Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 31

Thread: I feel no connection to my boobs

  1. #1
    Featured Member Addison's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    807
    Thanks
    98
    Thanked 1,351 Times in 407 Posts

    Default I feel no connection to my boobs

    They just don't feel 'private' to me. They're about as personal as an elbow. I don't care who sees them. I don't care if someone touches them (although I don't allow it in the club, simply because no other girls do and I don't want to negatively impact the club environment).

    I felt this way even before dancing, but it definitely started after I got my BA.

    Did anyone else start feeling this way after a boob job or am I just weird? Could this be unhealthy?

  2. #2
    Featured Member Addison's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    807
    Thanks
    98
    Thanked 1,351 Times in 407 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Ugh, this thread is stupid. I want it deleted.

    I'm gonna start thinking before posting threads. I swear.

  3. #3
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I feel that way about mine too, sad to say. I let customers touch ONLY in the CR and I upsell, upsell upsell.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  4. #4
    Senior Member bmodel84's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2011
    Location
    In a fantasy
    Posts
    122
    Thanks
    157
    Thanked 111 Times in 55 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Oh, I think I understand how you feel. I think a lot of us prob do. I think were just kinda cold to it now, I know I am anyway.

  5. #5
    Featured Member Addison's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    807
    Thanks
    98
    Thanked 1,351 Times in 407 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by bmodel84 View Post
    Oh, I think I understand how you feel. I think a lot of us prob do. I think were just kinda cold to it now, I know I am anyway.
    Yeah, after I posted it, I was like ... Hmmm.... I'm on a board full of sexy entertainers who are topless all night...

  6. #6
    Senior Member bmodel84's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2011
    Location
    In a fantasy
    Posts
    122
    Thanks
    157
    Thanked 111 Times in 55 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Yeah, but it is strange to come to the realization that theyre not so private anymore. So I can sympathize totally.

  7. #7
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Sometimes at the gym when I'm doing stretches I can rest my chin on my tits and hear the ocean
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  8. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to tempest666 For This Useful Post:


  9. #8
    God/dess cherryblossomsinspring's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    3,244
    Thanks
    2,454
    Thanked 4,800 Times in 1,707 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I remember out of high school a friend of mine got a boob job. She was running around showing her breasts to everyone. Even at parties she was flashing people and letting people men and woman alike touch them. It was almost as if she didn't consider them real or even hers any longer. So yeah I kinda see what you're saying about your post. An elbow is about right.

  10. #9
    God/dess papillonluvr's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2006
    Location
    japan
    Posts
    3,724
    Thanks
    315
    Thanked 1,186 Times in 703 Posts
    My Mood
    Goofy

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    No, I get it. It's other people's reactions that make me realize some things are private. Otherwise I regard them about as private as....yeah, an elbow lol
    "You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories -Stainslaw J. Lec

    Confuscius say: "Man who pull bra stap get bust in face"


  11. #10
    Featured Member luscious sadie's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2010
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    1,586
    Thanks
    1,166
    Thanked 2,383 Times in 779 Posts
    My Mood
    Busy

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    PS- is this just your boob, or nipple too? I don't mind if people touch the squishy part of the boob as much, I don't like it but I can tolerate it for $$$ but them touching the nipple makes me throw up. Curious to hear how you guys view your boobs vs. nipples.
    my nipples are very sensitive and I don't let guys touch that area. Sometimes they do and when they do I get angry. If I'm making a lot of money that night I can shrug it off but it's like insult to injury when I'm not making money. It feels horrible and has impacted my sex life in a really big way. I think that my body will not go back to "normal" until long after I dance or until I find a way to change how my body interprets the sensation of nipple touching. It's like I managed to train it to think "AWFUL BAD FEELING" instead of "mm that's nice".

    fuck those men who try to "break the rules", too. I might start being a little bit meaner when I go back to dancing.
    [/center]

    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    Money can't buy happiness, but poverty can't buy shit.

  12. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to luscious sadie For This Useful Post:


  13. #11
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Down Under
    Posts
    2,078
    Thanks
    4,898
    Thanked 2,463 Times in 1,135 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    [quote=Addison;2276275]They just don't feel 'private' to me. They're about as personal as an elbow. quote]

    ^I also feel this way.

  14. #12
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I have nipple piercings and I fucking HATE it when people try to see if I still have sensitivity. Boob fine, nipple, stay the fuck away unless I tell you too.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  15. The Following User Says Thank You to tempest666 For This Useful Post:


  16. #13
    Moderator Jessie_tinydancer's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    4,149
    Thanks
    1,307
    Thanked 2,530 Times in 1,295 Posts
    My Mood
    Sick

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    MY breasts are not private now and they weren't private before. I just like showing off my boobs and any part of my body. I have no "personal" parts haha. Never did. Exhibitionist. So many people touch my boobies now cause my implants I said to my roommate today "If I knew so many people would touch my boobs after getting implants, I woulda got them for that reason alone". I love my boobs and I love my body - its here for the world to love and appreciate IMO
    Last edited by Jessie_tinydancer; 01-05-2012 at 02:17 PM.

  17. The Following User Says Thank You to Jessie_tinydancer For This Useful Post:


  18. #14
    Moderator Jessie_tinydancer's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    4,149
    Thanks
    1,307
    Thanked 2,530 Times in 1,295 Posts
    My Mood
    Sick

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I have nipple piercings and I fucking HATE it when people try to see if I still have sensitivity. Boob fine, nipple, stay the fuck away unless I tell you too.
    Soooo annoying I hate it when people ask if they are still sensitive. I don't know a single person who did lose sensitivity... fuck grow up... yes I have implants, yes they are sensitive and yes bask in their glorious perfection mother fucker. Less talking, more wallet emptying.

