My ex approached me about 3 weeks ago asking me if I would like to go out with him sometime and catch up. I was completely direct with him and asked him what his intentions were. He stated right now he just wants to sleep with me. I saw him for the first time in 8 months last thursday. We've spent everyday together since. But I haven't slept with him..farthest weve gotten is kissing and heavy petting.
He had asked me where i would be spending new years eve, i told him my plans and that it would be nice for him to go as well. Next thing i know, he shows up there and we spent the whole nite together and went home together as well. He introduced me to some new friends of his, and kept calling me the nicknames he used to when we were together. It felt like we were pretty much back to normal.
When i got back to his house, he asked if i was seeing anyone i told him im not...but he did tell me he just started talking to someone, but they are not exclusive and its a fairly new "thing". He also added that she had asked him to spend NYE with her, but he declined. When i asked him why his response was "I thought you would have wanted to spend it with me" (doesnt equate to "just wanting to sleep with me")
I absolutely know he wants to sleep with me...and he stated that those were his ONLY intentions. Now I am beyond confused, because we have spent all this time together, and not slept with each other.
I have to mention our history, bc I think it does play a huge part in everything. He broke up with me around april because he found out i was cheating on him. It was a REALLY BAD breakup, and i really did hurt him. Ive apologized so many times and told him ive changed and would never do it again. He finally said he forgave me about 4 weeks ago. I asked him if he would give me antoher chance and he replied "i dont know, but i cant right now"
Now my questions are....out of allllllll the women to sleep with, why would he come back to me (especially if hes starting to see someone)?
And why has he not slept with me yet, if that was his only intention?
What could his intentions really be???



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