneficial. Just tell them when you meet that you don't want any financial assistance at all as long as they can please you in bed. Hell fake sd's would be lining up to get a taste. Some ladies have posted that they put up ads on clist for no strings attached sex. They were surprised how some men became sugar daddies when they weren't looking for financial support at all.

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    I have a few friends who escort (one is husband/wife team) and he is 100% hot! plus great in bed. spends hours massaging and foreplay, able to shag for hours on end without 'finishing' himself.
    Hes really busy, and ironically many of his female customers are also escorts, who want to be pampered for a change
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    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    LA, no wonder. Lol. LA guys so rub me(no pun) the wrong way. always. Ugh! I don't blame you. I'd get out of LA.

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    Oh no Doc im not mad or offended at all but that is true some women prefer the company of a good arm candy eventhough he is lousy in bed. That is true though some women do become their sugar mama's I don't think I would do that though. Iam not one to support a man.

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    Wow sexy celeste what a lucky woman Iam totally envious of your friend sounds like a real man. So sad though are lacking here in L.A.

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    Well cherry that is a good idea going to a tantric workshop might look into it. But about asking a male escort to have sex with me for free I might be wrong but its not likely he will do it for free most likely he will charge after all that is profession as far as I know. As for craigslist that I am skeptical about posting an ad for N.S.A.S. since cl does have a bad reputation. As for looking for sugar daddies on cl I have gone through personals there and most of these guys are looking for a model type female you know gorgeous goddess. No judgement there it is just their preference but then again who is perfect no one. But I will think about that idea and possibly try it out i'll see.

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    Oh Vyanka I so totally know what you are talking about especially in hollywood they are worse they rub me the wrong way as well. Total jerks and snobs they think they are god's gift to women hahaha so hilarious. Actually i have thought abou leaving L.A. and trying out new scenery but who knows what maybe I will maybe I won't. Its funny though when I go to Vegas I better luck some men do approach me and talk to me I guess because they are in relaxed state of mind and just are having fun, eventhough it sounds nieve.

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    I've tried out escorts here in LA & in Vegas, but my escorts were ladies.
    And they were FABULOUS !

    But that won't help you in your quest, I'm afraid.

    Good luck to you

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    well lopaw question for you are females escorts picky with their females partners?

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    Well I went ona search for male escorts in L.A, and I found one on a website sorry can't post the name on here I dont want to get in trouble. So I called and he responded to my message that I left he was kind of a jerk and I think he is just doing it for an ego boost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by s0calbrunette View Post
    well lopaw question for you are females escorts picky with their females partners?


    I was fortunate that after some serious browsing thru various websites & craigslist, I found some great escorts that not only knew what they were doing, but seemed to "specialize" in ladies & couples. I'll admit that at first one escort thought I was a cop, but after a looooong chat with her I convinced her otherwise. She turned out to be the best encounter that I have had to date.

    Yes, they were picky with me, but probably more on for suspicions of me being LE than the fear of me being a serial killer or a creep. A different type of hurdle for us ladies-for-ladies to deal with .

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    Quote Originally Posted by s0calbrunette View Post
    Well cherry that is a good idea going to a tantric workshop might look into it. But about asking a male escort to have sex with me for free I might be wrong but its not likely he will do it for free most likely he will charge after all that is profession as far as I know. As for craigslist that I am skeptical about posting an ad for N.S.A.S. since cl does have a bad reputation. As for looking for sugar daddies on cl I have gone through personals there and most of these guys are looking for a model type female you know gorgeous goddess. No judgement there it is just their preference but then again who is perfect no one. But I will think about that idea and possibly try it out i'll see.

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    Ohh no I meant to be a FEMALE escort and offer to give free services.

    I would never suggest to get free sex from a male escort, mainly because he's doing a job that he's typically used to getting compensated for. So offer services but have free sex. Just wait until they get there and say : I don't want your money , let's just have sex. That's it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    I've tried out escorts here in LA & in Vegas, but my escorts were ladies.
    And they were FABULOUS !

    But that won't help you in your quest, I'm afraid.

    Good luck to you
    I'm so curious about this experience!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    I was fortunate that after some serious browsing thru various websites & craigslist, I found some great escorts that not only knew what they were doing, but seemed to "specialize" in ladies & couples. I'll admit that at first one escort thought I was a cop, but after a looooong chat with her I convinced her otherwise. She turned out to be the best encounter that I have had to date.

    Yes, they were picky with me, but probably more on for suspicions of me being LE than the fear of me being a serial killer or a creep. A different type of hurdle for us ladies-for-ladies to deal with .
    I'm curious why a woman would need a female escort. I was thinking that a woman goes to a regular club,chats and takes someone home. I've been taken to a few girl clubs as the designated "straight" person. Girls were pretty much hooking up left and right. I mean I was looking around and noticing that it seems so easy compared to straight clubs. I've been to maybe one gay male club and it looked exactly the same in that there wasn't any bs.

    To me of course it seemed like one kick ass slumber party or girl power pow wow. For the ladies for ladies it was "the spot".

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    ^ Wanting an escort often has nothing to do with one's inability to get laid. The fringe benefits are the ones that matter. Being able to purchase something and know what you're getting, having the person leave after it's done, NSA sex, etc.

    There's also something nice about paying someone to do something. I feel much more comfortable paying a masseuse for a 1-hour massage than asking my SO to give me such a long, intense, tiring massage (in which case I'd worry about his hands getting tired, being too demanding, etc.).

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