  19. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Jessie_tinydancer For This Useful Post:


  20. #15
    God/dess shanna dior's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2008
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    4,980
    Thanks
    621
    Thanked 6,894 Times in 2,672 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I've never felt that my boobs were a big deal, even before dancing, and I don't have fakes FWIW.

  21. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to shanna dior For This Useful Post:


  22. #16
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Soooo annoying I hate it when people ask if they are still sensitive. I don't know a single person who did lose sensitivity... fuck grow up... yes I have implants, yes they are sensitive and yes bask in their glorious perfection mother fucker. Less talking, more wallet emptying.

    dude I am soooooo siggying this!!!!
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  23. #17
    Moderator Miss_McKenna's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2007
    Posts
    1,892
    Thanks
    82
    Thanked 825 Times in 437 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I haven't had a BA, but I definitely feel the same way. To me they're just another body part that isn't anything special.


  24. #18
    Veteran Member Doc Holliday's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2011
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    559
    Thanks
    804
    Thanked 248 Times in 133 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    I used to feel this way when I started dancing. Now that I'm a year in I can't stand guys touching my boobs. It's weird. Hopefully when I get my implants I'll be more disconnected because if I don't allow boob touching I'm missing out on hella money.

    PS- is this just your boob, or nipple too? I don't mind if people touch the squishy part of the boob as much, I don't like it but I can tolerate it for $$$ but them touching the nipple makes me throw up. Curious to hear how you guys view your boobs vs. nipples.
    When you get your BA, have them remove the nipples.
    Nope silly, its just a persona that entertains the masses, yourself included. - KS_Stevia

    - -
    (everything I post should be considered a work of fiction)

  25. #19
    Banned
    Joined
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Colorado!
    Posts
    6,053
    Thanks
    3,775
    Thanked 3,701 Times in 1,713 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    ^^ There are days that I wish I could have my nipples removed. I hate them being touched. It makes me gag.

  26. #20
    Featured Member LaurenAus's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Posts
    1,361
    Thanks
    4,892
    Thanked 1,925 Times in 737 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    i lost some of my nipple sensitivity after my first ba then went to a better doc for a revision and ive lost almost all the sensitivity. I don't clearly remember what nipple sensation only that it felt great and that its sort of a bummer i dont have it anymore and its been a couple years since my revision

  27. #21
    Veteran Member Doc Holliday's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2011
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    559
    Thanks
    804
    Thanked 248 Times in 133 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I think more dancers should twist the shit out of the customer nipples who touch theirs. Be sure they pay up first, of course.
    Nope silly, its just a persona that entertains the masses, yourself included. - KS_Stevia

    - -
    (everything I post should be considered a work of fiction)

  28. #22
    Featured Member LaurenAus's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Posts
    1,361
    Thanks
    4,892
    Thanked 1,925 Times in 737 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    I think more dancers should twist the shit out of the customer nipples who touch theirs. Be sure they pay up first, of course.
    or just aim for the balls!

  29. #23
    Banned
    Joined
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Aboard The Spaceship
    Posts
    4,787
    Thanks
    3,183
    Thanked 10,142 Times in 3,290 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    ^^ There are days that I wish I could have my nipples removed. I hate them being touched. It makes me gag.
    I am THE SAME WAY!!! I think its SO gross! And I think its even grosser when older men try to touch them in an attempt to turn me on in a SC! As if being grabby pervies wasn't enough for their pathetic ass, they HAVE to go for the nipple. EW. Back away. Good thing I always wear really padded bras so I can't even feel anything when their hand sneaks up & goes for the nipple. Eww. If I get implants, I hope I lose ALL nipple sensation.

  30. #24
    Senior Member Rileygrl06's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2011
    Location
    California
    Posts
    93
    Thanks
    14
    Thanked 51 Times in 29 Posts
    My Mood
    Happy

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    I don't have implants but I feel the same way as the OP. I've never felt my breasts were a sexual part of me...They're just kind of there. Pulling out my boobs, no problem...but even after almost six years of dancing (at a nude club), I still don't like getting fully nude. I feel perfectly clothed in a g-string, but take that away and I definitely feel naked. That area is still very private for me. If customers touch my breasts a little its okay I guess, but I do not like it when they try to squeeze the hell out of them and I HATE when guys try to touch, flick, pinch, blow, or lick on my nipples. It feels really awkward for me and not to mention...eww, gross! Freaking perverts, ugh.

  31. #25
    Veteran Member pink_bunny's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Location
    the land of fantasy
    Posts
    571
    Thanks
    349
    Thanked 778 Times in 185 Posts

    Default Re: I feel no connection to my boobs

    i normally feel a blatant detatchment when it comes to my breasts and showing them and generally touching, (cr excepted) but when it comes around my period, they are THERE and sensitive so anyone who dares touch them( including bf) gets an angry swipe and a evil glare. maybe even a smack. lol

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Internet Connection?
    By BuffyFlame in forum Camming Connection
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 10-23-2014, 03:46 PM
  2. the cooking connection
    By Lola Rose in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 06-07-2007, 07:54 AM
  3. Geography Connection
    By RoseDelight in forum Member Boards
    Replies: 1174
    Last Post: 09-28-2006, 10:56 AM
  4. Empty boobs sacs/ boobs just for work?
    By scarlett_vancouver in forum Body Business
    Replies: 28
    Last Post: 06-10-2006, 08:47 AM
  5. New boobs feel very heavy
    By Paris in forum Body Business
    Replies: 13
    Last Post: 11-01-2004, 08:14 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •