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    Default Guys are weird >:(

    This is mostly just a rant about ratings. Grrrrr. So as a couple of you already know, tonight I got my first 1 star rating. I get almost exclusively 5 star ratings so I was a little pissed, especially because I did everything he asked and he seemed to be enjoying himself. Then it happened AGAIN not too long after that. From a different guy. Even though I did everything he asked, the show wasn't a poorer quality then any other and I felt good about it. Then another guy comes into my room and he's acting sort of obnoxious, and leaves within a few minutes, so I'm thinking "what, is he gonna rate me a 1 too?" and he rated me a 5! Then another guy rated me a 1 after being in my room for like a MINUTE because the phone wasn't working. When I picked up it was just a long beeping sound (nothing wrong with my phone, I've been using it fine). I asked him politely if he wanted to try again and of course he decided to just leave and rate me a 1. Bastard. It just fucking sucks because I've never had a low rating and all the sudden I get 3 1's in just a few hours. I'm not sure if SM was having technical problems and they decided to blame me for them...or if they're just assholes. Who knows...do they not understand that those ratings affect us? Rant over.....

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    Men are basterds, they think with their cocks and if anything goes wrong, they cant be arsed to "fix" it so they leave as fast as possible to the next girl..

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    The same thing happened to me last week. These arrogant pricks do it on purpose because I do the same show and I normally get 5's. They don't come back so you can't block them afterwards either. I think SM should not allow them to rate us at all. We should be rated by how much time we work and logging in everyday not from stupid ass guys. Even if you tell SM they don't do nothing about it so I guess its something we have to deal with. It sucks. Eventually you may have to find a site that doesn't let them rate. Just my opinion.

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    Oh well. Most of those weirdos expect that we undress ourselves and fuck ourselves and make em cum in one sec.
    Or they are just frustrated and they give us a bad ratings for good shows.

    Maybe they are frustraded cause they spend too much money on camgirls.. lol.. so the bad ratings is a good way for revenge. omg. who could understand them..

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    or if they're allowed to rate us, at least be like AW and have it where we can dispute and do our own rating of them

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    ho ho ho...
    Now that would be interesting.
    Or wait a minute.. wasting our time on rating that frustrated guys... not..

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    That happened to me last week. I got a bunch of bad ratings.

    Just e-mail Streamate. List the ratings that you want removed, the customers' usernames, and the time and date of the shows.

    They will remove the ratings. They usually just do it w/o looking at anything. But if you're asking to have a few of them removed, they'll go thru ur chat logs. They'll see that you didn't do anything wrong and they'll remove them.

    Edit to add: also list the reason that you got the bad rating (ie. no anal even tho my profile says no anal, asked for pee, didn't make any requests then gave bad rating)
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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    As Jess said, email support about it. I got my first 1 star rating a week or so back from someone who was in my show for less than a minute and SM got rid of the rating for me.
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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    Dont worry about the bad ratings.. you;re a godess, thats all that matters
    if anyone asks why u only have 3 4 stars and not 5, tell them the more privates u get, the more stars u earn.. and u just were not online that much lately....
    lil lies dont hurt anybody...

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    If you get enough 5 star ratings the low ones don't matter. I just make a note of it when a guy leaves a bad rating and either block him if he comes back (if it was like a 1 or 2 star), or I ask him nicely why he only rated me 3-4 stars. I'm probably in the minority here, but I feel like it's a waste of time to email support about a few low ratings, just do more privates and you'll get some 5 stars to make up for it

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    Thanks guys

    Yeah, I emailed Liz and the streamate support people about them last night. Haven't heard back from them yet.

    I think ratings should be like, approved instead of automatically added. Then again I guess they wouldn't want to manually approve everyone's ratings. Meh...I dunno. Maybe low ratings should be manually approved and they have to add a comment as to why. That would be nice, not like SM is gonna change anytime soon lol.

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    Default Re: Guys are weird >:(

    That's cool that SM will remove bad ratings I didn't know that. I just started using SM more and my rating finally went up from a 4 rating which we start out with to a 5 and I was so happy. Then I kept checking my ratings after each show, because it sort of boosts my ego up a bit lol. I had several 5's in a row, and then bam a 3. Then a few more 5's and another 3. I just shrugged it off and kept going. It sucks though to see lower ratings.

    In a sense though SM's rating system is better IMO then MFC. With MFC you really have to kill yourself to keep your score up. If you are logged on and not making anything, your score goes down. At least with SM we can be on for a while and it doesn't matter until someone rates us.




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    Quote Originally Posted by neliana View Post
    If you get enough 5 star ratings the low ones don't matter. I just make a note of it when a guy leaves a bad rating and either block him if he comes back (if it was like a 1 or 2 star), or I ask him nicely why he only rated me 3-4 stars. I'm probably in the minority here, but I feel like it's a waste of time to email support about a few low ratings, just do more privates and you'll get some 5 stars to make up for it
    I think that you're generally right about it being a waste of time, but I'm not going to say it's bad that ratings are important to some people. If a model prides herself on her 5 star rating, I'll just give her advice to help her keep that rating.

    But I will tell you that, in reality, a single bad rating won't affect your overall rating. When I was new I got about 12 five-star ratings. Right when I was about to log off, some jerk gave me a 1 star rating for no reason. I was already in a session, he jumped in, left. My rating was still 5 stars.

    Also, Neliana is right about the average. I get bad ratings every single week and I still have 4.5 stars. The ratings drop off after 90 days. So any bad ratings I got before that point no longer even show up on the guy's profiles. I only ask to have ratings removed if I get a bunch in one week.

    If a guy gives me anything below 4 stars, I block him. I don't care about his reason for doing it. I don't put on a 3 star, 2 star, or 1 star show. If you think I do, chances are you didn't read my profile and that's your fault. Or you're having a bad day and taking it out on me. Anyone who gives me a 4 star is welcome to come back, but if he gives me more than 1 of those, he's banned. Everyone has their own system, but that's how I operate. If a guy gives me 4 stars, the next time he comes in I say something about it and he either doesn't rate or gives me 5 stars.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    Maybe low ratings should be manually approved and they have to add a comment as to why. That would be nice, not like SM is gonna change anytime soon lol.
    The models get thousands of ratings every day. They would have to hire at least one person to only go thru chat logs.

    And believe me, you don't want to know the guys' reasons. Sometimes I wish I could know why I got a bad rating, but weeks later when a comment still hadn't shown up on my profile, I'm just grateful the guy chose not to leave a comment.

    Also, I would just be angry all the time if guys were leaving comments like "she's ugly, don't pay her" or "she wouldn't do anything I asked her to do." Instead, I can just tell myself that they're all illiterate jerks and move on with my day.

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