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    Has this happened to any of you? I was in VIP when the guy I was dancing for began undoing his belt buckle and asking 'what else do I get?'. I gave him a look and got off of him immediately. Suddenly he gets up disgruntled and speaks with a host. Before I know it they refunded him his money and I got nothing. It was 200 dollars mind you. I have refused to go back to this place, but now I'm afraid that it will happen again someplace else. I have always tipped the staff there and I am amazed they took his side. I origionally chose to dance here because the other clubs in town are well know for giving customers their money back. Now my club has recently decided to do the same. Wtf. Have refunds ever happened to you??

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    It's never happened to me personally but it has happened to a couple of girls I know.

    I've found that if the customer is a regular and/ or a big spender the club tends to side with them in order to keep them happy and coming back to the club.

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    WHAT?? That's bullshit! After he acted liked a total PIG, then they back him up? I have never heard of this..one club I'd worked at, if someone complained,, they listened, but mainly always sided w/dancer..wtf that's awful I am sorry this happened

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    At my club the customer (if paying in cash) pays the manager the clubs half and the dancer her half for VIP rooms so the girls are handed their cash.

    I once slipped up and took this man up to the room and then asked for my cut, once I did he started asking questions like if there were any more private rooms (as our rooms have tinted glass doors) he started saying how anyone walking by could see us and he wouldn't be comfortable having sex. I nearly chked and proceeded to say sorry but in our club we don't do the extras... he got pissy and i said look if you don't want the room then your welcome to walk out. He did and even got his money from the manager back after lying and telling him I was refusing to dance for him. Luckily my manager knew better and asked me after the guy left and i told him how he was looking for sex. Never got my money though if he had handed t to me though he wouldn't have gotten it back. We're completely allowed to walk out of a room if the man is breaking rules or has been warned too many times.

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    Yup. Had a guy try ripping my thong off n fingering me and I nearly broke his finger, then he said that he was tired and didnt feel like staying. He was one of those sleazeballs that got all buddy with the manager to get away with things. The manager did give me a percentage of the cost $60 tho..

    Another club will try to talk the guy out of leaving and act like he is crazy for not having a good time, force more alcohol on them, and as a last resort swap out girls. However, guys have gotten totally irrate and some refuse to leave after seeing the bill and realizing he never took his pants off. So if a club is reluctant to call police, they'll probably just shush the guy up but giving money back.

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    You're an IC - you set your rates and your bounaries. The club had no right to take money away from you. Disgusting.



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    Happened to me once and will never happen again. I posted it on here I think. To make it short, guy was asking for extras, I clearly said no, later he finds me and says he still wants to room (agreeing to the no sex) and when we got in there he took his pants off after about 10 minutes. I told him to get dressed, and went for a bouncer. For whatever reason they gave him ALL the money back, which was bullshit because I'd been in the room a third of the time already.

    You have to remember you are in control, when they start getting stupid tell them to sit their ass down and enjoy what they're getting or walk out and get nothing because the room is paid for already. I learned its best to maintain control of the situation and avoid going to a bouncer/manager because as long as you're in control, you're not putting a refund on the table as an option, so its just not going to happen.

    I'm going to edit my post and add: I'm not at all recommending that you NEVER get a bouncer. If he is getting aggressive or you cannot maintain control of the situation or if you even FEEL you're in danger, get your ass out of there. Money isn't worth your well-being or life. But if its a douchebag like the one I got, stick to your guns. Just always be ready to haul ass and don't get fucked over like me.
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    They refunded his money? That is bullshit, imo. I don't understand why the club would do this, especially since he wanted something that is absolutely illegal!

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    Once, at Perfect Ten in Austin. At my club now, there is a very visible sign that says NO REFUNDS.

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    That would never happen here. Once the time/dance has started then he can walk out whenever he wants but won't see a penny of his money again.

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    We would NEVER refund!! I remain in control all times, I tell him the rules very carefully and get him to agree to them before the dance starts. If he's getting too touchy, I will stop the dance and warn him STRONGLY that if I even suspect he's going to break the rules I will walk out, because i've got my money!

    I think the key is to be strong, confident, and constantly remind them that you're in control!

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    This NEVER happened to me either & my current club doesn't do this shit, thank God. They side with the strippers all the way. I know it happens a lot in some clubs. My old club does this a lot. These assholes are spoiled by dumb managers. UGH. The nerve of them.

    And the shit this assholes complain about...

    My old manager from my previous club told me that a customer wanted his money back bc he got a shitty BJ from the dancer. LOL...OMG, what!!

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    ^^^^^ WTF!?!?!?!
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    I remember a guy asked for a refund because I didn't fuck him , and there were no showers in the lapdance room. Huh?? Our lapdance area was tiny (the whole club was tiny!) , not to mention I told the idiot he wouldn't get a shower or sex before we did the VIP. He didn't get his money back btw, the manager just laughed at him and told him to leave. He had the nerve to act like he had been scammed! Loser

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    Quote Originally Posted by vyanka View Post
    my old manager from my previous club told me that a customer wanted his money back bc he got a shitty bj from the dancer. Lol...omg, what!!

    holy shit this is my new signature.

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    Lol... True story. Sadly.

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    The stories in this thread make me nauseated. The worst I've had was to have a guy agree for half and hour (at the end of the night) and telling me he thought I "wanted him back in the VIP just to talk"- then he took off (pushed me aside and ran out the back door). I was bummed, but got over it after a few weeks. I realize it could have been WAY worse.

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    OMG. i had to do this tonight, refund 500 to the guy. i was so pissed

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    I would have quit the place. I don't understand why they would want to keep him happy since he is a regular or whatever he is, if he is looking for more than a dance. Your manager is disgusting. I remember I had a dance with some dude who was trying for force his finger in me. I stepped out and they refunded half his money but I kept my half. Still I was disgusted. How can they entertain that behavior? I was done with that spot. At least the club that I'm at now is strictly no refunds.

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    Im so sorry that happened to you and was completely unfair for you to have lost out. In my club, once they've gone into the dance/VIP room and handed over the money, its gone and they never see it again. I had a VIP (15 mins for £70, about $110) which lasted approx 2.5 mins cause once he's tried to touch and id told him twice he couldnt, he took umbrdge at the bouncer stood watching so walked out!

    This is not my story or club but one my sister told me had happened at her club...Two guys took two girls into the VIP room, paid up for half an hour and about ten minutes later two police men appeared at the door of the club, came in and were talking to the manager. Much fluster later the two men in the vip room were escorted out. Turns out, the customers had rung the police because they were angry that the dancers wouldnt give them a blowjob after theyd paid for "VIP!! Everyone knows you get head in VIP!! Thats why its so expensive!!" Yeeeah, they didnt get their money back and spent a night in the cells for attempting to solicit women for prostitution, wasting police time and being disorderly in a public place! lol x
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    ^ yay!

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